Q: this may seem weird. but i thik that i am semi depressed. i went on a website to learn more about depression and saw the symtoms and i had alot of them. lately i have been feeling really lonely and left out with friends also ive been experiancing guy issues so that may be it. but i dont nkow what to do

Q: I really want to go to boarding school and i have researched schools and found one i really like. i dont know how to ask my parents though because i know how my mom will react and i strongly beleive that she is going to say no. i need advice on how to approach the subject. thank you.

Q: I truely like this kid so much. I've known him for 4 years, and he knows I like him and such. Actually, last year in 7th grade, he asked me out. He was smiling although he said he was serious, but I said no because I figured that he was joking (he's that type of person). Than after he asked me out, he started doing weird stuff to me, and requesting I do things to him. For instance I would usually help him with his French homework, and he would ask that I sit on his lap. He would always hold my hand, try to kiss me, etc. Then he started to get worse, like ask me to have sex with him, flash him, go over to his house and in his room...

This year, he acts as none if it happened. He won't mention the slightest thing to me. That doesn't exactly bother me but it's weird. I still like him and it's not that he acknowlages me (because we're still best friends), but he doesn't like me this year like that.

I just wanted to know if anyone here thought that maybe he took advantage of me. Please help (easy 5's)

Q: I recently met this guy and we're now dating. We aren't exactly what you would call the cutest couple because well, some people don't believe we belong each other. Those some people being my friends.

I'm what you could call the preppy high school cheerleader that hangs out with other preppy cheerleaders/jocks.

He is...well I'm not sure what he is. When you look at him you think oh, just another punkish looking emo druggy kid. Which is what my friends think. But, he really isn't. He did voluntarily dye his hair black and has an eye brow and lip piercing. Along with another one that is below the belt that I haven't seen yet ;P.

But anyway, back to the point. He's a sXe(straightedge). If you don't know what that is, it means that he doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs and doesn't believe in casual sex.

I was recently involved in an accident. The accident should have never happened because we'll the driver and I were drinking. Fortunately, I'm still alive. And because of the accident I've decided not to drink anymore. (I met my bf after my accident).

My friends think that my bf is BS and that he's just kidding himself. And obviously, do not like him. His friends and I get along fine and he doesn't mind my friends, except for the fact that they don't like him. What should I do?

Q: I'd like to first start off by saying I love my family. I truly do, yet I feel as if I need help sorting out the problems and stress they constantly place on my shoulders. I grew up in a fairly large family with seven brothers and two sisters. As of right now, the only sibling living at home is my younger brother, and I'm always being compared to him; through my grades, my lifestyle, my friends. No matter what I do, or how hard I work, it's never good enough. My family is continuously degrading me, saying I can do much better, making me feel as if I'm not good enough for their praise. My brother brings home test results of, say, 10/20, and he gets credited. Is there any way to make them realise that I'm trying?

Q: Ok, I've liked the same guy for 3 years now. He just broke up with his girlfriend. I was so relieved, but now he has ANOTHER girlfriend and it's only one day later! AH! It hurts so bad because we've been friends so long & I guess he's just not seeing me in that way. I've droped thousands of hints, but he hasn't been picking them up. What I want to know is..he just recently got AIM (so he could talk 2 his last g/f) He kept it & IMs me whenever I'm on. I love that he IMs me, but he talks to me about how much he likes his new girlfriend and it agrivates the crap outta me! How do I get him to stop talking about her without hurting his feelings?
*Undeniably Unwanted*

Q: Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...

i'll rate 5 for anything good...

Q: ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥

Q: Well i have a friend lets call him fred.. well fred is usally really happy.. and i cant picture him being sad at all.. i dont think i have ever seen him sad.. and ive known his since 2nd grade (in 10th now) so ya.. and today i went online and his away message said dead inside.. and i asked him if he was ok and he didnt say anything.. and im worried about him cause hes one of my really really good friends.. what should i do? please answer i rate high..

Q: I really like this guy and well he liked me a couple of weeks ago and i liked him but neither one of us knew it! Now i like him and he doesnt like anyone...He knows I like him but what do I do!? Would he have asked me out already if he liked me also? I mean he knows i really like and i just dont know! Im so confuzzed! Please Help

-Samantha Lynn

Q: Ok, there is this guy that i really like....hes my ex, but now my friend. Hes really cute. And we tell eachother everything. He told me, that if someone asks him if they like someone, he will blush if he does. Well my bff sits behind him in social studies and asked him if he still had a thing for me, he said just as friends then turned around and blushed! I was sooo excited to see this....but heres the thing. He told Ali that if he was single than he would ask me out in a heart beat. Well hes not single. And his girlfriend is really sweet and hes really happy! I don't wanna break them up, but i would do anything to get my baby back. What should i do.

Just Friends

Q: okay so this boy likes me and i like him and we have a lot in common but hes in a different group of people than i am in...this is my last year in the same state as him and i really want be at least friends with him....i think i really like hm because not just becuase of his looks lol. he seems nervous ..but what do you think i should do ...go up to him?

Q: I meet this kid last summer he was having a terrible night as he walked home. and i ws walking my dog and i said something about my dog to him and made him laugh. ever since that day i thought about this kid. well last monday i was up a community center and i meet him there ago not reconizen him and he brought up what happen i was like that was you well we hang out every day i found out he is a senior and im a freshman i no i "dont know what love is yet" but i really like him alot we have so much in common help me!! i rate high

Q: Sorry for another guy question, but I could use some help.
I like a guy that I went out with about a year ago. ( I never stopped liking him, he broke up with me ) Well we've become really good friends again. We started to hang out, go on golf cart rides, talk at school, phone calls. I didn't wanna tell him I liked him, cause I didn't want to scare him away. Well someone found out and told him. I called him and he said someone told him that I liked him. I got embarressed and mad so I hung up. He called me back and told me I didn't have to hang up. He said he didn't mind. later that night we talked for hours on the phone. How do I find out if he likes me back or not? ( I don't want my friends to ask him, cause I know he seriously hates when other people ask him stuff like that.) Do I just go up to him and ask him ?

I will rate all 5`s since it's so long.
xox

Q: ok so there's this boy and i really really like him. we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i actually beleive him (i dont beleive people who hurt me very often) he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's gorgous but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. How can i get him to like me? and is he worth it? i get soo jealous when he's with other girls.

thanks so much.

Q: okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!

Q: Me and my x friend areant talking anymore!! We used to be best friends and tell everyone that we were cousins and stuff... and now in middle school were not talking and we always get in fights. What do I do...because Ill have dreams that were friends then I wake up relizing it was only a dream...its really upset! HELP?!
From girl with friend problems.

Q: Hi,

I have this friend that's a boy (i'm a grl) and i've liked him since the day i met him. We're now best friends and do everything together on the weekends and whenever we have spare time. He has a gf and talks about marrying her (even tho he's only 13), and i try to be a supportive friend, but really he's just ripping my heart out. I've tried to drop hints that i like him but i know how he gets when ppl tell him that they like him when he already has a gf...it's not a good site. I guess i just want a way where i don't have to listen to the full on details of his relationship w/ his gf cuz it really does kill me inside. thanx 4 the help

~broken heart

Q: i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help!

Q: My Best Friend ( Katie ) just met this other girl. I totally don`t mind her hangin out with other people, but this girl does drugs and things like that. Katie is startign to hang out with Lauren more and more cause they both like the same "punk" music and they love doing goth-like things ( i dont like lables but thats just how they put it ) I`m more of the preppy, country music, shopping, french manicure type girl. Is it time for me and Katie to move on since were different? Or should I stay and watch her get herself into trouble and fight to keep her.

- need help please.

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