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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?

Yes! lol I have that alot about guys! lol Love ya! ♥Andrea

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hey i really need help my hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders and the color of ashley olsens blonde hair and i have green eys and im 5'9 i need style ideas for my hair pleaze ill rate u good!

I think you can straighten it. Or have those loosey type curls that Ashley has. or have it up in a messy bun w/ some lose ends everywear! Also I think would look cute is you could straighing all of your hair then have little curls in some places! I hope I helped! Love♥Andie

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i have this one friend and shes always making fun of my bf and telling everyone oh shes going out with ...... then shes like u shouldnt be embaraced to go out with him... then she turns around and makes fun of him like oh hes so fat. shes getting me really mad!! what should i do.....i really dont want to breck up with my bf for her.......thanx

I think that she really isnt a very good friend if she is making fun of who your boyfriend is! She should be happy for you that you have someone that you like! and you are doing the right thing by not breaking up with him. Normally people would break up because guys are less important..but this is an exception! lol well I just think that you should tell her that you dont appreciate her telling everyone that, and a lot of people are getting annoyed too! I hope I helped! Love ♥Andie

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Hi, my name is Lacey, and I just moved from Washington to Wisconsin, and i HATE IT!!! everyone is against me, what my so called my friends did to me is writed me a note and told me that i am a slut face hore. How should i tell my parents that i want to move out of this hell hole?

Hey! this is Andrea..I just wanted to say that people dont hate you! they just dont like what you have said about people by judging them! theres a difference. lol remember when me and staci ran up to you when we met you you were soo kool! but then when you got to school, you changed and you tried too hard! just be yourself around everyone rather than someone your not. Like me and staci we loved to talk to you its just that well 1) you asked someone out on the first day you came to school witch was kinda werid. 2) you were making fun of people on the first day when you didnt know them and make fun of them. 3) you just tried TOOO hard to be everyones friend! you dont have to try hard at all! just be yourself!!! and if I were you I wont have sex right now. if you have any questions on how to start over or anything else I'm here!.. Love xoxo- ♥ Andie

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I dont know waht do do if i like my best guy friend. We have talked about this many times and i always, he does too, denies that we like each other. Idk if i should wait till he asks he out, or just ask him out.

I think that you should make sure that he likes you so then if you feel that you want to ask him out then you will no his answer. ask one of his friends to ask him, Or you could ask him yourself. Then if you find out that he likes you wait til he asks you out. But then if you know that he lieks you and it takes him tooo long then go for it! Hope I helped!! ♥ Andie

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What do i do if the people that were my friends last year are mad at me because i sit with different people @ lunch? What if i want to be their friends but they act too good for me?~ should i just leave them alone and move on and hang out with my other friends?

I think that you should switch tables every other day so they know that you still want to be friends with them. I think you should still be friends w/ both! just switch tables every other day or something. if they act too *goodie* around you just be like..Hey i still want to be your guys's friends and ya. I hope I helped

* I am having that problem to w/ my friends now so ik how you feel *
love- ♥Andie

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I just got dumped. Boyz are so stupid! dont you agree?

YES!!!!! boys are jacka§§e§!! they only care about how big there dick is!! :) :)
LOVE xoxo- ♥Andie

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I have this boyfriend. And we have been going out for like a couple days, and he hasnt said "i love you" but he asked me if i would make out with him. Idk if that is weird, but i think so. He loved his past girlfriend so much, so i feel like he will never like me as much as he loved her. I duno, can you help me. I will rate you. I love you andie!x0x0x

You guys have only been going out for not even a week and he hasnt said I Love you...that is totally okay! lol maybe he doesnt like to use those words unless he actually means it! But then again..if he asked you to makeout with I think that he is just trying to get something [if you know what I mean] and he is just using you. I would tell him that you dont makeout with guys untill you go out with them for a while, unless you do. Yes, I totally agree with you that it is a little strange for him to say that. Dont worry about what his previous girlfriends were like, just focus on you guys witch is the more important thing. I hope I helped! I'm here if you ever need anything about this or just anything else! lol I love you too! ♥Andie

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Hi, I have this one friend, he's a guy and we are sorta friends with benefits. It's really hard 'cuz I really like him and I don't know how to tell him. We always end up making out all the time whenever we are with eachother, and When I first kissed him I really thought I felt something. I don't know if he felt the same, and I don't know how to ask him. I really want to go out with him I just don't know what to do! Please help!

I'm sorry to say this, [but this is in my own opinion] I think it is kinda *sluttish* if you have a friends w/ benifits. But that is just MY personal opinion. Because if I were you I would be kinda having that feeling that he is using me just to make out. Anywayz...I think that the next time you two are alone together you should just be flat out and be straight with him and tell him that you have feelings for him! :) I hope I helped! Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space.

I think you should help her and tell an adult. to her it might seem as though it isnt a big thing but it really is. Expecaly when she goes around and laughing about it. she is really hurting herself, and it seems like she is hurting you to. Also if she is depressed you need to just sit down and talk with her that you and her are ganna talk about everything that is going on between both of you, and how you feel about everything! If you really care about your best friend, tell her to just stop and talk w/ her! hope I helped! Love xoxo-♥Andie

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this might seem like a dumb question, but if u swallow pre-cum (not knowing what it is), can you get pregnant?

No I dont think you can get pregnaut from that it has to be in the vagina area for you. Your Diegestive and i think it is your reproduction area are totally differnt from each other! I hope I helped! Love xoxo-♥Andrea

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is there a way to get rid of razer burn???

idk..I just put lotion on right after I shave i dont really get that much razbor burn and if i do i just dont touch it and just remember to put lotion on it I hope I helped! love xoxo- ♥Andrea

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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it!

I think that is very responsible and very "mature" lol I guess you can say that you both believe in abstinence I think it is called dry sex..lol have fun and be safe! lol haha
Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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Everybody I've asked has said different things about it but when is the best time to have sex so you wont get pregnate, alot of people say to do it when your on your period because its less likely, is that true? thanks a ton!!

There is no safe time to have sex and to know that you arnts going to get pregnat from it. It just depends on the person. Someone could get pregnat before durring or after it. I hope I helped! Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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okay, so im 13 and im really small like my body is and im only like 5"4 i weigh bout a little over 100 pounds and im not trying to be arrogant but im really fit. The only thing is my boobs are really big. I wear a D cup bra and even when i wear sports bras they like look really big anyways theres a lot of problems. Im majorly into sports and they get so much in the way and they make my back hurt really bad. Second of all I always get hit on by like way older guys and I dont want that because im a really christian person with a strong faith and its just wrong. Then theres also the problem that like a whole bunch of guys like me and the only reason is because of my boobs, and theres been like a whole bunch of rumors that i had a boob job which is NOT true at all and a lot of girls dont like me because of them because they get jealous that the guys at our school really like me even though i tell them i dont like any of them. Then i also have stretch marks and i dont know how to get rid of them??? can someone please tell me about any really good bras that will like hide them or help support them, cause ive talked to my dcotor and they just gave me this pain medicine to keep them from hurting when they put strain on my back and stuff and also to hide them from perverted guys that im tired of dealing with?? please help me

I think that you should see a doctor again about your back pains and get a different mdication if your back is hurting that bad. Also to deal with stretch marks get Vita-K I think it is called or use Cocanut Butter. And for the rumors..just screw em'. srry to sound bitchy or anything but they are all probably just jealous of you or idk they just watne to make their lives better by hurting someone elses feelings. If you wanted to get good bra's I would recomend getting ones from Victoria Secret and srry to break it to you but you cant really hide them, you will just have to get use to them which i know sux. guys..guys...guys they will always be liek that to a gurl even if they are 12 or 13 and have a "bigger" chest that is just the way they am. and for the older guys say back off or something and be like you are wayy too old for me! lol well I hope I am helping a little bit! Leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything! I'm here for you! Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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I have acid reflux, and it sucks a lot because I can't drink a lot of soda, and I can only have some kinds of foods, so I have a really strict diet. My acid reflux keeps getting worse, and I have told my mom many times, but she doesn't really make a big thing of it, I hate having it, and I really want to get a better medication please help me!

You really should just keep bugging your mom or parents about how worse it has been getting! and tell her that you really do need to get a different medication such as Nexium i have herd works. I just really recomened telling your mom and say that you are getting worried or something like that. I hope I helped! Love xoxo ♥Andie

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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!!

Well I would say not to panick about it right now all you have to do is just get a check up but I would get an appointment as soon as you can! I hope I helped! Love xoxo- ♥Andie

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One of my best friends we'll call her Nicole did something totally uncalled for last night. We all went to this dance and she knows I have a major crush on this this kid. I'll call him Ryan she slow dances with him right in front of me. Next time I'll see her is Mon. and I don't know how to react to the situation. I have another crush but he was with his ex- girlfriend (who is also my friend). Help me please.

Well I dont think she is really a "best friend" she is more of a bitch! you should really talk to her about it..I would yell at her! I'm serious that was really uncalled for her to do that to you!!! Best friends dont do that to each other. I hope I helped! tell me how it goes or if you ever need anything else!. Love you!
♥Andie

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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?

No I think that shouldnt be a problem at all! lol I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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I know there is something messed up in my head because i get angery, sad, and happy really quickly and when i am mad, i throw things. i hate the way i act and i have been trying to change, but nothing has been working. ive told my mom and sister this and they really havent done anything to help me. what should i do?

I think that you should just try and sit with one of your frineds and just tell them everything you are feeling. What I do is write in a journal or just see a psycholgist or just someone you trust. If you dont talk to someone you might become depressed and start doing alot of things you will regret later in the future. If you ever just need someone to talk to I'm always here for you! ♥Andie

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