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feel like shit because of her....
so my "ex best friend" said something that just made me be like ...wow i don't want to be around you anymore. its a long story of what she said and when she said it blahblah but it hurt..alot, and i don't want someone in my life that says those kind of things to me. the thing that sucks though is i see her everyday at school. shes in 4 of my classes. i'm forced to sit with her because all my good friends are friends with her too. i have other friends but do you think it'd be weird to just switch tables? idk what to do i just don't want to see her as much as i have to but i don't want to make it obvious that i'm changing everything because of her.
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I understand completely I've been there before. If she hurt you a lot, there is a good reason there to not be her friend. I've been here before and i had classes with a friend that i just COULD not get a long with anymore. If, you have to sit with her just don't mind her. Seems hard but just don't talk to her. No, its not weird to change tables i had to do that many times. It helps to, it helps you sit with other people and see who's really your friends. Give it a try! It's ok you, will work something it out. Also try talking to her, tell her you don't want to be friends with her. It would it would be a lot easier that way? Try to work things out with her. See if she apologizes. I hope i helped! good luck:)
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If she's making you feel uncomfortable then switch tables maybe you can nonchantly walk over to another table and start talking that way you wouldn't make it obvious don't make eye contact with her when your in class or walking through the hallway just go your seperate way you aren't forced to sit with her you can always go sit with other people and meet new friends so you aren't near her it's up to you your choice nobody can decide but you :)
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Well, did you tell any of your other friends about what happened? Maybe if you do then they will understand where you are coming from. This doesnt mean you have to get them to hate her and cause drama, but at least there will be some understanding.
Next, host a sleepover or go out with your other good friends. Build a bond up. Not to shut her out, but this way she is off your mind, and when you sit at the lunch table with your ex friend you do not have to worry about being left out.
In this case, you do not have to leave your other friends because of your ex, and vice versa, Instead build a new stronger bond with your other friends and avoiding your ex friend will be a piece of cake!
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