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Member Since: August 11, 2004
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Last Update: August 11, 2004
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Well..I wanna ask someone to the movies and go on a triple date wit my two friends. Problem is..they are both pretty and im not so pretty..im afraid my date will end up flirting with them or concentrating on them. I know that my friends would never like my otential date..and im confident he`ll say yes when i ask him to come with us..is there anything i can do to build up my confidence and get the idea out of my head that my date will flirt with my friends or that he`ll think "wow they r hot..wish my date was prettier"
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Treat yourself to a makeover. Go to the hair dressers and have your hair done. Buy a new outfit you will feel really confident then. Most lads think that inner beauty is best and most go for personality. I wouldnt consider myself pretty but have a brill boyfriend.

If this lad thinks this of you, then hes not worth the trouble.


ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
The only thing you can do is keep facing your fear. I suffer from agoraphobia and keep making myself to go out as im afraid of open spaces.
This has a big impact on me missing out on doing cool things with my mates.

Dont let your fear beat you. Eventually you will conquer your fear. Stick with it.

You can beat it!!!


I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help! (link)
Why dont you tell her how you feel. You obviously think alot of her and she really likes you. Buy her something nice like a box of chocolates and ask her to the cinema or go for a pizza.




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