Question Posted Wednesday September 27 2006, 11:44 pm
ok im 13/f
this one guy in my school is cute
i keep flirtin wit him but i dont think he knows it
i make him laugh and he makes me laugh
ugh i luv the way he smiles
ok u get
how do i know he likes me without askin him cuz it would just be akward...
just tell me how i would know he likes me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? Courtney answered Thursday September 28 2006, 12:16 pm: Oh, how I really do wish that I could give you an answer that you would like to hear. But to give you that answer, I'm afraid that it would be a total falsehood from the complete and absolute truth. I know what you're going through because I've been there. You're flirting with this guy thinking that you're really good at analyzing and catching signs of his liking you. Let me tell you, the longer you do this is the deeper you fall for him. And when the truth hits you that you won't be able to attain him at all, then you'll get angry and go through the five stages. And that does take time to get over, and you'll probably want to get over him too.
So, the obly way you can find out if he likes you is to ask him. Don't be afraid to do so. If you really want him as much as you say you do, you'd go for it. Or, is he not worth it? You'll have a better chance. Go for it. Later. Hope I was some help [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
smirkingrevenga answered Thursday September 28 2006, 11:57 am: Believe it or not the best way is to tell him. If he likes you, great. If not, it's not like you'll be a laughing stock or anything. Asking sonmeone if they like you is normal, and you will be happy you did it. [ smirkingrevenga's advice column | Ask smirkingrevenga A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Thursday September 28 2006, 11:35 am: This is the test I use:
When you see him in the hall, smile.
If he eagerly smiles back its yes.
If its a shy, sorta reserved smile its a maybe.
And if its a weird creeped out face its a no.
OR
Drop your books in front of him, make sure it looks like an accident and see if he picks them up.
HoNeStMiStAkE16 answered Thursday September 28 2006, 8:48 am: you should ask one of his friends..or maybe you should be the one to like hit on him you know? make him know YOU like HIM. He probably likes you if hes all touchy and stuff he also probably likes you if hes in a room with a lot of people including his friends and he talks to you. Some guys can be really quiet..you know they're kinda put in the possition your in now...you dont want to look stupid by telling him you liking him and hearing the worst..well he doesn't wanna look stupid by liking you and hearing the worst. I think if you really like this guy you need to take control before he doesn't think you like him. Hope I helped. [ HoNeStMiStAkE16's advice column | Ask HoNeStMiStAkE16 A Question ]
Exquisitechick answered Thursday September 28 2006, 6:04 am: Guys usually find a way to let a girl know that they like them. Does he seem to be where you are even though there's no reason for him to be there? Does he look into your eyes and hold the look a little more than necessary? Is he polite to you? Has he asked any of your friends about you? If you want him to notice you, do the things to him that you wish he would do to you. If he doesn't respond, then you know he's not interested. In that case, move on.
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Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing.
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