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3 years wasnt enuf
i had/have a sister.. she is either 3 or about 15... if you havent guessed.she died.. and now almost everytime i hear tha name Abby, or "aww my precious baby girl" or "Ali you're so lucky" i get all upset how can i overcome this?
-Ali
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write your feelings down. when my Grandma died, of course i cried with my family and was sad whenever i saw someone with their grandma, but then i wrote a poem for her. it expressed all of my feelings for her. about a week after i wrote it i felt better. you should write one too! i'm sorry about your sister =/
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well the only thing u can do is pray to god my dad died and i cant stop thinking about him ever tim i see a baseball field makes me think about him and i cant stop thinking about him the only thing u can do is pray to god
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hey i kno exactly how u feel my twin sister died wen i was 4 and wenever i look at pics from wen i was little shes in like all ofthem n it makes me sad im 16 now n i wish she was here with me now cuz of how fun itd be but i guess all things happen for a reason and i kno one day ill be with her again
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i'm really sorry to hear that. but just think that it was meant to be, everything happens for a reason. You can't be upset from this you whole life. It may take time but you will slowly overcome it. I know it must be hard for you but you have your friends to help you through it and your parents are going through the same thing. Your parents love you and just remember that your sister still loves you and is looking out for you.
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Hi. i'm soo sorry about your sister. well since it's your sister i'm guessing you where REALLY close to her. it will take him for you to overcome it...u wont kno how long but it just takes time to heal that part of your heart and actually face the fact that shes gone and that no matter what she will always be the best in your heart and always be with you. i kno you probably heard this already from other ppl too but like i said before it just takes time...and slowly you will be able to not get upset again. also that it's not ur fault that shes gone...Take Care..hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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just dont listen to it and think of it as a good remark dont take in to offinceiveness just go with it and say ''i know i am'' ''yeah'' lil things like that .that make u sould like i know and i love it dont be ashamied
---mandi
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* omg!! i feel ur pain * My sister died when i was 6 and she was 5 now im 13 and almost everyday i cry* im sorry ....
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plz r8 me
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Honey I'm so sorry you had to encounter that. Having a loss in the family causes a lot of pain, especially with her being so young. It isn't something that is going to happen over night. It takes time and you need support. If you have a Youth Group at your church join that and you can meet some amazing people through their. You are never going to fully stop grieving. It takes a while and it is a slow healing process. Start by taking out pictures and looking at them. Or if someone says something along those lines, Reply..I'm lucky for what I have. Or something along those lines. Their is a saying that says,
When Happy...Praise God
When Scared...Seek God
When Alone....Feel God
When Depressed...Trust God
All the time...Thank God
I hope that things start looking up for you. If you ever need anything just drop me a note in my inbox, I check it daily.
Megan-
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People always greive, and it's hard no matter what, it's hard to overcome and it just takes a while even, if she's passed for a long time...
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i know it can be hard losing a loved one. but you have to be positive. she is in a better place now.
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Have you told your family how you feel? They might be able to link you up with someone who would be good for listening to you - it sounds like you have some grief and confusion which is normal.
Death is painful, whether it happened yesterday or ten years ago. If you don't get help dealing with your grief, the pain won't lessen.
In addition to talking to a professional, it can help to talk to family or friends. Write in a journal. Paint. Listen to certain songs.
It's okay to feel upset and sad; go with your feelings and see where they lead you. It's important to get them out somehow, though, or the place they lead you could make you even more unhappy than you are now.
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