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i am soooooo confused
ok well...sorry if this is too long but..... i have been gettin these strong feelings....first i thought....no sex before marriage.......then i thought.... you know sex before marriage is not that bad....then now i am thinking it is great to have sex AFTER marriage, but then i am asking all these questions in my head..what if he doesnt like my body? what if...this happens what if that... i have been thiking alot ...and i have been lusting....ye lol...and i have been having these ideas maybe a month ago..children? my ass i am adopting..now i think it would be cool to have a baby..just a life and all the beauty..and since i am getting these ideas to be married of course i will have a baby IN marriage.....and then i am getting these thoughts it would be a beautiful thing to do this...and then i am thinking oh i wanna have a child and get married at 19..then i am like what am i thinking? then i am thinking 20..no 26.....and i am all copnfused and THINKING A LOT .. i have just layed on my bad and thought......and i think about sex.... yup..and i really feell i need to do something about this...please help!!!!!!!!!!
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It's normal to have all these mixed feelings. I have had them to. I have almost done stuff that I know I would have regretted later.
MAybe at that time it sounded good but later on maybe not... Make sure with whatever decision you make you are ready.
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in my opinion i think you should wait till you are married and definetly NOT be a single mother.you should wait till your married because if you do it now your gonna end up doing it with another guy and another and another and end up having STDs.and having a child now is definetly not the right thing cuz when youre a single mom its gonna be a big ass responsibility so wait till ya married
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Relax =) haha its your choice to have sex before marriage or not! He wont not like your body, and if your about to get married with some guy then id immagine he loved you enough to love your body no matter what! Wait to have kids untill after your married. you and your guy should be able to talk it all over and agree when its the right time to have them! Everything in your life should feel like the right time, not just a feeling of pressure and how great it would be! Dont rush into anything, it should just come to you. Hope i helped you! =)
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hah, That is normal. You just want to make the right decision. When the time come, it will come to you of what youre meant to do and you will just know it.
If you want to talk, feel free to leave me a message
Good luck
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