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advice
No explanations please, just a straight up answer.
Is it easier to get pregnant before, during, or after your period.
Thanks
After. Hope i helped.
Ok heres the deal, my sister ALWAYS does my hair for all my dances but shes gonna be on her honeymoon the week of homecoming. I'm going to a salon and getting my hair done. does anyone have any sites that has good hairstyles??
go on google..i always get my ideas for my hair on there go to pictures and type in cute updo's or homecoming updo's...etc hope i helped!
Okay, so, I have mild acne [i just asked a different question], but now i'm wondering, what really causes it all?
don't say genetics, because my ansestors would have to get it from something as well.
anyone know?
thanks in advance =]
Oils on your face and dirt in your pores. You really shouldn't touch your face.When the dirt clogs your pores thats what happens. Hope i helped
Like i've been told I'm not normal because I'm freinds with some of my junior high teachers. I mean I would think it would be normal to talk to them once in a while. You grow a relationship with them and I just happen to like keeping that relationship. Is that normal?
i think its 110 percent normal. I'm cool with alot of my teachers and i still go to say hi to them and talk to them about stuff so yea..your def. normal. Teachers are prob the best people to talk to about stuff. hope i helped
Well i dated a girl about a few years back. we went out for about a year; things happens blah blah blah. well anyways i still like her and i feel the same way. i've always wanted her to be my first but i dont know if that'd...happen.
This other girl, whose really into me. Seems to want the same relationship we have..and inside i feel that i cant replace what we had. But she wants to have sex with me, and i sware i am soo tempted but both the abstinence thing and the girl is stopping me. i dont want to regret anything, all i know for sure is that i want the first girl to be the girl i marry =\
really dramatic but if you can help thanks a million
Does the old girl like you?...you see..if she likes you i think you should get in contact with her...if she doesn't like you i dont think your with the right girl now. you need a girl who is going to do the same thing girl 1 did and obviously girl 2 isn't doing that for you. If your thinking of other girls while you have a girlfriend..thats not cool. I mean you care for this girl that your with right? then why do you want her to get hurt..because lets face it if you see girl 1 or meet a new girl 1 in a club or bar or something...your def. gonna try to talk to her. I think you need to figure out what it is you really want..and maybe you should talk to you girlfriend now about this. I hope i helped. Goodluck!
Girls, do you think that facial hair on a 15 year old guy is attractive. I know that girls don't really like mustaches. But do girls like anything, or should I just stay clean?
UH you wanna know what is soooooooooo effin sexy...when guys have a rough look you know like a rough kinda beard its NOT a beard its like really short hair pn there chin and side burns down i think its soooo hot but...mustaches are gross dont do them. The clean looks always good too tho..i hope i helped ;)
im 13/f
and everyday i would wear flip flops and i noticed tan lines on my feet
how do i get rid of it?
lol that sucks..there is two ways but...they're both weird..so ..
if you want the fast way-spray tan..JUST the white part
if you want the long but looks better way-tanning bed
if you want the cover up way-shoes not flip flops
Hope i helped!
ok im 13/f
this one guy in my school is cute
i keep flirtin wit him but i dont think he knows it
i make him laugh and he makes me laugh
ugh i luv the way he smiles
ok u get
how do i know he likes me without askin him cuz it would just be akward...
just tell me how i would know he likes me
you should ask one of his friends..or maybe you should be the one to like hit on him you know? make him know YOU like HIM. He probably likes you if hes all touchy and stuff he also probably likes you if hes in a room with a lot of people including his friends and he talks to you. Some guys can be really quiet..you know they're kinda put in the possition your in now...you dont want to look stupid by telling him you liking him and hearing the worst..well he doesn't wanna look stupid by liking you and hearing the worst. I think if you really like this guy you need to take control before he doesn't think you like him. Hope I helped.
ok my butt crack itches really bad... like for 2 days its been going on.. its happened before but only for like 2 or 3 days so im hopin its the same.. is it bad? like it itches reaaaaaaaaaly bad.. is that bad? is there anything i can do to stop it?
lol..yea you can get this stuff that clears it up its like a cream or take a shower i guess? lol i dont know..hope i helped
ok well i feal like such a bad person. Like im aalways hurting. Because my boyfriend went to the army and i feel bad cuz i talk to guys but not flirt and i feel like thats wrong. And i drank a couple of times n i feel bad for doing that. i feel like im such a bad person and i jsut want to die. i dont know what to do HELP!
First off i think its really brave of you for staying with this guy after he went to go to the army. You should feel really proud of that. Just because you talk to guys doesn't mean your cheating...im sure he understands and just because you drink doesn't mean anything either..you not a bad person how about you give him a call and talk to him about it?hope i helped
ok, i don't know it this is the right subject, but ihave a problem. ok my vagina burns like really bad. i have no idea why. then i get this sensation where i have to go to the bathroom really bad but only alittle pee comes out and then it burns. i haven't had sex so i don't have a STD, but what do you think could be the matter?
please respond ASAP
-Thank YOu
Soap..I hear that burns really bad and like it makes you hurt to pee. if you take a shower or a bath or w/e...i hope i helped!
there are a lot of hott guys that go to my school or other schools in my town and like at the football games, they're all there. what are some good things to say that aren't like cheesy, to get them talking to you..
P.S. i don't know anything about them.
ANYTHING! besides what school they go to.
thanks in advance.
and i need to know kinda quickly
whats up?
how do you know _____?
Hi
Dont you go to _____(school)?
Why dont you play football?
Hey i heard______about you!
lol i dont know..hope i helped
the soccer coach at my school wants me to try out for goalie. im going to do it. but ive never played soccer before. so, can anyone explain to me exactly what a goalie does besides block the ball? also, when i go to tryout, what all should i bring? if it helps, im 15/f
heres a list of things you NEED to bring
List:
knee pads
goalie gloves
long socks
water
cleets
i dont know how to explain..goalies kind of simple you block the ball and you need to know when to do it..you need to have goo reflexes and you need to know how to save it. practice throwing the ball in the air and kicking it. i hope i helped you out!
Alot of the time, I start to like guys after I find out they like me. I feel like this is wrong or cheating them somehow. I mean it kinda feels like I only like them because I like the attention of having them like me. Is this ok? does anyone else do this?
lol EVERYONE well almost everyone does that..i mean its not a GOOD thing but its a normal thing..dont worry your completely normal. hope i helped!
Hey there, my hair is about two inches below my shoulders, medium thickness, layers, and wavy.
I want to get it super straight, at home, it'll be REALLY straight, then by the time I get to school the ends have all curled up and its frizzy. I've tried mousse, creams, and hair spray.
Any other tips on keeping it really straight?
Shampoo. Have you tried Paul Mitchell Straightening Serum and shampoo? O-M-G it works AMAZING it seriously smooths it, straightens it, and after awhile your hair is more controlled. The other products by paul mitchell work well too. Try the shampoo if that doesn't work then let me know i have more tips.Hope i helped!
at this events is all you do is just dance? like yeah i know stupid question but like they last for like 4 house is it continuious dancing?
Well at like prom you eat dinner usually..but yea pretty much lol. but whats wrong with dancing for 4 hours =P. Hope i helped!
ok i need to know if this is considered cheating...I am "cake" and one of my guy friends is "d". I talked to him and I know he likes me.
[21:02] Cake: hey
[21:02] d: hi
[21:03] Cake: how's it goin?
[21:03] davis9088: pretty good
[21:03] Cake: thats good
[21:04] d: yea i guess
[21:05] Cake: :P
[21:05] d: i need a hug
[21:06] Cake: aww sry
[21:06] Cake: *hug*
[21:07] Cake: wish i could hug you but i can't really have people over right now
[21:07] Cake: so thats gonna have to work
[21:07] Cake: haha
[21:07] d: what
[21:07] Cake: *hug*
[21:10] Cake: so how's it going with that one chick that turns 18 soon
[21:10] d: good
[21:10] Cake: cool
[21:11] Cake: so you guys are gonna hook up soon maybe?
[21:11] d: umm what do you mean
[21:12] Cake: you said there was some chick that you were talking to at your lunch break
[21:12] Cake: did you guys hookup?
[21:12] d: she won't fuck me
[21:12] Cake: oh
[21:13] d: shes a good girl
[21:13] Cake: so is that all you are lookin for haha
[21:13] d: n
[21:13] d: i don't care that i'm not gunna get laid
[21:13] d: thats kinda why i like her
[21:13] Cake: thats cool
[21:14] d: and if i ever do get to have sex with her awesome
[21:14] Cake: i feel neglected
[21:15] d: why
[21:15] Cake: my boyfriends playing WoW
[21:15] Cake: :P
[21:15] Cake: and he' like hardly talking to me
[21:15] d: whats wow
[21:15] d: never mind
[21:15] Cake: World of Warcraft
[21:15] Cake: oh ok
[21:16] d: well i'm talking kinda
[21:16] d: i still wanna see ya
[21:16] Cake: yeah i have to like pounce on him to get him to talk to me
[21:16] d: punc eon me
[21:17] Cake: yeah but pouncing leads to much more
[21:17] d: hmmm
[21:17] d: i'd like that
[21:17] Cake: silly boy
[21:18] d: so do it
[21:19] Cake: what's your favorite part of sex?
[21:19] d: i'm not sure
[21:19] d: i love it when the girl fels great
[21:20] d: how she asks for more
[21:20] Cake: usually guys are very sure haha
[21:20] d: i just love it
[21:21] d: i dunno why
[21:21] d: i just wihs i could nut up in her
[21:21] d: instead of worry about pullin out
[21:22] d: gosh
[21:22] Cake: yea
[21:22] d: i so wanna do it now
[21:22] d: your so mean
[21:22] d: why doyou have to get me hard
[21:22] Cake: i was just curious
[21:22] d: do yo like to be eaten out
[21:22] Cake: nuh uh
[21:23] d: so yo jus tlike se
[21:23] d: sex
[21:23] Cake: many kinds
[21:23] d: tell me what you like best
[21:23] Cake: humm
[21:23] Cake: thats acually pretty hard
[21:23] d: hmm
[21:24] Cake: i like it when he's first putting it in
[21:24] d: do you like having sex with or without a condom
[21:24] Cake:it's way better without a condom
[21:24] d: so a girl can tell
[21:24] Cake: yeah
[21:25] d: so when could i see what its like
[21:25] d: i wanna have sex with you
[21:25] Cake: you couldn't handle me
[21:25] Cake: haha
[21:25] d: are you sure
[21:26] Cake: no
[21:26] d: y ou couldn't handle me
[21:26] Cake: but i know i can't have sex with you
[21:26] d: why can't you
[21:26] Cake: boyfriend
[21:26] d: how big is he
[21:26] Cake: big enough for me
[21:26] d: soo
[21:26] Cake: i've never measured him before
[21:27] Cake: i dunno
[21:27] Cake: pretty big
[21:27] d: what happens if we had sex
[21:28] Cake: hum
[21:28] Cake: i dunno
[21:28] Cake: i would end up telling him
[21:28] d: well thats cool
its not "cheating". I dont think its that big of deal but..remember to respect his gf you know. Hope i helped =)
Hehe hi everybody, i may be the only guy in this column.
I am wondering... my girlfriend likes it when im neat and tidy... downstairs, but its a major hassle and really quite dangerous if you ask me. Would this Nair shit, the mousse or whatever be able to help me out or would it burn uncontrollably? i mean for everywhere, not just above the waistline.
Thanks everybody
I think your gf should just accept your for who you are...but anyway yea my friend used it and i guess it itches n shit..i wouldn't do it its kinda just for legs and bikini lines n stuff but..i mean if you want go ahead =/ u should just trim it or something..hope i helped =/
I have a sore breast, it started about six months ago and i have already been to the doctors about it.
They reffered me to a clinic who said there wasn't a lump and refused to give me a mammogram, the doctors said it was just due to my age.
She also said it should go away by itself in a couple of months, that was 3 months ago.
Should i be worried, should i go back to the doctors or am i just being paranoid? There is a history of cancer in my family but not breast cancer.
I just need some reassurance that its okay!
I'm pretty sure your fine..but if your that worried i would def. go to the doctor
hi
im very young and scared.
I had sex one time with a condom, and then another time i got close to having sex [like we did it for 3 seconds] without a condom and he didnt cum in me, one day i woke up with a stomach ache but i didnt throw up.
And lately i think i gained like a pound or two.
Im really scared but how would I know for sure if I am or not without seeing someone?and by the way , i only got my period 2 times in about a year and a half, so i wouldnt consider myself having my period.
Im very scared and Im so young, please help!
I'm almost 100 percent sure your fine..and if your that worried go take the test. a pound or two is soo easy to gain..and if you barely get your period then that tells ya right there. you'll probably know if your preg. trust me hopw i helped!