i have a crush on this boy in the year above me an he knows. whenever i see him around school he always looks at me but then when me or my freind turns and looks back at him he looks away quickly like as if he doesnt wont us to see he is looking at me. so what i was thinking was asking him out, but theres a problem he already has a girlfriend. i have liked him for ages but it doesnt seem to be getting me anywere with him so should i just give up on him and move on or should i wait till him and his girlfriend breake up. because i dont wont to give up on him if he likes me. im just so confused any help please ? :P
Hey there:o
Haha I was in this situation before. Well, okay. You can never really tell what it means when a guy looks at you. It has many reasons. haha The guy i liked did that to me all the time. We never got together though? Sometimes it seemed like he was into me. I still don't know, if he had any interest in me haha well i don't care i have a bf. hha Ok, there could be a chance of him liking you. (yay. but wait) He has a damn GF! damn:/ hah Wait a couple days and see if it occurs more often in a day. If it does, have a friend of yours ( a bestie preferably) make sure they are friends first! Ask her to ask him why he's been looking, when he has a gf? His reaction will give you a slight hint. If he blushes? GOOD sign, that could mean he likes you. If, he comes up with a dumb excuse that could be a sign that he likes you or he feels bad for looking when he has a gf. Make sure you don't cause trouble between him and his gf, that could ruin a lot of things. Be careful and don't push anything and don't seem like a stalker haha jk Good luck, and if it doesn't work on, move onn and find someone else. There's plenty of cuties that will be there for ya! haha
Hope i helped!
peace&love
Emily-Faith42-
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He asked my out and we went out for about a week and then he broke up with me saying that he still liked me and everything but that he was gonna be moving at the end of the school year and he thought it would be better if we didn't get to close. So i was like ok and we still hung out as friends and stuff. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me out again saying he wasn't moving till the end of senior year. That was on October 19 2009 and we would hang out everyday and he would say he loved me and would always kiss me and he was the first guy i have ever made out with. He got a bit handsy as in he would grab my boobs and try to get his hands down my pants but i wouldn't let him. so whatever and everything was going great im in love and so was he. Then yesterday November 24 he calls and i cant answer cuz im busy so about 20 min later i try calling him back and he doesn't answer so i try calling twice more and he still doesn't answer. And then today he breaks up with me after saying things like he would die if i left him or i will never hurt you etc. He messages me on myspace and says he needed to tell me some thing so i was like what and he said "I am sorry to say that it is now over between us. I understand if you do not want to talk to me ever again or if you might want to remain friends. That is fine with me. I am sorry for this. But ithink we would be better just as friends." so i asked why and he said "Because i just dont see anything within us anymore. I am sorry. Plus another reason but i really dont want to say" i told him to tell me and he said it was because this other girl told him that she had liked him since they first meet. So now i don't know what to do i'm still in love with him. BTW im 16 yrs old and female.
Hey there:)
Alright, i can really tell how much you love this boy.As i read this it brought things back up from my past. At first he seemed sweet and kind? Than he changed on you all of a sudden?Wow sounds like my ex Jimmy. Well, to me he seems like he just wanted you for your body? I see you wrote that, he was grabbing your chest and trying to get down your pants. That seems really using to me. I went threw ALL of this for, it hurts like hell i know :/ I'm very sorry. I think he just wanted to have sex with you and when you showed him you weren't like that (which is very good:)) he didn't like that. :/ Which a lot of guys are like.This other girl in the picture here maybe he has done things with her? Maybe during that time he was with her? You never can trust many guys now. Don't worry not all guys are like that. I found someone really special that treats me better than any guy i have ever dated. I know it hurts that you still love him, but you will find someone better. To me, he doesn't deserve you. I bet your a beautiful girl and you could have anyone hah ;p Don't let him get to you, i say don't talk to him. Avoid him. I really hope i helped,and if you have any more trouble please don't hesitate to ask me more questions. Alright?
peace&love
Emily-faith42-
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so my "ex best friend" said something that just made me be like ...wow i don't want to be around you anymore. its a long story of what she said and when she said it blahblah but it hurt..alot, and i don't want someone in my life that says those kind of things to me. the thing that sucks though is i see her everyday at school. shes in 4 of my classes. i'm forced to sit with her because all my good friends are friends with her too. i have other friends but do you think it'd be weird to just switch tables? idk what to do i just don't want to see her as much as i have to but i don't want to make it obvious that i'm changing everything because of her.
Hey
I understand completely I've been there before. If she hurt you a lot, there is a good reason there to not be her friend. I've been here before and i had classes with a friend that i just COULD not get a long with anymore. If, you have to sit with her just don't mind her. Seems hard but just don't talk to her. No, its not weird to change tables i had to do that many times. It helps to, it helps you sit with other people and see who's really your friends. Give it a try! It's ok you, will work something it out. Also try talking to her, tell her you don't want to be friends with her. It would it would be a lot easier that way? Try to work things out with her. See if she apologizes. I hope i helped! good luck:)
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19/female.
whats a name that i can call this guy joe... we've been friends for about 4 years now .. we're not dating but i do have a crush on him ;) he doesn't know it. i havent told him because he just got out of a relationship of 3 yrs so it'd be too soon for him i think. we are close friends though.. "best friends" if you want to say that.
i don't really want to say like..
hey!...
boo
best friend (that sounds cheesy?)
boy
his ex girlfriend called him joejoe so i don't want to say that and just saying joe isn't fun and unique. i'm usually the only one who calls him joseph .. but that gets boring. any ideas?? i don't wanna say sweetie, hottie .. anything that would be too strong.
hey there! whats upp?
kk i had a bf named Joseph. hmm i called him usually joey, jj, joe hmm not many nicky names 4 the name joseph huh? Well... i hope i helped a little bit! haha bye
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im going to this dance with my girlfriend but i cant dance at all and im nervous, what can i do?
Hey its ok
my bf can't dance and he told me right off about it.I was fine with it, at least he was honest. He can slow dance,but that's it. It's ok if you can't a lot of people can't dont worry! good luck
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I feel kinda dumb always calling my boyfriend the same couple things over and over but I don't know what else to call him. Could you tell me what are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend? Maybe theyu will work for me too! :)
Please and thank yoU!
hi lol my bf gave me the nick name cuppy cake lol and he's hunny bunny. He got cuppy cake from the song...? haha Well, just think of anything and see if he likes it. He probably will, it will make him feel appreciated hah good luck
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so i like this boy in the year above me in school an he knows i like him but he doesnt no that i love him because i do love him. i really wont to tell him how i feel about him but im scared that he will just laugh an tell all his friends an they will just laugh at me as well. i thiguh about maybe tellin him on msn because i could mever do it face to face, but i just really dont no what to do im scared. please hellp me :'(
Hi there
Well lets see. Do you really know this guy? Have you spent time with him, talked to him? You can't really love someone without knowing him first. You do like him, i can see that but i don't think you love him.If, you feel it in your heart that you REALLY do love him. Give it a try, and if it doesnt go your way its alright. See, I've been here before and i told him on my space that i loved him and it didn't work out for me. Seriously he was in a grade older to. So, i think you should tell him in person your feelings for him. I know it seems hard but it shows him how brave you are, and that you seriously mean it when you say it. Oh, and when this happened he didn't laugh at me or tell his friends. He was respectful towards me. Maybe the same for you? Don't worry if he does, he's NOT worth it if he makes fun of you.. and if he lets others do it to. If it doesn't work out, don't worry you
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how can i get my boyfriend to dirty text me? like i hint that he should and like try making things dirty and he says that he feels bad and i tried explaining to him that he shouldnt feel bad cause its just for fun lol and he was like okay. but he still doesn't do it...soo how can i get him to lol
I suggest you don't do that. It leads to things that you could end up regretting later. You can't really get him to if he's not comfortable doing it. He probably hasn't done anything like that before. This isn't the answer your want to hear I'm sorry, but seriously that stuff can get you into real trouble, i know this trust me.
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im 15/m
this is embarassing to talk about.
im a virgin, which is not a problem. i have had this thing for like 3 years now, i get really horny, like every single day of my life.
i just transferred to a new high school as a junior and the girls there are amazingly hot and sexy. they always show their legs, ass, and boobs, and ugh, like i can never concentrate on school work because there is 6 hours of school a day and im constantly surrounded by HOT girls showing skin everywhere.... i dont know if other guys have this problem.
when i get home i can stop thinking about it..like i get so caught up and horny that i dont know what to do, and lately it started to get kinda serious.
i dont have girlfriends very often, i have a few a year, when i have a gf, i feel great. i never think about horniness or anything, but thats RARE. I feel like i dont want this to stop, but what do i do????? please help me.
Well you can't really help feeling that way.Girls now a days dress way to revealing , I don't dress like that though.Try, keeping your mind on your school work hun, and try not to think about them. Don't pay any attention to them. It will be hard but you can do it!
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Okay, well I wasn't really sure where to put this but uh here goes. So I'm 13/F and he was 14/M. He is an awesome friend but he's always been a perv. Anyway, he took it too far this time and I flipped out. We were walking in a group and some other guys that we were with were making fun of him about how he "can't get a girl" and he says "I can get any girl I want!" so he grabs me, pins me against a wall, and sticks his hand down my pants. I freaked and kicked him in the balls... He looked like he was in severe pain. I almost felt bad but not really cuz what did he expect? But now he's super pissed at me. I don't think he has a right! Does anyone else think I was out of line?
Hey!
You did the absolutely right thing to do, that's ridiculous he should have NEVER done that to you. You were not out of line, he deserved that! Something similar to this happened to me i slapped him across the face. ha ha. Well, wait until he cools off and tell him not to try that again. Good job! ha ha :) Talk to him about it, and he won't do it again.
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i want to have sex with my bf because i love him but i dont want to dissipoint my parents. I have that urge and it has almost been to sex 3 times and he stopped because he doesnt want me to dissipoint my parents either. so its not like he doesnt love me. he told me whenever i am ready to tell him and i said i am but my parents. I have had my heart broken and he knows that so he is always by my side. I used to beleive in abstance but not anymore. I am 13 and i need major hep what should i do i have even tried telling my parents and that didn't make anything better
Hello,
Your 13,you have all these feelings that you want to do with a guy, everyone does.Your 13, you don't really now what love is,no offense but I really liked this guy and I really loved him and he broke my heart, but it wasn't really love because your 13, (so am i) people tell me all the time that it's really not love, and I think that you should wait, because it might make things different between you guys and it might not be as great as you thought it was going to be, because you don't REALLY know what love is. No offense at all, maybe im wrong maybe you do love him, but I really think you should wait until your older, so you know when the time is right,(and you will no when it is)but the choice is yours.My friend had sex when she was 12,and it made things difficult for her. So, make sure you think things threw before you choose! The choice is yours.I really hoped I helped,thanks for asking me a question and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask!! Or email me!!
-Faith42 :)
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im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do?
Hi!!
I liked my best friend to so, I think I know what you should do. First, maybe give him some clues that you like him, maybe say ( this might sound silly) that you had a dream that you and him were together and you thought it was really cool. His response will give you a clue. Second complement him! Tell him his eyes are gorgeous, lol or, you get my idea?Third go for it!! If, he says the same thing as last year it's alright, at least you tried!!
Good luck , and I hope I helped!
Faith42 :)
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I have no friends what am I going to do. Other girls are so preety but I am completely a plane jane and sot of like a tomboy? I can not get counseling yet cause I am thinking of getting one. I feel so humiliated for not having a friend. People are going to think I am the B word. I see every girl looks really preety and I am not.
Hi,
Don't say your not pretty. Don't put yourself down like that. Don't feel humiliated it's not your fault. People just haven't gotten a chance to get to know you... they should. A lot of people are mean in this world and they don't like giving people a chance. Don't care if they think your the b word.... you know your not.When, you can get counseling .. I think you should go. Don't worry about having a friend right now, or Like...just try to open up more..and you'll find someone. Not, everyone is mean in this world...there's some real caring people. There was one time...where...I just stopped being friends with this group...( we were friends since like 2nd grade)...but there started to be new people in the group and those girls didn't like me...so everyone else...started...to act like I wasn't even there. SO...I thought I wasn't gonna find anyone to be my friend...but I did..and were best friends...and she sticks up for me for anything. So.. don't worry...you'll find someone.
Don't put yourself down anymore. Your just as great as those other girls...and I bet just as pretty.
I hope I helped...if you need anymore advice...feel free to ask!!
Faith42 :)
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I'm dating this girl at my school. We're very close and such, been dating awhile, exclusive, blah blah blah.
Anyway, I go in late on some days when I don't have class, and I just found this donut place by my house. Would it be too much if I were to show up during snack at school with a donut for her? I don't want to come off as like... overly sweet I guess. So, good idea or no?
Hi!!
That would be very nice to give her a doughnut!! She would feel appreciated by you...she'll think it would be very sweet... so GO get that girl a doughnut!! lol
Hope I helped!
Faith42 :)
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well,
im 13/F
how do you tell when youve gotten your first period?
Hi!!
Well, there will be blood( a red or brown) ..in your undies..there's not usually a lot. Make , sure if you do start at a school..if you don't have a pad .. just use toilet paper until you can get one.
You can probably get one at the office. They will probably let you call your mom..if you start at school...well you didn't ask all about this ...but I thought it wouldn't hurt to tell you!!
I hope I helped!!
Faith42:)
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Oh my gosh. I have a majorly HUGE crush right now! Hes in 9th and im in 8th. But i see him every week day for 2 hours at practice. Then for another hour in the weight room after practice. I never really noticed him until my friend started talking to him. But apparently shes crushin on him too. He gives me butterflies soo much. Even if im nowhere around him! How do i hint to him that i like him without telling him? And how do i get over the butterflies?
Hi!!!
Okay... first maybe...like if you have a My space look him up and ask him to add you. Than, if he does.. when you see him at practice...or school.. take a deep breath.. and go up to him and thank him for adding you. Or, you can message him on My space and tell him thanks...and maybe he'll notice you more and come up to YOU first. You can get to know him better ...and that can help you get over your butterflies! Flirt a little bit... and maybe wear more make up than usual. (Not to much...he might not like girls that wear to much.. or maybe not at all...but not all guys are like that)You can try new styles with your hair...maybe even a new hair cut. I really hope everything goes okay, and I really hope I helped!
- Faith42 :)
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help!! i want to talk to my crush but whenever i see him i get all nervous and scared how do i work up the nerve to approach him? and what do i talk about when i do talk to him?
thnks so much im so desperate for advice
Hi!!
Okay...I absolutely had the same feeling for the guy I really liked. What, I did...I said hi to him randomly....when I was with my friends and we were acting real silly. Like being with my friends they gave me a lot of courage to talk to him. So, when he walked by ...I said hi... and he smiled at me. So.. if you like... get a couple of your friends...and just randomly go by him in the hallway ( or if he passes u first) Say , hi to him!! That's what I did...and I felt so proud of myself afterword. After, I did ..I talked to him more often. Also...if you want to do it by yourself... it will make you feel even more proud and confident . Take a deep breath...make sure your tummies relaxed... maybe drink some water...( water helps with a shaky tummy) ... walk up to him and say hello...hi...whatever. Make sure your calm and relaxed. That might be hard but...guys like a confident girls. I really hoped I helped and .... GOOD LUCK!!!
-Faith42 :)
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i really want like a bag/purse that has a peace sign. anyone know where i can find one? or should look?
Hi!!
Clarie's ... has a lot of them . Like, at the mall. I have 2 of them... there canvas...and there really cute!
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so i really want my nose pierced but i doubt my mom will let me ..
do you know any way i can force my mom to let me??
if not how can i hide it from my mom??
You can't force your mom to let you. If, you try I don't think it will work very well. If, you try to hide it, it will make everything worse. If, she says no... show her that you accept it. ( even though you feel like it's unfair) She would see that your mature and you can accept her choice. Than, maybe she would say yes.
I really hope I helped,
Faith42 :)
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what are some really cute love songs?
about like being happy and all that,
none of those sad ones please.
thanks. =)
Hey, my name is Faith42!
The song Heaven by dj Sammy...it's a very nice song. There's a slow version and fast version of it...I like the fast version better! I hope I helped!!
- Faith42 :0
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