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Okay this guy i like likes another girl but she is isn't interested in him!! he says he might not go 2 the prom ...and i want 2 go but i don't have a date!! and the guy i like did my hair, he says he loves my hair ...does he love me?? he laughs at a lot of my jokes is that a sign that he likes me??
WEll I guess ask him to prom. He'll never know how you feel until you tell him... So maybe talk to him about stuff... Get closer to him... Best Wishes :) -Britty-
iight i've had sex w/ this guy 4times in one nite...and thats the guy i lost it to...well i was woundering it's going to be awhile before i have sex again like 4months and i was woundering is it going to hert again when i do it again??
~15 female
Yeah, most likely
i dated this guy last year and i didnt realize how much i cared about him untill we broke up...he cheated on me tho but i still love him and care about him a year later..and we talk but its like once a month because he has a girlfriend now and i dont know if i should try to move on even tho i dont want to or if i should try talking to him about it which ive been trying to do but he wont do anything behind his gfs back or even see any girl with out her being there...idk what to do i still care bout him so much and i want to tell him in person but i cant get him to meet me for like 20 min with out his girl friend there
Hun, I think you should move on! Obviosly he moved on... ANd didn't respect you in the first place if he cheated on you. I mean sure be his friend... But I say find a man that will treat you right! Beast wishes! :) -Britty-
Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea
Well, I mean don't get caught SPECIALLY if there are drugs and alcohole involved... Try not to invited a whole bunch of people... And the people that come... KEEP THEM INSIDE!!! The dumbest thing you can do it let them outside... *lol* good luck :) -Britty-
ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do??????
Think before you speak... Very very good thing to learn...
i play drum set and it's fun, but i never really want to practice or have a lesson. people are always saying "that's so cool it must be so fun to practice" but i get bored. my parents say that if i want to i can take a year off or something, but i think if i do they might get mad or think that i want to quit or something. I also think that if i take a year of or something my teacher will think i want to quit, or maybe i'll decide to quit! i don't know. should i just stick with it or take a risk and take a year off?I DON'T WANT TO DISSAPPOINT ANYONE, INCLUDING MYSELF!
Umm, I think you should do what you want to do. If its boring for you it might not be the thing for you. Maybe you should find something that you do enjoy alot. And if you do enjoy drums, maybe hook up with a band... maybe that will help you enjoy it more... Playing with people is always nice :) Good-Luck -Britty-
Hi im a 16 yr old girl and im really shy n innocent as in not evn ever kissed a guy before so i have a hard time having a b/f cuz i dump them right away n lose interest very fast...But then i started talking to this kid down the street named Zack...and hes really cute and adorable n i can make him laugh n all...n he would always come over to me or turn around n ignore his girlfriend to talk to me...Even one time his girlfriend was leaving for a week and one her last day before leaving he came ovr n talked to me and didnt even say bye to his girlfriend...I really like him now and before school let out my friend asked him if he liked me n hes said " i do have some feelings for her but idk" and i dont know wut that means...does he like me or not? he also said " shes the kinda girl that it would be hard to be more than friends with " n my friend told him it was worth a shot n he said " yeah maybe it is" and when ever i call him we talk for like an hour n a half...n i wanna know if im getting my hopes up or if he really likes me cuz im mortified of rejection...and it would be so easy if we went out..he lives within walking distance...sometimes me n my friends go to his window in the middle of the night n wake him up n talk to him...And when i think about it..i wouldnt be be so shy around him...i wanna kiss him!!! but i dont want to get hurt n confront him about it cuz then id feel dumb...so should i take a chance on this kid??
Well, If he has a girlfriend I would think he's with her for a reason. But maybe after they break up talk to him about how you're feeling. YOU ask him if he can ever see you guys as more then just friends. You should be so scared about rejection. I promise you are going to have to learn how to deal with it sometime in your life... And ya know, He'll NEVER know how you feel until you tell him... Hope all goes well :) -Britty-
so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...
Be you... Find your own style and stick with it. I mean then attention can be nice... But guys give gurls that they think are sluts attention for one reason... And make sure they give you attention because you truly are beautiful.. And not because of your new hott body. I mean yeah it's nice to wear things you like... But watch out for the guys now! *lol* Best Wishes!! If ya need anything ask me! :) -Britty-
hi. my name is nicole n im 14. ok so heres the thing. i am like in lve with this kid named robert. like in love in love n ok i dont think i will ever have a chance with this kid cuz likehe is in love with this girl even tho he seys he isnt. so like i think i kinda gave up on him n started lik in this kid chris. which is horrible cuz like my best fuckin friend likes him. i have no idea wat to do cuz like i dont have a chance with either of them n i dont wna get my heart broken again.... (cough lke alan n ian)
HELP lol
Maybe you should just wait and keep your eyes open for other guys. You're 14 years old... You have a while to find a guy that will fit you. Best wishes :) -Britty-
Ok.. I feel really guilty and awful about this but my mind was on a blank and I really really like this kid but he has a girlfriend.. we kissed once before I even knew he had a girlfriend.. but then I found out and i got wicked upset, and I guess he really likes me too. Then one night when we both slept over my friends house.. something happened and now I feel so bad, because all I was thinking was he has a gf wtf am I doing? In his eyes I saw he seemed alittle.. nervous, and teary at the same time.. we made out. His gf and him got into a little fight and weren't speaking when this happened, but still.. i duno.. I told him I was going to wait for him until he broke up with her, if they ever did.. but i got a bf and now I'm stuck on him.. but it's over.. and I tried hanging out with other guys but I was with this guy I like and we just did.. well.. i duno wut to do..
Signed- Confused
Well hun, It does take two to tango... But I'd be careful... If he respected and liked you, and was willing to commit to you... Then he would be with you. I would be careful with him, Because obviosly he could cheat on you if you were to go out. And I mean, If you dont like your boyfriend be sure you dont hurt him... Maybe you should give it a break and just date for a while until you know what you're looking for, and know if a guy is boyfriend material. I hope I didnt offend in anyway... Just be careful and make sure you dont set yourself up for a downfall. Hope all go's well :) -Britty-
Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous
Talk to him about how you are feeling... If he truely cares for you he will 110% understand. Thats the best thing I can tell you.. If tell him how you feel :) Best Wishes -Britty-
About 2 months ago, my friend and I told eachother that we liked eachother. (I'm 16/f and he's 17/m) For some reason, no one has been going for it. I really want to bring it up and see if he still likes me, but I'm scared to either get hurt with him saying no, or to say the wrong thing. I feel like he's been dropping hints, but I don't want to overassume. How should I go along with this, and what should I say?
Ask him if he ever thought of yall's relationshp could ever be more then just friends? Thats a start... Tell him how you feel... And ask him how he feels. And don't worry about him saying no or the wrong thing, He'll never know how you feel until you tell him. And if he doesnt feel the same... You still have his friendship and respect :) Best wishes
-Britty-
i didnt know what category to pick , but i had got braces 3 days ago , and my teeth hurt so bad , i called my doctor and he wont b in t'll monday . can neone help me with some tips to releive the pain . it would b a big help . thankk you soo much!! i'll rate u a 5 , nethng will help riyte now
I had braces for like 3 years lol... It's going to hurt a litle the first times you ge tthem tightened... Take Advil, or Tylonal... And eat something cold... Ice Cream, Ice Cubes... I'm sorry you have to go through that... Hope you feel better :)
-Britty
Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!
I really dont think you're overweight... But, If you are uncomfortable with your body... Exercizing is a great way and not even that much... And eat wisely. I mean Eat 3 meals a day... Eat a nice break fast (speeds up metabolisim), a normal lunch, and a mornal dinner... If you snack try to snack healthy... And try not to snakc much after dinner or at night... As for exercising it can be jogging a block or two... to swimming laps... and do crunches, lunges, pushups, before bed, or before shower... Or when you're bored... Just little stuff... What ever you do, Don't resort to eating disorders, They mess you up more then help you I promise... I hope all goes well... If you have any Questions... Feel free to ask :) Best wishes!
-Britty-
Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-
Hiya... I've been in the same boat kind of... I mean I've been with a guy for 2 years and going strong... And still haven't had sex with him... I think thats what held our relationship strong... And yes, we have done everything else too. I have had times when I wanted to.. But now I dont.. I mean if y'all are serious have you ever thought about waiting till yall are married, or saving it for the on eyou do marry? I mean... I have nothing against having sex at all... Just a thought... Hmm.. Have you guys talked about these things? Maybe you should talk to him? Ask him for his advice on you guys sexual life... It couldn't hurt... If you decide you want to have sex with him... talk to him about it... and if you don't ask him how he thinks yall can improve you guy's 'sexual stuff'... Ya know?? Well hope all goes well :)
-Britty-
Hey.. well i fell in love with my best friend.. and we went out and before we went out I told him that i really wasnt sure about going out with him cuz i didnt want to jeperdize the friendship, and he promised me that he would always talk to me if/when we break up, cuz i used to talk to him ALL the time 24/7 litterally.. i fell asleep on the phone wit him once.. well we both did.. and i tell him EVERYTHING.. and still do.. and so then i believed him and i trusted him, and we went out for about a month it would b 2 next week.. and i went on for a vacation last week for 1 week and i got back this saturday (aug 1st or something) and we were at the highest point in the relationship.. and on monday we broke up.. he dumped me.. because he started liking the Amanda girl... and i really dont get it, if he LIKES her.. but he LOVES me.. shouldnt he b wit me? i dont get it... and now we BARLY talk.. and if we do its just like the normal convo.. or we fight... and i really dont want to.. i just end up telling him how i feel about him, me, or us.. and now he either ignores me, my messages (for aim), my texts, or my phonecalls... i really dont know what to do.. cuz i still reallly* like him.. and im all confuesed on how i like him.. like i know hes a free person and he should like who he wants and that there was 2 ppl in the relationship not just me and i cant get everything i want, soo please help me.. ill rate ne1! Sry that its sooo long.. Thank you..
Hmm.. Well this situation totally sucks. But I mean, Maybe y'all are meant to be just friends... Guys can be the hardest thing to pullinto a serious realtionship... Exspecially at a young age... So I would give it time... Forget the boyfriend and girlfriend realtionship... And build back up your friendship... As JUST JUST JUST friends... Seriously, Let him go off and see these other gurls... But when he realizes what he missed out on he'll be like... 'dang'... Maybe one day when he seriously commits to you... Then, Yall will work... IF you have any questions, comments, concerns... Feel free to talk to me! Best wishes :)
-Britty-
what culd/can you use around the house to practice kissing(like if havent kissed eny1/few and you just want to make sure or something)...??
I say... just let it come... That happend to me when I was nervous about my first kiss.. But then it like just happend out of no where and it really wasnt that bad hun... I promise :) Hope you find what you're looking for :)
-Britty-
this guy i have liked for a while is now one of my close guy friends.. he is not interested in a girlfriend but talks about how he is attracted to me and wants to be more than just regular friends. he wants us to take it a step further and kiss sometimes... from experience is it a bad idea? were not friends with benefits but he just doesnt like commitement i know he wouldnt do anything with someone else please help me!!
*lol* If a guy says that to you and you go along with it, you're setting yourself up for a HUGE downfall. I'm not kidding.. So you're gunna let him kiss you, and you fall for him... But know that he can like leave you and be with another girl at anytime... Just because he doesnt want to commit to you? lol If he was REALLY interested in you like that... He would commit to you.. Trust me... Don't fall for it... Hope all goes well :)
-Britt-
Alright, my ex boyfriend "Jim" and I haven't talked since he's broken up with me about 2 months ago. We've dated a couple of times before, but he was always the one to break up with me, even though we loved eachother very much. Well, after 2 months of me not talking to him, he's started calling me again, and wanting to see me. I know his intentions are good, and I know that he loves me, because he actually cries over me, and writes songs about me and such. But I'm just not sure if I should try it with him again, because I don't want him to break my heart again, but I do want to be with him. So much, I would take a bullet for this guy. Also, my best friend hates him, because he's broken up with me so many times before. And she doesn't hate a lot of people. I know it would be wrong to date him if my best friend hated him, but you have no idea how much I want to be with this guy. I don't want to fuck up mine and my best friend's relationship, but I'm also terribly in love with this guy, and vise versa. Can you help me please?
My answer... Guys want what they cant have... Simple as that... I think I need to know the situation better... But he wants you because he cant have you.. Then when he has you... Well you catch my drift... I think you should say 'Honey, Im through with the heartbreak... But I want to be your friend?'. Because I mean... Do you honestly think its going to change... The breaking up? I've seen this so many times before... Just saying... Maybe you should get with him... But I say look for a guy that will treat you 110% right!!! *lol* Good-Luck! Hope all goes well! :)
-Britt-
I went to the website for Planned Parenthood (Thanks to Druidx) and found one very close by. The only reason I wanted to go was to get birth control and tested for STD's without my parents knowing, but you still have to get a parent consent form filled out unless you live by yourself or dont have parents. Is there anyway to swindle out of it? I cant tell my parents, the whole idea of me going was to not let them know..
Well you shouldn't have a parent consent form... Kind of strange... But are there ANY adults you can tell and talk to about these things? At all? I mean maybe if there's some adult, aunt, uncle, grandma, cousin... That you can tell maybe things will be better. And I know you're wanting to advoid telling your parents but if you end up having an STD... Yeah... you're screwed... So maybe think about telling your parents a little and if ya need any help with that... ask! Hope you get what your looking for, and It's really good that you're taking the responsibility of trying to get tested and b-c! :)
-Britty-