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My name is Fawn and I have been married for 2 1/2 years. I am a Christian, and like to think that I am a good listener. I hope to go back to college this year and eventually earn a my masters degree in psychology. It has been a dream of mine for many years now to be in an occupation that I can help people and receive the peace that will come with knowing that I am doing something important with my life. My husband and I lived in Virginia for a year and a half and we are looking forward to getting back there after I finish my education. I love dogs, music, books, travel and photography. Most of my time is spent with my church family, my immediate family and my wonderful husband. Be nice and I will be nice. Be rude and I will be rude. Ask my opinion and that is what you will get. I am open minded and honest and I give and expect respect.
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i have been dating this guy for 5 months. when he's not around, i miss him to death.. but when he's around, he drives me nuts. it seems like he wants me to do stuff with him .. and i do. when we're done doing whatever, he just leaves! i don't know what to say to him! will someone please help me.
It sounds like you have a relationship with this guy that is based on attraction and very little else. Im sure that you are crazy about him but it doesnt sound like he returns that affection. You have to be willing to do things in a relationship that do not interest you (for most women this could be fishing with their love) so that you can spend time with the one that you love and so that they feel as though their wants and needs are important to you as well. If he is not willing to give that back to you I think it is time to move on. Also, you should not ever be in a relationship with someone who has a temper that you describe as "I dont want to get him angry at me because when he is mad he does crazy things". You need someone who loves and respects you.
Love yourself and move on.
ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!*
I have been in that situation many times myself and I know that it can be frustrating. Since you do like this guy I would suggest asking him questions about himself and the things that he likes to do. That is not to say that you should make him feel as though he stepped into a 20 questions session. Just ask him about what he thinks about stuff that you know that you share in common or why he is interested in the things that you two do not have in common. Be open and receptive to him. Listen.
He could be shy around you because the relationship is still rather new or he could be nervous because he is a shy guy. It is my experience though that if you make a person feel comfortable enough to share with you who they really are, they will lighten up and enjoy your company much more. Good luck!