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Hey Guys! My name is Megan and I have brownish/redish/blondish hair. Whatever you call it. I found this site through one of my friends and it was heaven for me. I love giving people advice and I honestly do it every day. I honestly have been through a lot in my life. I would rather not post it up here but if it means relating to someone I will most certianly tell you. I'm a sporty type person. I played soccer for 7 years, and I play volleyball. No teams though. I workout at the gym and I run as often as I can. For those who are wondering, yes I'm a Christian. I believe in God deeply and he will come up in probably most of my answers. So if you need help with spirtual healing to I'm all ears.
E-mail: vballbabigurl@charter.net
Gender: Female
AIM: lilmagoo8108
Member Since: August 11, 2004
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i dont know what to put this under .. but my back is KILLING me .. its like my upper back and idk it feels like someone is stabbing me in the back its all along my shoulders .. (link)
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Everything depends on how long this has been happening. I had back pain for about 2 years and no one took me seriously. I found out about a month ago I have Fibromyalgia.
Take Pain Killers and get a lot of rest and WATER. If you can have someone rub your back for you and help loosen the muscles, still drink WATER. Don't over do your exercise, but do mild walking. Water Aerobics is AMAZING for the back.
If it has been going on for a long period of time consult your doctor ASAP. This isn't something to be taken lightly for I did and look what turned out to be here.
Hope I Helped!
Good luck and God Bless!
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ok well there has been a lot of things going on and i've gotten really depressed. im on medicine for it but it doesnt seem to be working anymore. its like the 5th kind of pill that i've tryed. im always crying and thinking about the bad things but i can't help it. i used to be able to write about it in my poems but now i just kinda can't. i really need help and i dont know what to do. i dont want to cry myself to sleep everynight.
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First of all let me say I'm so very sorry. I know what you are going through. I have suffered from depression for awhile now and on top of that I have a lot of health problems. Right now I'm being tested for all sorts of disease's. Switching medications is not and will not ever be easy. It is as if those 4-8 weeks you are transising are like you were before you started medication. Talk to your mom or dad. Do you go to a physciatrist or just your primary doctor? I would recoomend a physcatrist they are really good with things like that. I also want you to IM me on AIM when we get the chance so we can talk more personally IF YOU WANT TO. I'm not making you do anything. I would rather not post my whole life up here but I would be happy to help you, and trust me I know what you are going through.
Megan-
My IM s/n is lilmagoo8108
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Ok...Well My sister is 15 years old and has been doing alot of partying lately and messing around with guys much older than she is!Its been bothering me because im 17 going to be 18 shortly and i am going to be 8 months pregnant which dont get me wrong im happy about the baby and im not going to regret her but i just dont want to see my sister end up in the same situation at an early age if she keeps it up.She seems to think that what she is doing is fine but im worried about her ending up in a bad situation or getting a bad reputation.Any ideas on what i should do and do you think that what she is doing is wrong? (link)
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I know it isn't always easy talking some sense into people trust me. But sit down and talk to her and get into a deep conversation as to why you don't want this to happen. This is kind of hard when they really aren't going to listen. Tell her you are only doing this for her best intrest and you aren't trying to intrude on her life. You have been there before and if you keep repeating some of the same things eventually she might realize what she is doing and lay off a little bit. I don't know how close you are with your sister but spend a little more time with her. Do different things together and not only will that gain her trust more you will also be able to take some of that time away she could be spending having sex, spending that time with you instead. If you need anything else drop me one in my inbox! Good Luck and God Bless!
Megan
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I apologize if this ends up being really long, but I thought I'd ask.
I've been friends with this girl, we'll call her Sabrina, since the 8th grade. We grew to be really close really fast and ended up going to the same high school. That's kind of a big deal since we live in Chicago and most kids separate after grade school.
Anyway, we remained best friends up until I had a tough time in early 2003 and ended up dropping out of school. We lost contact up until a couple of months ago. The fact that we didn't keep in touch is pretty much my fault. I apologized for it, she appears to have forgiven me and we started hanging out again.
Sabrina is 18 now and recently moved in with her boyfriend because she was unhappy living with her mom. Only, now that she lives with her boyfriend, he wants to maintain complete control of her life, including who she hangs out with.
He told her she wasn't allowed to hang out with me anymore and she's actually obliging him.
I don't know if I should just deal with it and talk to her whenever I can, or if I should just let her know we shouldn't be friends at all anymore or what! I'm pretty hurt. Any advice would be appreciated and I will rate everyone who responds. Thanks. (link)
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Honestly their is no reason to not be friends with her. A matter of fact this is a time when she probably needs you the most. Nobody wants to be in a dominating relationship. I mean I know it is hard when you "love" somebody but you don't let them control your life. So no don't stop being friends with her, keep faith in her and you are probably going to be a support of the friendship. But help her out of it and you to will be closer then ever. If you need anything drop me a note in my inbox...and I can help you any more that you need to be. Good Luck and God Bless
Megan-
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im getting my wisdom teeth pulled to and im wondering what u sugest to do after like what to eat what to do i think i should do afterwards? (link)
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Getting your wisdom teeth pulled, it hurts! Just take it easy. They will give you something for the pain. But when you go to get more Ibuprofen or something MAKE SURE IT IS EXTRA STRENGTH. Sometimes they have "Certian Medicines" for the mouth it depends where you go. I would recommend your favorite soft food. Jello, Icecream, Pudding. I personally love straight baby food. Not the Pears and Chicken, but like applesauce, or banana. It's extrmemly light. If you like chocolate I have a survivor tip for you. Have somebody go out and by Slim Fast Milkchocolate shakes. They are really healthy and by the far the best Slim-Fast, so you won't lack on your nutrition, and all that good stuff. Good Luck and God Bless!
Megan-
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i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her? (link)
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Everyone says, just ask her! They are right. But it really depends on how close you are with your mom. I asked my sister to help me. If you are close just ask her. Or you can buy them yourself. If you a store close by just go into the asile where they are. I would recommend Tampax Pearl Regular. To be honest I have used tampons ever since I started. I have never used a pd. So, go for it and you'll be amazed the results..Good Luck and God Bless
Megan-
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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
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I happen to babysit kids the exact same way. What a 4 year old is trying to do is test your limits. They want to see how far your limits of strictness go, just a test for patience. All kids do it. So here is what you do. Before the parents leave kneel down to the little boys level and tell him the specific rules he has to follow, say it so his parents hear you. Hear is my "system" of punishment. It is the 3-X's. If the child still takes a nap that is even better. I usually use this for the "Sleep" it is something young children don't like is going to bed.
1x-Warning
2x-5 minutes/Warning (don't really do the 5 minutes it just makes them more prone to listen)
3x-about a half hour to 15 minutes before they go to bed orginally.
Hope all works out!
Good Luck and God Bless
Megan-
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me and my frend meaghan hav been in a fight and i rele think thats she hates me and she was yellin at me online and took me out of her shoutoutz i rele hope that we can cum back together What do i do?
Signed
Need Advice (link)
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Alright, If I knew what you were fighting about it might be a little more helpfull but this will work too. I'm not sure how long ago it happened but give her some space. People do tend to get sick of each other and space clears it up the most. Give it a week or so and just don't talk to her or call her or assoiate with her. When you try and talk to her again you both will probably have cooled down. Don't talk online or on the phone talk face to face that helps sort a lot of things out. Online you just get the wrong impression and on the phone people can hang up on people. Try it see how it goes! Good Luck and God Bless.
Megan
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hey guysz ive been single for a really long time and i realy want a boyfriend .. i hate bein single .. does any one have any advice how i can get a boyfriend ? (link)
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Getting a guy isn't like just magically pulling one out of a deck of cards. I wouldn't suggest that. Look for someone special the one you feel the "click" with. I'm not saying go out looking for the person you are going to marry, I'm just talking about going out their get a little flirty. Not like dressing like hooker, acting like a hoe type stuff. But just go out their and see what the world has to give you. But always understand having a guy isn't always everything. Many girls think that landing a boyfriend will suddlenly make their PMS go away or some crazy shiznet like that. Good Luck and God Bless..let me know how things work out!
Megan-
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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Well first of all let me say you got a good guy, don't let him slip away. This topic might come up sometime soon or sometime far you aren't ever really positive. If it is bothering you, you bring it up. The more worried you are that he is going to "crack" the worse it is going to make everything. It sounds like you have yourself a special one. If he has waited for 2 years, he shouldn't have a problem with any more if he respects you. Bring it up so that it isn't brought up in an uncomfertable situation. I don't think you should have sex with him because you think he wants it now. WHAT GUY DOESN'T? If he is truly respectful of your feelings he will have no problems waiting until you are ready. Good Luck and God Bless!
(If you need anything just drop me one in my inbox)
Megan-
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i had/have a sister.. she is either 3 or about 15... if you havent guessed.she died.. and now almost everytime i hear tha name Abby, or "aww my precious baby girl" or "Ali you're so lucky" i get all upset how can i overcome this?
-Ali (link)
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Honey I'm so sorry you had to encounter that. Having a loss in the family causes a lot of pain, especially with her being so young. It isn't something that is going to happen over night. It takes time and you need support. If you have a Youth Group at your church join that and you can meet some amazing people through their. You are never going to fully stop grieving. It takes a while and it is a slow healing process. Start by taking out pictures and looking at them. Or if someone says something along those lines, Reply..I'm lucky for what I have. Or something along those lines. Their is a saying that says,
When Happy...Praise God
When Scared...Seek God
When Alone....Feel God
When Depressed...Trust God
All the time...Thank God
I hope that things start looking up for you. If you ever need anything just drop me a note in my inbox, I check it daily.
Megan-
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When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:
*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true? (link)
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You sure got a lot of answers you weren't expecting. Now you don't know hot or cold! Well let me give you a tip of advice that I learned from CHURCH! If you bleed on your clothes, from a cut or from your period spit on it. Your saliva has a chemical reaction with the blood and will help remove it. You can figure the rest out with the hot and cold and the cold and hot but believe me if you spit on it, IT WORKS! Sounds odd but it is the answer to all my prayers!
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