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well i like this guy alot. he's real close 2 me and we have been best friends for a year now. i gave him some clues about who i like and i dont think he has any idea that its him. i think he likes me 2 cuz he said he liked someone 2. and when he gave me some clues it sounded like me. but how do i tell him i like him w/o gettin hurt. i dont want 2 ruin my friendship with him. please help me. I WILL RATE IF GOOD ADVICE!! thanks
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yu shuld be liek lets go out 2niite... nd go to tha mall or dinner or suttin...nd be liek ive been wanting to tell yu this jus dun take it tha wrong way... i like yu a lot... nd i dunno if yu liek me...buh if yu do then i wanna take things to tha next level...nd if ya dun then dun sweat it... becuz yu dun want suttin good to pass yu by ya kno... if ya dun tell him how yu feel...then how will anything ever be...tha guy d0esnt alwai`z have to make tha first move
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Sweetie! He's your best friend! That is the best person in the world to go out w/ (believe me I know from experience!) He definitly likes u if he's droppin hints! So just bring it up to him. Just ask him "so hows your little love life" or something like that and then all playfully be like "dude, what if it was u i liked?" and just be real playful about everything so just in case its not u, u can say you were kiddin around. But I really think he likes u! Just be confident. Good luck and lemme know how it goes! -*-Sonnie-*-
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Don't play hard to get by just giving him clues. Just tell him how u feel. If u think he likes u back.. then its prolly best to tell him. If he really does like u back.. then u never know.. something could happen between the two of u. If your worried about ruining your friendship... then tell him that u like him.. but ur worried about your friendship with him.. Then u two can talk about it together... and then u can both decide whats best.
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I think that if you 2 are talking about who he likes just say in a joking way 'its me isnt it lol' and hes like uhh no be like ohh lol i was just joking you know and then you can find out. but he might say no bcuz he is just shy so like if he says umm no its not you be like darn i was hopin it was me cuz i like u and he could take it as a joke or seriously
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I did the same thing to and over the summer he asked me out why dont you try asking him out?***haleigh ann***
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Well I think that you should talk to him. I understand you're afraid of ruining you guys' friendship... But I bet if he's a good friend he would understand. Ask him if he ever thought of yall's friendship as more then friends, or if he ever wanted to get closer. Or even what he thinks about you two's relationship. If that goes well, you should tell him that you like him... And ask about his feelings for you. He'll never know how you feel until you tell him. You never know, He could be feeling the same way and scared too. Best wishes :) -Britty-
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Tell him that u like him and realli appreciate his friendship but u want to be more than friends. tell him how important ur friendship is and u dont want to ruin it. basically tell him how u feel. personally it sounds like to me that he likes u too so i dont think u should worry about getting hurt but if he doesnt like u just tell him that ur hurt but u def. wanna be friends no matter what. good luck hope i helped
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Tell him you like him, go for it. And if he ends up liking you which it sounds like he does, tell him before anything that if/when anything happens between you too your gonna be friends at the end of it. He'll probably agree with you. Good Luck! <3
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