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I need advice
Me and my girlfriend have just recently started having sex..and for some reason its been hard for me to come..i waited like a week without masterbating because i told her i would wait until we did it..the first night we had sex i drank a little and im pretty sure that the alcahol was the reason..well one day during the day we had sex and i came..it felt amazing and then like 2 days later i tryed to masterbate and it was difficult to come..it took forever..not like normal..what seems to be the problem?
Also the one time that i did come i went in her..shes on the pill so its fine..but that was on tuesday and we've had sex since then but i didnt come in her..she says that it still burns a little when she pees..is that normal?
thank you.
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Sometimes, it is just more difficult to reach orgasm than others but please don't worry about this yet because you have only just started having sex and it will take a while for your body to settle into a rhythm.
As for your girlfriend, what she is experiencing is something called 'Honeymoon Cystitis'. I had the same problem when my boyfriend and I started sleeping together and it can be very painful. It's not an infection, like normal Cystitis but is caused when sex results in bruising to the bladder. This makes it more sensitive and can make her need to go to the loo more and feel very sore when she does go.
I went to see my doctor on a number of occasions and each time was prescribed antibiotics. Although there is no infection, it helps to alleviate the symptoms. It's rare for a woman to suffer this after having sex a few times, as her body becomes used to the friction. However, in some cases (like mine), honeymoon cystitis can strike after each sexual encounter. Although there is no official way you can prevent this from happening, my doctor prescribed me the antibiotics on repeat prescription and advised me to take one after each time we had sex, as he found this had worked with another patient of his. Amazingly, it did work and I no longer need to take them so if this does happen with your girlfriend, ask her to speak to her doctor and see if this could work for her too.
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yes it is normal. also when you did cum you might have just had an outburst from letting it build up and then meeting up with your girlfriend. it could hace been just basically "off schedual" but if it becomes a problem, than you should catch up with a doctor; or see when your next check-up is. -> same for your girlfriend.
tell me if i helpes <3 -jackie.
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Hi, yes it is normal but if it becomes a problem then you might want to book an appointment with a Docter. Part of the reason that you didn't cum 2 days after sex I think is because your penis might have been a little sore and needed time to feel right again. It is worth asking a Docter though. Daniel.
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Well since im not a doctor or a guy, im not sure. It sounds like something that could be medical, so maybe you should get it checked out! You might have an std? Her burning might just be from having sex.. but like i said an std could also be a factor? goodluck!
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