I know this question was asked not too long ago but what do guys prefer hair "down there" on a girl? Trimmed or shaved? But lets just say if I did shave all of it off lol, do I just have to shave it whenever it's growin back? This question is mostly to the girls so please help me out girls! I really want to know lol.
Ha ha. Sorry, i'm not laughing at you. I just think the way you asked that question is so cute! 8) ok but to answer your question...
all guys are different. you can just be safe about it and shave it off, or you could ask some of your guy friends their opinion on it! and if you DO shave it, then don't shave it everyday. don't shave it every other day. wait a little while, like 4 days, and THEN shave it. if you don't wait for it to get long enough, then when you shave it you'll get little red bumps all over the place and possibly some very UNCOMFORTABLE in-grown-hairs. OH OH OH! And don't use soap; try to use shaving cream instead, because it's more gental on your sensitive skin "down there." good luck! (be careful! don't cut yourself, it hurts! lol)
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Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them.
Tell her the truth. Tell her you don't appreciate her talking bad about your new friends, and if she might be a good friend to you, but if she disrespects your friends then she's disrespecting YOU. tell her how you feel. it'll be easier than lying to her. good luck.
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I'm in like despirate need of a job cuz my mom decided to stop randomly givin me money wich sucks ass... so ne ideas for a 14/f!
you can't expect your mom just to hand out money to you whenever you want it. you aren't legally allowed to get a job yet. learn to control how you spend your money; make it last longer. you don't need money just whenever you want it.
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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
alright alright alright. here it is, in plain english for you. guys that age are usually looking for sex. especially if they go after a younger girl, like yourself. it might be a lot to do, but sometimes you have to face the music and know when it's time to get go. it's hard, but you're going to have to do it eventually one day, and this might just be the day. it's nice to hug someone you are or were so close to, it's nice to know they're there and want to hug you. yes, i agree. but some things just aren't meant to be, and this could be one of them. "if it's meant to be, it will eventually happen."
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okay i wonna know, how to have a nice ass? WHAT should i do?/ RUN?? or something?
you can run, jog, climb stairs, or do bicycle. simple as that. have fun.
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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!
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This is NOT a hard question at ALL to answer! (thank you.) Okay, you need to know that water is KEY. you are supposed to drink 8 glasses or water a day. it stops hunger pains, and it quinches your thirst! there --you've killed two birds with one stone! yes! NOW!... you can jog every other day, you can do sit ups every other day, whatever you want! it's ALL up to you. but remember: it's not how much you weigh, it's how you LOOK. and if you look good, you'll feel good, which keeps you happy and you live longer. if you're skinny, i wouldn't worry about it too much. you're still 13, and as you get older the extra weight evaporates as it is. don't waste too much time on your weight, or you'll miss a lot of good things. good luck.
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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?
I'm 16, and when i was 14, i didn't look for anything specific in a guy. i liked it when they could make me laugh and keep me occupied, that's about it. i don't think girls REALLY start to get picky about i until they're older.
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theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet?
Two words: HELL NO. don't let him treat you like crap just because he's a jerk, then when dusk comes knockin start treatin you nice just because he wants it easy. that's called being taken advantage of, and it's bad. VERY BAD! tell him he's either nice all the time (and MEANS it), or nothing at all. that's the way it should be. it's alright to have a few off days when everything is just going wrong, but everyday? that's unacceptable.
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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do???
Well if he loves you and wants to be with you forever then he'll wait for you. You're not allowed to get married at such a young age as it is; it's illegal (i think; at least in most states it is). so if he loves you he'll wait. simple as that. he might be hurt, but i guarantee he'll get over it pretty quick. you're both 15 -- have fun, don't get tied down YET. wait a while, you'll see it's for the best.
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hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~
Okay, first off: he's NOT going to die right then and there. it takes YEARS for something to go wrong inside of your body from smoking. Just know that much already. If he wants to smoke and he has sources to get the smokes from, then you're not going to be able to stop him because you're not around him 24/7. all you can do is ASK him to stop... for you. other than that, there's not much you can do. does his mom or dad know he smokes? if not, another option is to tell them to be aware of what he's doing.
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I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)
1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.
2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.
3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'
4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.
My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.
xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused
Hey girl! Sounds like you're having it a bit rough right now. Ok, if you REALLY think that he could be cheating, you have three options.
1. Ask him about it
2. Tell your mom what you think and what you've seen
3. Don't do anything about it and leave it alone.
All 3 are very good options, but i think if i had to do it then i would choose option two, and tell mom. she might be a bit more understanding, and she would be able to find more out about it than you might be able to. hope this helped at least a little.
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can anybody tell me exactly what happens when u get ur bellybutton peirced.. i want it done so bad but iwanna know what they do!!
I think it's different dependig on where you go... But when i got mine done the first time, the "artist" layed me down in a chair, & cleaned my belly button with alcohol and a cloth. after that he took some clamps (and no, they don't hurt) and put them on my belly button where he was going to pierce it. Then he took the needle and put it through. It didn't hurt too bad, it just felt like a bee sting at first.
p.s. the guy REALLY messed mine up though, so make sure that when you go to get it done, you check out all your options, cause if you go to the wrong place you're going to get screwed over and have a nice SCAR where you got it done. (ask me, i know, lol.) if it's smokey when you go in, don't get it done there. make sure you ask to see how they clean their utensils so that you can make sure they're good about it. and if you're allergic to any kind of jewelry, make SURE you don't make a mistake and pick the wrong kind. i know it sounds like a lot, but if you want it done right then you'll take the precautions. good luck.
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im going to a camp in another state and my cousin is going to the same camp. (its a church camp) and i dont think my cousin likes me very much. i just move to this church so i dont know anyone but my cousin. i dont want to hang out with her cause she'll get mad! i dont know what to do.
Be open-minded. Make new friends when you go. Don't rely on your cousin (who possibly doesn't even like you) to be the only one you might be able to talk to. Have fun with it. You'll learn that if you just be happy and open to new friends, the trip gets even better.
p.s. and you aren't sure if your cousin likes you or not? maybe you should ask her. what's the worst that could happen? i mean, you already think she doesn't, so it couldn't hurt too bad if she says no.
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Is it ok to have a make-out buddy? I mean, not a sex buddy, we're not having sex...but we're only making out once in a while. We dont like eachother, but is it still ok? Does it make me a slut?
It's all on how YOU think about it. If you think it's OKAY to have a make-out buddy (rather than a sex partner) then it's fine. You shouldn't worry about what others think. In my opinion, i think it's fine. :) If you like it, it's all good.
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thnx for your advice, but wud u mind if i asked u anotha question? well, ive lived nxt to this kid for about 4 yrs now and for most of those yrs ive liked him. u kno... and i mean, he's always told me jokes and tried to keep up conversation, but idk. i just cant imagine HIM likeing ME! u kno? and like, i rote him a note asking him if he did, and he flushed it. lol. im not kidding, cuz everi 1 waas telling me to "tell him how i feel" or w/e and i did but it didnt work out that way. but i mean, do u think that just cuz he dznt like me now, he cud if we started to be better friends? cuz we've always been friends and been able to talk to eachouther... and i kno he dont like me but i just cant let go. plz help me ive asked this question a million ways and a million times but no1 has given me good answers yet. hope u ken help me. thnx.
~Lizzie
Well Lizzie,
Yes, there's ALWAYS a chance that you can start liking each other if you become better friends. he might have "flushed" your note to him, but maybe he was really embarrassed? see what i'm sayin? you just never know with guys. if you know them REALLY well then they're predictable, but if not then you never know what their next move will be. so my advice to you on this subject is: keep being good friends, make him laugh like you usually do, keep the conversation up, and DO NOT give up. there's always a chance. a very GOOD one. keep trying! maybe he just needs time to look at you in a different light, rather than just a friend he can talk to all the time, you know? good luck girl!
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A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?
Talk to her. Be like "Look, you're a cool kid and all, but i don't want to hang out with you everyday. I have a life outside of our friendship, and you need to accept that." just tell her the truth. She'll be more hurt if she finds out you've been lying to her rather than you just telling her the truth.
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is it possible to snog without tongues? just using your lips? if so, how?
Yep. Just keep your tongue in your mouth, but keeps your lips damp. Simple as that. Nothing too hard about it. Unless you have tendancy to put your tongue out all the time, in which case you might need a little practice :)
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My names not important, but i've been cutting myself alot lately. It's really hard to stop. It just seem's liek its there for me when I'm down or depressed. I really need help but I don't want to tell my family. My familys falling apart already as it is and I don't want to add stress to anyone. It's just hard to stop. It just feels like something to bounce back on. Anybody have advice on what I could do to stop cutting myself.. maybe something else to do instead of that.. I dont know. Thanks alot. (F/14)
-depressed
First off, I know how you feel. I used to cut not too long ago, also. It's dangerous though, and you should try to quit. If you feel that the urge is too strong and you won't be able to, then immediately tell your parents. it might put a little more stress on the family, but it's a lot LESS stress to them than them coming home one day to find you dead because you accidently cut too deep. get help girl. best of luck.
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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
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If you like him then give him a call. It might take some time for your to become "un-nervous" but it'll happen eventually.
there is ALWAYS a chance that the phone number could be fake. try it out and see. if you call it and it's fake, then he'll never know you did it, so you won't have to feel stupid. if you call it and it's real, then hey! you just called your crush! it's a win-win situation here. have fun with it! ;)
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I really like my boyfriend but hardly any of my friends do and they slag him off in front of me and his best mate (angus) says that my boyfriend's changed since he started going out with me and now loads of people who *did* like him, dont like him. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over this but i dont want angus to lose him best mate either and i'm sick of my friends slagging my boyfriend off. what do i do?
First off, if you really like your boyfriend, then you should stick up for him when your friends start `slagging him off.` it shows you really care. Take your friends aside and have a talk with them; tell them you don't like it when they slag him off, and tell them to stop it NOW. Also, if your boyfriend has changed since you started going out, then maybe it's for the better and Angus just can't see that right now. Give it time. If your boyfriend didn't like the change, then i doubt he would still be with you. Good luck.
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