HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do? (link)
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as painfull as it will be i think you SHOULD tell her mom.well the results will be that she aint gonna talk to you for a while but at least you did your job as a freind and helped her out. tell her mom to let her see a doc that can help her on that.and its better to have your freind mad at you for a couple of months(
cuz you told her mom) than to never be able to see her again(due to drugs)
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my boyfriend has gone away for about 2 weeks and I wont be able to talk to him until he comes back. I want to suprise him and have some really special things for us to do when he gets back. Could you guys help me brainstorm some ideas?
I love him so much I want to show him (link)
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you could wait for him at the airport with a huuuuge teddy bear that says i love you on it.....or you can reserve a table at a really expensive resteraunt for both of yall.
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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me? (link)
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tell her that he treats her like crap while you treated her like royallty and why should you be with someone that does all of this to you .....tell her hes only gonna get her to trouble
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I cuss a lot, and I want to stop. How can I stop cussing so much? (link)
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well thats ez ask your freinds to help you when everytime you curse ask them to punch you REALLY hard or spit at you...lol itll work trust me
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I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
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WhaT ThE HeLl?? its YOUR stuff your giving away and when YOU ask for a frikin lipgloss she says no....no offence but she smarter than you....cuz she knows how to take care of her stuff.tell her NO,NO and NO do i need to repeat that? you have to i mean its your stuff tell her to go get her own and dont worry bout hurting her feelings
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my boyfriend and i are planning on going to second base. and i wanna shave "down there" and idk if using a razor is the right thing, is there any kit thing i could use to wax it or is there any type shaving thing then just a normal razor and shaving cream. whats the best thing to do to not get red bumps or a rash or anything.
thanks, ex oh. (link)
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omg dont use THAT itll make it soo.....not properly shaved. i think you should try waxing...might hurt but youll get the best results
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OKay im 14/f and i have a guy friend whos 15 he is like my best friend and he has always been there for me... but latley weve been talking about like doing stuff with eachother and like fooling around... but like we wouldnt have sex or anyhting close to it.. but like do you think it will ruin our friendship or change it for the worse?????
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ya i think it totally will because it always starts off with talking about it.its obviously gonna lead your best freind into aksing you if you guys can do it?And if you say no hes gonna say that he likes you more than a freind although he doesnt JUST so he can get it on with ya. so i think you should tell your best freind to stop talkinmg with you bout it and youll really appreciate that.
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This may sound silly but, I just got a new hamster.. He is black and has a white line on his tummy. I was just wondering if anyone has any cute names for a black boy hamster that are unique.
Thankz! :) (link)
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jellybean,thunderbolt(ya its a lil weird lol)meatloaf
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Im 16 and sexually active i either have sex or oral sex at least once or twice a day. Can this hurt my sperm count or density in any way?? Im worried becuase my sperm looked alittle thin (link)
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well its definetly gonna get you STDs
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Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.
Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything? (link)
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omg that aint funny.thats FrIkIN ReTaRtED. wash it off be4 she uses it cuz what goes around comes around and one day the same thing will happen to you
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sometimes..i feel uneedded...like if i died no one would care...no one loves me....my parents say they do but never show it....i think my parents think i'm useless...i wish i was loved...or had a purpose in the world...wat do i do... (link)
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no your not unwanted your just bored at the moment....when your bored negative thoughts pour into your head.they said they love you , your still in high school...i think...and your probably stuck on studying at the moment and time seems to have stopped but you do have a use in this world....your ...YOU and theres not one person in the world that IS you or like you...your unique....finish your high school go to college and dream about your future that your gonna be something BIG one day and EVERYONES gonna know,love, and respect you.
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i realy wana have sex but i feel to young but at the same time i feel ready HELP ??????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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if you were ready for it you wouldnt be going back and forth on the matter of should you or should you not have it.you claim you are too young so WAIT woman your gonna get laid one day.if you have it now youll regret it later on when you have STDs and pregnant.your only a child and if you get pregnant youll be a child WITH a child and both of you need mothers at that moment and obviously you wont be able to be a mother cuz you only a kid.....and dont be tellin me bout"oh hes gonna wear a condom" cuz they arent 100% affective.chances are you can still get pregnant.dont get mad but im only tellin you the truth
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ok well...sorry if this is too long but..... i have been gettin these strong feelings....first i thought....no sex before marriage.......then i thought.... you know sex before marriage is not that bad....then now i am thinking it is great to have sex AFTER marriage, but then i am asking all these questions in my head..what if he doesnt like my body? what if...this happens what if that... i have been thiking alot ...and i have been lusting....ye lol...and i have been having these ideas maybe a month ago..children? my ass i am adopting..now i think it would be cool to have a baby..just a life and all the beauty..and since i am getting these ideas to be married of course i will have a baby IN marriage.....and then i am getting these thoughts it would be a beautiful thing to do this...and then i am thinking oh i wanna have a child and get married at 19..then i am like what am i thinking? then i am thinking 20..no 26.....and i am all copnfused and THINKING A LOT .. i have just layed on my bad and thought......and i think about sex.... yup..and i really feell i need to do something about this...please help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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in my opinion i think you should wait till you are married and definetly NOT be a single mother.you should wait till your married because if you do it now your gonna end up doing it with another guy and another and another and end up having STDs.and having a child now is definetly not the right thing cuz when youre a single mom its gonna be a big ass responsibility so wait till ya married
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I hate stereotyping! And people are always calling me goth or emo, (im considered emo). But I hate it when I'm called gothic. They don't know whether I'm with God or not! I wish they'd all just stop judging! I don't know what else to do. I always just get a deep voice and say "be careful what you wish for", gothics seek revenge". LOL. j/k. But what could I say to get them to stop???
Thanx
~KAYLA~ (link)
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i think you should tell them that this is how you are wether they like it or not get over it ppl. they MIGHT stop and might not.if they dont you seriously shouldnt give a damn they can say what they want to say only YOU can decide what you really are.you dont have to wastte your time caring about what they all have to say about you or even listen to them in the first place.
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what if your married....and the guy you love doesnt like your body? it would be totally foolish if you got divorced the night after?? plz tell me.. i am really curious (link)
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omg im not gonna tell you its your body and atay the way you are wether he likes it or not cuz that way hell check out other girls.change your body.you need to loose weight lose it if you need to gain weight gain it if you even need ot get a boob job get it!this is a whole lifetime youll be living with your husban here which means you have to look the best for him all the time so he dont go off looking at other chicks
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God, I have a real problem. When I first came to Jr. High last year I was myself 100%. I didn't give a care what people thought about me, or who my friends were. Then in the middle I started changing my looks and the way I talked, and I found myself ditching my old friends (who were kind of geeky) to be friends with newer and more popular ones. And it worked! Some of the popular people hang out with me now. But I feel really bad now. Now that im friends w/ the popular kids, I feel like I dont even need my old friends. I even LIKE my new friends more than my old ones. So tell me... am I a total selfesh jerk for ditching my friends? And am I weird for changing myself? (link)
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omg it is totally jerky of you.because you used to be with them and you left them for the popular kids.at least still talk to your old freinds.because what goes around comes around and one day you will have freinds that you like that will leave you out for even more popular people
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Hi ive had this health problem for about 3 yrs now and it just doesnt seem to go away im writing about it to see if anyone shares this problem. I dont really want to ask anyone is else because its abit weird, well so my parents think. First of all my my heart beats really hard and fast and then it feels like a really really strong pulse around my body like my veins are are exploding. I know it sounds really strange but its really uncomfortable and happens nearly all the time. You know you can feel your heart beating well i get that feeling around my whole body especially in my hands, it feels like their going to explode. Im sure thats not healthy. Hope someone replys and doesnt think im to strange lol.
Liam (link)
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do you happen to be overweight??if you are your heart could be beating really fast.then you definetly need to lose weight.
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I think I finally found the guy I'd stick with till I die even though Im 13. Hehe. But, he doesn't love me back! OMG I'm so upset and depressed and hurt and discouraged. And the only person that can ever help me with this is HIM! But noooooooo, he isn't here anymore! What do I do b4 I kill myself? Suicide is the only option so far...........
~Kayla~
Thanx in advance. (link)
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ok imma help you but imma have to be honest so dont get mad at what im about to say......ArE YoU rEtArTeD???No really. how can you even THINK of commiting suicide over ANYONE? hes not worth it and your only 13.i wanna tell you that ive been there when i was 13 i liked a guy that didnt like me back and i didnt give a DaMn i totally forgot about him cuz i got bored of liking someone that dont like me...he aint worth my time!love cant come from one side it has to come from both sides or it wont work and dont try to FORCE him to like you or youll regret it cuz hell be playin with you if he said he liked you all of a sudden.your still 13 probably 7th or 8th grade your still gonna be going to gradse 9,10,11,12 and college your gonna meet a LOT of guys till then.hes not the last guy on earth.
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What's a good brand for liquid eyeliner [with a felt tip]? Mine..the brush tip is falling apart. It comes out when i try to apply it and it smears.
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MAC,CHRISTIAN DIOR(a bit pricy but its GREAT),CHANEL,NewYORkCOLOR
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so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do??? (link)
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there are three things you can do here you can either get to know her even more till shes like 18 then go dating the more you know her the better or you guys can go on group dates meaning you have your freinds and her friends around OR you can leave her and move on with your life
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