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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
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Dear Advicenators,
I am a 16 yr old girl And I like this boy that works at a local grocery store. he is also 16. We flirt alot and we always smile at eachother, and we have hung out once with mutual friends,and i always go through his line but the thing is he wont ask me out. I was told he liked me and he knows I like him, but i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend before, and I am very traditional and I dont feel comfortable asking a boy out. what can i do to get him to ask me out, i think were hanging out again this weekend. Help!
-Stuck on him in Florida.
If you really won't ask him out, I guess you are just going to have to wait. Unless you talk to a friend who is also friends with him and work it out that way. Other than that you'll have to wait. If I were you, ask him out. Not only do guys find it sexy, it shows you have confidence. Also, you know he won't say no. You can't lose.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
have any of you guys ever had frozen grapes or bananas? and what did they taste like?
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Frozen grapes are delicious! My favorite snack by far...They taste like grapes, just like in a frozen form (kind of like a popsicle but a more natural flavor). Yummy. I've never tried frozen bananas though. Hope this helps.
-cindy
hey,
I recently just got over this boy because i know i had no chance with him but now i like someone new and there two completely different people. The new person i like, vinnie, is my best friend's cousin. This best friend has liked me since kindergarten so i obviously can't tell him that i like his cousin that would crush him. I would try to get over Vinne but we kissed and we got close a lot but my best friend said he asked vinnie if he liked me and he said "i love her as a friend" hearing made me wonder what that kiss meant. Should i talk to Vinnie about it? And should i tell my best friend about it? Please help me. I'll rate for any type of advice. Thank you very much. xo
First off, you need to tell your friend. No matter how hard they will take it, it is extremely important to be honest. As for vinnie, call him up and talk to him. If he keeps dropping hints that he likes you, go for it. If he seems like more "friend material" that always works too. Just wait it out and see what will happen. Hope this helps.
-cindy
what would be a good age to start shaving your legs? i don't know what age my child should do it. i forgot when i started. and if the hair is pretty noticable would 10, 11, or 12 be good? i need ranges.
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If the hair is dark, they could always start shaving their legs in 5th grade. That's what a lot of my friends with darker hair did. I didn't start until 6th grade. Everyone was shaving by then. Usually that's a good age. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i hate it when people talk about me behind my back but unfortunatly people do. and i dont know how to deal with it anymore. i used to ignore it but i cant anymore and im ready to snap. what should i do?
I agree, I hate when people talk about me behind my back as well. They are just bored with their own lame lives that they have to make you the center of their world. (I guess you could take it as a compliment?) Except the thing is, it's something out of your control. You can't be like, "Hey! Stop talking about me behind my back!" They would not only keep doing it, but it would give them another thing to talk about. My best advice is to try and ignore it. Do your best not to talk about people either. You shouldn't stoop to their level. People (especially girls) gossip, that's what they do. It definately sucks, but people are mean. It's not your fault, and unfortunately it's out of your control. Do your best to ignore it. Other than that, all you can do is give them something good to talk about. :) Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
Okay, I am a 14 year old girl who recently started using tampons[[okay like two days ago]] My question is- is it suposed to hurt a little when you pull it out? Is it natural? or is it simply becuase im not used to it? please let me know. if it helps i will have my period for two years july 2nd.
It's perfectly normal. Because you just started, you aren't used to the tampon being inserted and pulled out of you. As time goes on, you won't feel it as much. This could also mean, there isn't enough blood on the tampon, which just means you should try going with a lighter flow tampon. Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok...theres this guy..ofcourse..thats how theses things always start out. but that ok. well any ways, we have known each other for 10 years ok and we have just been friends. well about a month ago we went to the movies and we kissed..AWESOME! ,but unfortionately good things never last..because a week later he started being really mean to me and not talking to me. Well i didnt talk to him for about 3 weeks and then on may 18...(my birthday) i called him after me , my friend, and my cousin left my other cousins graduation (we left early) i calle dhim to ask him once again if the kiss ment anything to hin and if he like someone else...hey we're friends we talk about this stuff. He got me really upset and i started to cry so i hung up. My cousins girlfriend called him and he sais that he didnt like me he didnt mean anything by it and we weren't friends...This got me sooo upset that i cried for like 30 minutes until everybody got home then i had to hold it back but i couldnt. I am still upset. I cant think about anything lse ...except him and the past 10 years. now i'm so heart broken that i dont even know witch way i should go...go down a new path...or stay where i am and live life never fully loving anyone ever again. My friends and family tell me that it was just a crush and i'll get over it and i say well if i will get over it how come i still feel like he just broke my heart. They never kenw and never will know exactly how much i love him.He will never know either and thats what hurts the most.
Okay. This is a toughy. I understand you have a broken heart. Trust me on this one, it will heal as time goes on. I know that time might seem like forever, but you just have to do your best. Try and forget about your friend. I know it might be hard, but he will get over himself soon enough. Get back out there, flirt with other guys, have fun with your friends, be spontaneous. In a week or so, try calling him again. As much as you might not want to face him, or how much he doesn't want to face you, you guys need to talk. That way, you will be on the same page, and hopefully starting a new chapter to your friendship (as queer as that sounds). He is probably just scared of his feelings, but talk to him. Don't mention the kiss, or what it meant, just talk about your friendship. Forget about going farther than that for now. If that results, thats good, and if it doesn't, you'll still be friends. Here's a quote that might help you. "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they're yours." Hope this helps and feel better. If you need to talk, you know where to find me.
-cindy
i have this really good freind, maybe a best freind, and well to ALL of my other freinds she says I LOVE YOUUUU, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. but she never says it to me. like she says it all the time, liek if you didn't know her you may think shes a lezbian.. BUT SHES NOT. why doesn't she say it to me?
I'm gonna agree with the person below me. Maybe you are a more conservative person and love from another girl would seem a little strange. I'm not saying you are, however, your friend might think so. I have a few friends that hate affection like that. They will give you a weird look and be like "ewww" in their heads if some other girl said "I love you" to them. Don't worry, it's not that she does't love you, maybe she just feels you would be grossed out about it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!
Hate to break it to you, but there isn't anything you can eat to make your boobs grow. Try buying a padded/push up bra. That should help a little bit. Otherwise, I guess you just got to wait (unfortunately). You'll have boobs soon enough, don't worry. Hope this helps.
-cindy
hey well i just broke up with my bf of 8 months and this was my first relationship. i guess i did it cause im pretty young to have such a serious relationship and i wanted to see what else was out there..but now we broke up and i dont know if i made a mistake or not. he said he wouldnt avoid me but of course he is and it is making me depressed. im pretty sure he'd take me back if i wanted to so thats not wut im concerned about..i am just really confused and don't know wut to do. i miss him so much!!! he is so sweet...how did u guys know when u loved someone? cause for some reason i wasnt happy when i was with him, but now im less happy when im not
I completely understand why you broke up with him. I also believe that you should also see what is out there. I know you are still concerned about your ex, however, it will get a lot easier over time. I think you are just used to having the comfort of having a boyfriend, and that is why you are missing him. As for him avoiding you, call him up. Ask him to hang out sometime this weekend or something. That way, he will know you are making the effort to stay friends. I'm sure you still mean a lot to him, therefore, he will want to be friends with you. Make sure you tell him you don't want to throw away an opportunity to be friends with him. Take a break from your relationship, meaning don't just go out with him again, at least for the time being. After the time apart, if you both still have feelings for each other, you know it was meant to be. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
I wanna give my friend a cool nickname with something to do with her name. Her name's Victoria and her middle name's Nicole. What are some nicknames I could call her besides Vic, Vicky, Torie, and Toria?
I had a friend named Vicky and everyone called her Vixen. I don't know if you like it, but it's worth a try. Hope this helps.
-cindy
15/f
what are some GREAT tasting diet snacks that will be fun to make and are healthy for you (please include recipes if you can)?
thankss =)
These aren't exactly recipes but they might still help.
Try freezing grapes..they are sooo good frozen.
If you like Fudge Pops, they have ones that are only 30 calories and bigger ones that are only 70 calories per bar.
Popsicles are always yummy. A good choice is Wholefruit.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
i have an interview with academy sports and outdoors tomaro @ 11:00. is it okay to wear jeans? or should i go for something a little nicer?
thanks.
♥BLAiR
I would wear something nicer, because it is an interview. If you really want to wear jeans, make sure you dress them up with cute heels or flats, and a fitted blazer or blouse type shirt. Good luck at your interview! Hope this helps.
-cindy
I'm in really bad pain. My head is stuffed up, so is my nose. I've been achey all over, my head hurts. I've been so cold, yet so hot at the same time. I also have no appetite and my throat is killing me, feels like I have a ball in the back of my throat. I'm light headed and dizzy, I don't now what's wrong. Do you? Please help.
You probably have the flu. Make sure you drink lots of water and get lots of sleep. If your throat is really bothering, you should probably go in for a throat culture, to check if you have strep. Feel better and hope this helps.
-cindy
hi i'm irish, and i burnnn super easily.
but i realy want to get tan this year.
any suggestions? other than self tanners?
Try a tanning bed. Put on a high SPF before you go, and only go for a few minutes. That way you will work up your tan, and you won't get burned as easily. Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok. well i have stage fright rly bad. i freak out when i have to talk in front of my class of 23 people or less. i got accepted to be on a team at school. well we have to perform in front of hundreds of people at football games and pep rallies. im really scared. how can i get over this??
Take some deep breaths. The audience will love you, so don't worry. Try and convince yourself that it is not big deal, and nothing to get worked up over. If these don't work, try picturing everyone in the underwear or something else you would find funny. Hope this helps.
-cindy
now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne?
I know plenty of people who have acne. That wouldn't stop me from talking to them or being friends with them. I think that's a little shallow. It's not what's on the outside, but on the inside. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do
I understand you love him, but 13 and 15 is a little young to get married. Tell him your too young, and if he wants to wait for you to get older, then that is definately true love right there. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i really really really want to know how to successfully make my hair have "beachy" waves. i tried spritzing a mixture of salt and water in my hair but no it looks gross. is there any real way to do this? btw, I have thin brunette hair that is just below the shoulders.
Try buying Garnier Fructis (sp?) Surf Hair. It works well on my hair, it should on yours. It's really cheap, like 3 dollars. Hope this helps.
-cindy
okay my parents are so annoying they won't let me do anything i mean anything. I wanted to go to my friends track meet and they wouldn't let me they said i'm to young. THey need to realize i'm 15 it's time they start letting me do my own things my own way.
Overprotective parents are always hard to deal with. My best advice for you is to talk to them. Tell them you aren't there little baby anymore and that you are 15 years old. Make sure you act responsible as well, that way they will be able to take you seriously. Do extra chores, clean your room, walk the dog, ect w/o being asked. Your parents will realize you are mature and you will get your freedom. Hope this helps.
-cindy