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im like really in love for the first time... and we are going out and everything.. but ive had so many short term relationships taht all my friends are like " your not in love... you'll be done with him in a couple months" but thats so not true at all cuz im heals over head for this guy..... and to add on to all of it.... i dont know if he feels it as much as i do.. and im kinda scared because i have been hurt so many times.. i dont want him to be another one of those guys taht was really great but then puts yet another bruise in my heart... i dont know how to explain to my friends or him how much i really love him... i know he loves me back cuz i can see it in the way he looks at me.. i just dont wanna lose him... ever.... please help me!! haha thanks!
hey my friend is like that and now shes realli in love with this guy and me being her friend think its awesome and im so happy for her. she always use to cheat on guys and now with this guy she doesnt even want to meet any other guys and shes realli happi and i kno how much he means to her....im sorry that ur friends dont understand that try to forget what ur friends are saying and listen to ur heart. soon ur friends will notice how serious u are th emore u show it....they could aslo be jealous that theyre not in love and didnt expect for u to be first......so try not to let them ruina great relationship but remember theyre your friends so try to tell them how much he means to u even tho im sure u alreadi did and try to give hints or tell them straight out that u dont like wen they say that stuff. i wish u lots of good luck and hope everything works out with your boyfriend and friends.....im sure soon enough theyll notice and be as happi for u as u prolli are for yourself....hope i helped
hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do?
i think this is a question u should answer on your own. if u feel ready and dont think ull regret it after and u really want to do it beacause u want to ant just because he wants to and u thinkhe might crack if u dont. im sure that he wont mind if u dont want to considering hes alreadi been with u for so long. he must be a great guy and u sohuldnt change your morals for anyone but if u really love him and thinks its the right decidion then go for it i guess ur not a lil kid like sum of these people who are 13 ....ur old enough to make this decision on ur own ...so do what your heart feels and not just what your mind feels. good luck
Brad: u goin to the BBQ
me: oo yeah u??
Brad: i might have to make an appearance
Me: how r u getting 2 the bbq
Brad: miself - most likely
Brad: i can ask madre if i can drive you .. if you would like- im not suppose to drive but she knows i cheat
Brad: just let me know if you need a ride
Me: yea so wuts been goin on in the life of brad lately...??
Brad: busy busy little booy
Brad: :-P
Me: eww put that tongue inside ur mouth
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Me: nasty
Me: nasty
Brad: SHUt it
Flirtin or Talkin?? Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend??
i think he seems like a funni/fun guy and was bein a lil flirty and he could def. like u its hard to tell from that lil bit but i think it could definetly lead to something. Good luck!
i knew this guy for a couple of months and we really seemed to become great friends. we even had some type of conection. but a few months ago he just stopped talking to me. i thought we were friends, and then he just left. hes never on the computer and i dont know his new phone number. and his nephew wont tell me anything! how do i get ahold of him how can i get him back?!
i had this exact same problem actualli i mean have except now i have his new cell phonw nubmer and hes online a lil bit more ... if u kno any of his other friends talk to them or if u kno where he lives u could stop by or sumthin....or find sum1 else who knows him n ask them.... and if his nephew wont tell u anything try to get his newphew to tell him to call u or get a hold of u somehow
I have had this problem for about 4 years now. My whole body except my stomache is in good shape and I like the way it is and the size. Only problem is my stomache makes me look like im pregnant. I'm 5'3'' and weigh 130-135. I'll try to eat healthy but then at nighttime I'll get so hunfry and want food that I end up getting something to eat like an icecream or sumthing. I know its bad but I don't know how to get over the cravings. Any help on how ot get over the cravings and how to get just my tummy toned. I know your going to say run and crunched but they dont see to help
eating less sugary foods will help a lot so watch your intake of carbohydrates and sugars. also a lot of the times u feel hungry your body just really wants water so try drinking a cup or 2 of water b4 u go to bed. and during the day instead of drinking pop drink water or diet pop it should do alot. and running and crunches help alot too!
id also like to just say that just doing crunches will not work u gotta do like aerobics or running just so u kno!
im going to a new school and i have a friend there that hangs out with a lot of guys. for some reason im really shy around guys so, what do i do???
how do i break the barrier of being shy towards them?
HELP!!
try to be confident and remember theyre not judging u by your every word or action so just try to say what comes to your mind and remember your friend is right there with her so just try to act like if it was just u n her basically .....i have trouble with this too but usually wen im with a friend it makes it so much easier
i had/have a sister.. she is either 3 or about 15... if you havent guessed.she died.. and now almost everytime i hear tha name Abby, or "aww my precious baby girl" or "Ali you're so lucky" i get all upset how can i overcome this?
-Ali
hey i kno exactly how u feel my twin sister died wen i was 4 and wenever i look at pics from wen i was little shes in like all ofthem n it makes me sad im 16 now n i wish she was here with me now cuz of how fun itd be but i guess all things happen for a reason and i kno one day ill be with her again
I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?
5'9 isnt too bad one of my old friends was like 5'11 so dont worry aboutit by the time u get to highschool all the guys will be taller and u wont have to worry about it at all and also theres plenty of guys that like tall girls. most models are even really tall . if it helps u any im not tall im realli short im 16 4'11 and a half and sumtimes being short isnt so fun cuz i feel like younger than i am but its all good
can you get pregant 2 weeks before your period?
yes
I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$
hes either the dad or half brother.... because say tom is the man theyre talking bout on trial and joe is his dad and the guy speakings dad name is jim ......the father of tom is jims son therefore the guys is saying he is joe which would be toms(the man) dad.....or it could be saying he has a halfbrother and jim has 2 sons: Joe and the guys speaking.....and then tom would be joes son
okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?!
u should invite her to hang out with your other friends that way u can all be friends. maybe if shes friends with them she let go of u a lil more if u kno what i mean. if she declines the invitation tell her that a real friend wouldnt stop a friend from having fun with other people. If she doesnt wanna join shes the one losing out not u. sooner or later shell come around
I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?
hey dont worry about it i had my first kiss in ninth grade and i was scared and everything but it was ok. i told him that ive kissed a guy b4 but i didnt and after he told my friends i was a bad kisser but he still liked me and didnt care so it was all good. u dont realli need to say anything if he realli likes u then he wont care and just because its your first time it doesnt mean ull be bad at it
I think I'm falling for my exboyfriends best friend. We're all really close and whatever... So I feel really lost. One of my good friends told me that I should go with what I want, but I'm not sure. I do know what I want, but I also don't want people getting hurt. ahh...
well ive had my friend do this to me a couple times and it hurts so try tlking to her about it. if she doesn t like the idea try to stop talking to him n stuff like that and tell him your not intersted once he likes sum1 else it may be wasier for u to too. also sometimes people just like other people cuz that person likes them so make sure that u like this person for real before mentioning it to ur friend but remember she will prolli be mad. she may even tell u she doesnt care wen she does so listen carefully and try not to hurt her
im never allowed to go to warped tour cuz im "too small" i'll like always be short and its not fair cuz i really wanna goo!
im 4 11 and a half and im 16 (haha) and i go to warped tour . size shouldnt matter . show ur parents ur responsible and wear heels around the house to make urself look taller haha
I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help
put an ad in the paper or make flyers. show people that u are responsible and want to babysit. say u like playing with kids n what not . tell them of past expereionce even if its just playing or watching your relatives and dont be shy
I'm not fat but I have some fatty areas, like my stomach and thighs. I always tell myself I'm going to start excercising soon but I never do. How can I motivate myself to stop being lazy and start being healthy? Any tips on what gets you going to the gym? Thanks!
Well usually wen im happi i feel more like exercising but its not like that for everi person. Get a friend to exercise with u . me n my friend go running almost everi night and its realli fun cuz we can talk at the same time. also while were doing it to keep ourselves motivated we say why are we doing this? annd then we say cuz were fat ....were not realli fat but its funni . also think of how u want to look be like im gonna look so good after i do this stuff like that should help
well i like this guy alot. he's real close 2 me and we have been best friends for a year now. i gave him some clues about who i like and i dont think he has any idea that its him. i think he likes me 2 cuz he said he liked someone 2. and when he gave me some clues it sounded like me. but how do i tell him i like him w/o gettin hurt. i dont want 2 ruin my friendship with him. please help me. I WILL RATE IF GOOD ADVICE!! thanks
Tell him that u like him and realli appreciate his friendship but u want to be more than friends. tell him how important ur friendship is and u dont want to ruin it. basically tell him how u feel. personally it sounds like to me that he likes u too so i dont think u should worry about getting hurt but if he doesnt like u just tell him that ur hurt but u def. wanna be friends no matter what. good luck hope i helped
My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!)
I think u should have a seriouis talk with your dad. Tell him how u feel about it and that u dont want him to be in danger of the things that could happen tell him that u care about him and u want to help him stop for his sake and yours andothers around or ask him to goo outside n tell him u cant put up with it and that u can feel it effecting u . talk about the serious diseases and conditions that come along with smoking. tell him how second hand smoke is even worse even if he alreadi knows stress it that u kno and want him to stop . also get ur mom n brother to talk with u to him the more he knows everyone wants him to stop and care about him it might give him more ambition to stop. good luck and hope i helped
Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you!
My friend use to do this too!I understand why ur doing this u just havent found all the qualities u want in one guy . u are doing this because together these guys like make your perfect guy. whats wrong with the one u have in the other. It doesnt necessarily make u a bad person but its not a good thing to do to the guys so u should prolli choose one which i kno is veri hard . but also ur young and these relationships cant be very serious so have fun and do what makes u happi as long as u dont hurt urself or sum1 u love . hope i helped. good luck!
i don't mean to be anti-social, but a lot of times if one of my friends calls and the phone's for me i wish that they hadn't called me and that i feel like i'd rather be lazy around the house and stuff...but i'm definitely a social person and i have a lot of fun when i go places and am around people...so i was just wondering if neone else ever feels this way or if i AM anti-social lol thnx
I feel this way sometimes too. My friends call and id rather just go in my room and do nothing. i just dont feel like talking, theyll ask what im doing and i say nuthing and they wonder why i dont talk much but its cuz i dont feel like talking, or sumtimes they want me to go somewhere but i just would rather stay at home so yea ur not the onli one