thnx for your advice, but wud u mind if i asked u anotha question? well, ive lived nxt to this kid for about 4 yrs now and for most of those yrs ive liked him. u kno... and i mean, he's always told me jokes and tried to keep up conversation, but idk. i just cant imagine HIM likeing ME! u kno? and like, i rote him a note asking him if he did, and he flushed it. lol. im not kidding, cuz everi 1 waas telling me to "tell him how i feel" or w/e and i did but it didnt work out that way. but i mean, do u think that just cuz he dznt like me now, he cud if we started to be better friends? cuz we've always been friends and been able to talk to eachouther... and i kno he dont like me but i just cant let go. plz help me ive asked this question a million ways and a million times but no1 has given me good answers yet. hope u ken help me. thnx.
~Lizzie
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mel answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:29 am: Well Lizzie,
Yes, there's ALWAYS a chance that you can start liking each other if you become better friends. he might have "flushed" your note to him, but maybe he was really embarrassed? see what i'm sayin? you just never know with guys. if you know them REALLY well then they're predictable, but if not then you never know what their next move will be. so my advice to you on this subject is: keep being good friends, make him laugh like you usually do, keep the conversation up, and DO NOT give up. there's always a chance. a very GOOD one. keep trying! maybe he just needs time to look at you in a different light, rather than just a friend he can talk to all the time, you know? good luck girl! <3 [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
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