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Hi! Im Gracie, my names Melinda but people call me gracie. Im a girl(obviously. Im 13 and I still dnt have my period. My sister Melissa got hers a few months ago and we're identical mirror image twins, were supposed to be,physically,just alike! Most of my friends have theirs too! My dad says that all girls get it sooner or later, but hes a boy so im sure he doesnt kno much about stuff like this. My dads girlfriend katie says that its jus bcause im small for my age but Lissa's small too! I kinda dnt want my period bcuz when Lissa got hers she cried and said it hurt real bad. Im scared. But its still not fair that Lissa got hers before me. I dnt really want my period but I wish Lissa didnt get hers either she gets everything first. Why dont i have it yet? is something wrong with me? (link)
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The best life to lead is one where we love ourselves for who we are and don't envy others. The start of your period is genetically determined, so nothing you can do about it. You're you and everybody else is them. Relax and let everything happen in its own time.
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Ok, so this is hard to explain, and im not good at explaining it. but im a guy in highschool, and if you think im some fat nerdy guy who has no life and is a pervert and follows people around, im not. Im thin, tall, and a clean looking guy. But ive always had this problem where i drive around and if i see people from my school (who i dont know) i park and watch them. Not like stalking, like i literally dont follow them. i just have an unusual interest in watching people from my school and people in the same age with girls and stuff, like i just get jealous, angered, but at the same time relaxed. I havent hung around my friends that much anymore, and on weekend nights, i just drive around to the movies and to public areas and just watch people. And then when i go home i go on Facebook and go on girls' pages and flip through everythign and watch what they post and who they comment to and i just, i dont know.... like i feel jealous that everyone has such a great social life and i dont and i always feel the need to check up on their lives like Facebook and who they talk to and who they flirt with. For example, my ex, i always go on her page like literally every hour to see if her profile pic changes, who she comments to, what guys she talks to. And if i see a guy post on her wall, i click the guy's page and look at him and the process keeps going.
Its reallt annoying and i want to stop worrying about others and it gets to the point where ive stopped seeing my friends and to the point where i feel like people WHO i dont even KNOW affct me in some way. It mainly jealousy, but is this normal? i want to stop.... (link)
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So what are the anger issues? Do you feel excluded socially on some level?
What I hear reading your post is a lot of insecurity (natural to kids your age) that is not only causing you to perhaps seek out models of behavior by watching people, but also leading you to be afraid to approach people and seek new friendships. Again, not abnormal, but it does require some positive effort to overcome.
However, you definitely need to move on from the ex and stop viewing her Facebook page. That is stalkerish behavior and which is why if I was a parent I would not allow my children to have Facebook or other social network accounts.
The thing that really concerns me is that this issue is becoming so all consuming that it is leading to resentment and interfering with your ability to interact with others. You may need a therapist to work this out. If your family can't afford one, you can talk to your school counselor or school psychologist (if there is one available).
Otherwise, just relax. Love yourself and mind your own business. You're overthinking things and that is what is leading to this behavior. Try to reconnect with your friends and go from there. You are young. You don't need to try to experience everything at once. So don't be jealous of others and pursue your own hobbies and let everything happen in its own time.
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I had a uti last weekend and I had a high fever Sunday and Monday. Monday I went to the dr's and the dr said that i had a sinus infection on top of it. she told me that my uti medication will take care of all infection. So i kept taking my uti medicine, it worked for my uti but not my sinus infection. i woke up wednesday morning with big puffy eyes. my mom thought it was an allergic reaction to my medicine, so we swicthed to augmentum ( real sinus antibiotic). nothing has gone away and it is now tuesday. almost a week later. my forehead is sore and my eyes are constantly swollen. is this a bad sign? how do i get rid of it? m parents are convinced that its allergies but i am 16 years old and i've lived through 16 allergy season's and not ONCE has this happened to me. I'm tired ALL the time and my throat hurts very badly. I have phlegm in my throat constantly and my gums are red. my lower back hurts randomly and i have constant vaginal discharge. I have no fever, though. Does anyone know what's going on? What does it look like to you? Do you think I will be ok?
OH! BTW! Can somebody pleaaaase find me a way to stop my eyes from welling when i wake up. I always look awful for school and my prom is this weekend!/: (link)
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I have a problem with sinus infections that give me horrendous but shortlived (and treatable with Tylenol) headaches but I don't experience any symptoms other than the headaches.
See your doctor ASAP and I'm sure he/she will set you right. Or you could see a different physician for a second evaluation (might be a good idea). Good luck.
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Hi I'm 15 f a little bit above average in weight and never had a boyfriend. I've been crying like when something random happens I go into my room and cry but its completely off subject why I do cry. I use to like this guy Tom and we had a small thing going on in the summer(never had my first kiss yet) anyways I've liked him and allways thought about him until march my one friend that knows him well she showed me a text that really helped me get over him and thenext day I met a guy Dom and he's a yeAr younger and will be joining my school next year but we talked a little bit and I thought he was cute but I barely knew him anyways but since I have no like good friendship with guys I can't get Tom off my mind and I've tried talking to other guys and like I said I'm not the most attractive girl so it's hard and my friends I love them but don't spend like every night with them so I'm usually home alone with nothing to do but wait for texts and creep on fb haha and I never get texts from guys only like a couple of completely just friends that I could never like. But yeah Tom just pops into my mind every now and then and ive tried messaging him on fb he replies once but when I really start the convo going he never replies and after summer when school started( he's a yeAr older) he just didn't talk to me like we use to and that's what crushed me bc I get bored and I need attention but if I dint get it I cry and feel depressed:( (link)
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Actually, at your age, your weight as you have portrayed it really isn't that much of an issue. Unless you just go on an eating binge, you're going to grow into that weight (in other words, you'll probably get taller and more curvy and therefore even more attractive), so no need to focus on the weight number. You are also going to get better looking as time goes by. So you just need to eat right and exercise regularly and you'll be golden. Swimming is the best exercise for just about everybody.
But also keep in mind that women are supposed to be soft. Nobody likes hugging a skeleton (which the super thin girls pretty much are). Guys will love hugging you because of that.
Therefore, just relax. At your age, none of the relationships you engage in are likely to amount to much other than just giving you some experience with guys. Plus teenage guys develop slower than girls maturitywise. In addition, a lot of insecurity is natural to adolescents and this is what is causing you to obsess over the two guys in question.
So no need to be desperate. Everything happens when it is supposed to in a sense. Step back, take the long view and always put yourself in a position where you have all the options open to you. Plus guys love girls who don't overthink themselves into an emotional pretzel.
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Heeeey,
i am 13 years old and i am quite small and 'petite'.
i really want to start my first period as all my friends have. i have had all the signs but it just doesnt seem to be coming. does anyone know anyways to make it come faster. now, i dont want any crap like 'it'll come when its ready' or 'your mad! why would you want it? its horrible!!' because i know i will probs regret it when it comes but i just want it now!!
please heeellppp meee...
thank you =) (link)
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All the stress you're putting yourself under about this could perhaps delay the onset of menstruation. When you start having a period is going to be genetically determined anyway, so nothing you can do about it. Just relax, don't overthink everything and let everything happen in its own time.
Also, take joy in just being the unique individual that is you. Don't be so competitive with those around you because nobody ever wins doing that.
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This morning I woke up and my throat felt funny, but it didn't hurt. Throughout the day I felt sicker and sicker. On my way home it felt like a regular cold. Now its almost midnight, I took a long nap. Now my throat feels really really tight. I'm scared to go to sleep. I'm scared that each breath is my last. I looked in the mirror and the food hole looks smaller. Is it possible that my throat can close and I'll stop breathing? I haven't felt my throat this bad in a long long time. What can it possibly be? Can you explain the closing process? If I can suffocate, is it a painful death? If something were to go wrong while sleeping, would I feel it, or would I just not wake up? I'm really scared. I'm M/15, I want to grow to be old and change the world. I had an unusual good day today, a very good day. So I feel sad for a few months and once good things happen, I feel like I won't be alive for these good days. I had a dream of the girl I like too. Thanks if you can explain. :( (link)
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Your answer is no.
The only time your throat will close is if you go into anaphalactic shock from something you are seriously allergic to. This reaction happens in seconds, so you aren't suffering from that. Therefore, just relax. You'll be fine. If you start experiencing pain, though, think about seeing a doctor.
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I am female, 16 and have my permit. I want my licence so bad, I want to go out and do things without my parents. Now, I'm not afraid to drive as much as I'm afraid that I'll get hurt or worse, hurt someone else. I don't know why, but I think about that and I feel like I never want to get my licence. But I want to be able to drive on my own I just have a big fear holding me back and I don't know how to get rid of it! Any ideas to help me get over this fear and just go do it, just go out and drive? Thanks (link)
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Yeah, tooling around in a 2000 or more pound piece of metal can be scary in a sense because of the damage you can do. But just relax, always look over your shoulder to make lane changes (can't trust your mirrors because they have blind spots) and stay within the speed limit, leave a good gap between you and the car in front of you and you should be golden.
One more thing: when at the front of a lefthand turn, when the light changes to green, wait a second before proceeding into the intersection in order to ensure that no drunk drivers or felons fleeing the cops are speeding through it. I have been driving for 35 years and haven't had any accidents. So you can take my advice to the bank.
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I am a teenage girl: 5'3, blond hair, and pale.
I just want to know which stores in malls sell clothes that teenage guys consider "hot" what type of things would I buy from the store/stores. (link)
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I don't think clothing stores can sell naked, which is the hottest. *lol
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my pastor said that people are being to cute with their sins. he said we need to make war with our sins and our problems. he told us the story of weeds growing outside the church on the patio that he hated seeing and he was being cute, squirting the weeds with round up. he then said he thought he got it but he came back and he didn't. so he bought massive bottles of round up and dumped it everywhere! he said there's no weeds in a 12 mile radius of the church. what is your take on making war reference? what do you think it means? give some examples if you can, thanks! (link)
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Too many preachers are totally in love with militaristic imagery, which has kind of made religion an ideological extension of the military industrial complex. It also shares a mindset with Muslim thinking (jihad specifically), which I find ironic in today's environment.
Roundup, btw, is banned in Japan. Don't know the specifics, but that is what I have been told by my ex-girlfriend's family, who are farmers there. It seems like your pastor is making an argument for pollution of the environment, which is completely wacked.
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I live in Sydney, Australia. I've had this feeling for as far back as I can remember that I wasn't living where I should have lived. When I was 4 my parent's moved from Melbourne to Sydney, so for a long time I thought it was just because I wanted to be back there (even though I couldn't remember anything about the place).
But as I got older I started to notice how different I was from everybody else around here. I was really creative, and in High School I felt like my abilities were never able to reach their potential. The school wasn't awful, but it didn't have a lot of resources, and a few not so amazing teachers. But it wasn't just those things, it was the whole vibe of the place. None of the other kids were interested in Arts or Music, or culture at all really.
I had friends and was never picked on, but I still felt outcasted because I didn't want the same things all of the other kids in the school wanted.
Now, I'm in my second year of University. I'm studying literature and creative writing which is absolutely what I want to be doing. And yet... I still get this feeling. I want to travel, move overseas, explore the world and find the place that 'speaks' to me. Is that normal, though? Is it normal to feel like you've just been living in a place you weren't meant to spend the rest of your life in?
I feel like I already know the answer to my questions and that I'm just terrified to go so far away all by myself. I keep thinking about it more and more though, and every day I get more excited, and the plans become ever more possible.
I'm going to try and apply to do an exchange program through my University to study in Canada for half a year. I'm really excited, but still terrified at being alone. I'm even more terrified that I may not be accepted.
I guess what I want to ask is if anyone else has ever wanted, more than anything, to move away. Just because you feel like you're not where you're meant to be. And maybe if it's crazy to pack up all of my things after I finish my degree and move to another country for a year or so? (link)
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Actually, dude, I recommend to kids all the time that they live overseas once they finish college. Given your major, you are a perfect candidate for teaching english in Japan, Korea, China and Taiwan. Take the opportunity. It will be good for you. Japan is fantastic. It would help, though, if you can adopt an American accent when you go there. Check Dave's ESL Cafe for info about teaching overseas.
Also, I can totally relate to feeling like a fish out of water. I was so disgruntled about my original high school I was planning to drop out at the first opportunity. Fortunately, my family moved for parental job reasons and my new high school was a perfect fit and I ended up enjoying being there. I went on later to graduate from university with honors and live in Asia.
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i'm fully aware that my life could be a lot worse than it is at this point. just a lot of pressure and stress and depression is starting to crash down on me and i'm getting weaker and weaker trying to pretend nothing is wrong. my boyfriend and i broke up and i haven't spoken to him since, and vice versa. since then, i've fallen HARD for this guy at my school. its not just a crush, i'm completely and totally in love with him. but he's got a gf and i know he doesn't like me back. i'm also graduating in a few weeks and i'm failing chemistry. all of this is depressing me like nothing i've experienced since my first break up, and on top of all of that, i can't talk to my friends. sure, they all claim they are there for me. but they really aren't. anytime i'm trying to get advice they either don't listen or start talking about their issues instead. so i've stopped trying.
i started thinking about ending my life a few weeks ago. it was just a passing thought. now its on my mind all the time. i haven't acted on impulse yet because i wanna give things a chance to get better, but they haven't. and i've gotten to the point where i almost don't care anymore. i'm even starting to talk like i'm going to do it. i say things without thinking and then realize that i actually believe i'll be dead soon. things like "i might be gone by then" or "i'm leaving soon". no one has seemed to notice, and really, who would? i don't exactly know what i'm asking for here. but things seem pretty impossible right now, idc how pathetic that sounds. i'm alone and afraid and sad and angry and i can't tell anyone. (link)
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First, get back to basics.
1. Do you have shelter, eat regularly and live in a pretty safe environment? Then you are doing a hell of a lot better than about half the planet and I am not exaggerating. Having a sense of proportion will help alleviate the tendency to whine or feel depressed.
As for failing chemistry, you wouldn't be the first. Millions of people have some kind of failure in their life, including really famous folks. Albert Einstein considered himself a major failure during the early part of his life. Colonel Sanders was a huge screwup most of his life, too. So you're not alone. Just learn from it and move forward.
Now about guys: you have to realize that you are wasting your time chasing things that are unattainable. Moreover, you are probably, in the meantime, ignoring guys who would love you to pieces if you give them a chance. That doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you someone who has allowed her own insecurities to overwhelm the rational side of her personality.
So you need to relax, be grateful for what you have, stop overthinking yourself into an emotional pretzel and start looking toward college. Your brain is still developing (and it will until about age 25) and so your thinking is going to evolve a lot over the next few years as will your social circle and your opportunities. Keep all your options open and see where things lead you.
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I was told by a herion addict that if I ever tried herion do not drink whisky as it will cause your respertory system to shut down and you will die. Can anyone tell me if this is true?
See I was in a auto accident and my neck is in really bad shape. My vertebre in pushing into my spinal cord and it has it about 80% cut off. I am in pain every minute of my life. This insurance Co USAA Insurance Co. of the person that hit me will not get me the operation I need to correct the problem. its been over 2 years I have had to deal with this pain. I am thinking about ending my life. I cannot work I have no money I am staying with a friend (thank goodness he has a heart) but his wife does not like me and she could tell me any day to get out. I have no family to turn to. The operation I need cost over 100K thats the doctor part and the hospital. The person that hit me has a 300K policy but they are saying it was a previous injury and are fighting it. We went to a mediation dec 1st and they offered 5 thousand dollars,they said they were not ready and needed another 2-3 weeks to look at the MRI and compair it to a MRI i had done in Florida 3 years prior. My doctor says it is not the same injury. But they want their doctors to look at the MRI's and compair them. I am at the point I am ready to end my life. I hear poeple say its a cowards way out.My ass,it takes a lots of guts to end your life. I am sure God will understand my reason or at least I hope he will. I have a son he is 17 but he very seldom calls me and he didn't even call me to wish me a merry X-mas,I tried calling him but always got his voice mail.I feel he doesn't care about me at all. All I want is to get this operation so I can go on with my life,although I will be in a neck brace for 3 months and have no idea how I will support myself. Here is what my intentions are. I want to drink a good bit of whiskey and do what ever it is to make the herion injectable,a very large dose. Then I want to go into the headquarters of USAA and have the needle stuck in my arm and inject it in their main office. But first I want to contact the news media,date line,60 minutes,nightline,ect and also just before I walk into their office I want to call the local news media and tell them where it will happen and to be there asap to get the story as it happens. I want to expose this insurance company to the public for not fulfilling their financial obligation. If I don't have insurance on my automobile I get a ticket a fine and my drivers lisence is suspended,the ticket will say failure to maintain financial responsibility. But since they are a insurance co they don't have to do what they should have to do and get me the medical attention I deserve. Thank goodness they are located in San Antonio and not New York. I live in texas and I hope I can get a ride to San Antonio. I really hate whats going on in this world anyway. Our government is going to cause this country to go belly up. They protect the insurance companies. Between Insurance Co's, Drug co's, oil co's, and banks this country is going to fall to its knees. I don't want to be here when it happens as it will be very nasty and will set off a chain reaction world wide. I just want to go out peacefully. Does anyone know if whisky and herion will do the trick?????...Maybe just maybe if lots of people called this insurance company and gave them grief they might just do what they should do and get me the help I need to get through this ordeal. I am lost right now any don't know what to do. I just filed for disability but you know the routine they will denie me a few times and maybe in a year or two I might get it. I don't have a year or two. I am starving right this moment and close to being on the streets. I've been there many years ago and its not a nice place to be. I would rather be dead!!!!! (link)
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So you're saying that the insurance company the person responsible for the accident won't pay for your medical bills? You need to get an attorney and sue them as well as the driver.
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So there's this guy... Matt.
BACKGROUND: He is seventeen, a junior.I am fifteen (sixteen in a month!) and a sophomore. We have been close friends since freshman year. ALL of freshman year I dated a boy who was horrible to me. Matt hated that boy for that. My ex would yell at me, curse me out, shove me, hit me, and tried to force me to do things (sexually) for him. When the boyfriend dumped me, Matt helped me through everything that followed because the ex was even worse to me when we split. At one point he almost got in a fight with my ex... Which was notttt good. But he would let me talk to him and cry on his shoulder and vent. Matt and I would text everysingle day and hang out and I can say I liked him but... he was talking to another girl. That was in the summber. In the fall we both dated other people. We seemed to split at the same time in the winter and both of our break ups were pretty rough and I guess we helped eachother through it... That was around winter break. Since winter break we text like everysingle day. I mean it... everyday. Everyone used to say we were "secretly dating" But...
THE PROBLEM:
I don't know how I feel about Matt now... I think I like him... I really do because I'm getting jealous that he's now talking to this girl at another school. I just wish I knew what we are or were or whatever... But I think it's too late to talk to him about it. I mean he said himself that he and this girl were NOT a thing but that he "kinda" likes her and that he wants them to start talking and they're going on a double date... I just feel like that he might be leading me on... If I DO feel that way about him. Because we talk all the time, he's extremely flirty and touchy, he asked me to prom... but at the same time he refuses to be alone with me. We've never kissed or held hands reeeeally... I just don't know what to do! I just want to yell and him and be like ARE YOU STUPID?? ARE YOU REALLY THAT OBLIVIOUS?? HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT I LIKE YOU?!?! It's really getting to me... Please helpppp me. (link)
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He may feel that you aren't completely on board with the idea of being his girlfriend. That he brought up the other girl was a message to you that you had better start showing some love or he is going to shut you down. Guys only have so much patience. So you better tell him you want him NOW and in pretty direct terms. And your heart had better be 100% into that concept or things will get even messier for you.
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Hi, i am 21 years old with 1 child and currently 27 weeks pregnant i been continuesly sleeping with my partner before i concieved, however one time and only "once" i had a encounter with another man he ejaculated in his hand then touched me "down there" i quickly moved away as he did. I didnt want to sleep with him which is why i let him jack off! could it be possible I am pregnant by him. Although me and my partner were not officially together and he was seeing other woman i still feel guilty as can be because i never mess with more than 1 man. My boyfriend is 27 with no kids, he was never able to get his ex wife pregnant of 6+ years he says she had fertility problems but i still feel very scared for some reason.. what do you think the chances are that this is his baby? (link)
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If you want to know for sure, get a DNA test after the baby is born. But on a more realistic level, it is probably best to just ignore the question of who the father is. Besides, it is highly unlikely you got pregnant the way you described.
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whats the similarities/differences between heroin and cigarettes? i mean they both are addicting drugs.. they both can kill you.. what is the difference? why is one illegal and one is not? that pisses me off... :/ (link)
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Heroin and cigarettes are both alike in that there is a point at which you stop enjoying it or getting a reaction out of it and use it just to avoid severe withdrawal symptoms (though those affiliated with heroin are far more severe).
I will admit that the drug war is completely counterproductive, hypocritical and even has a racist background in part (cocaine was outlawed because people were afraid that hopped up black guys would rape all the white women and pot was made illegal because people were afraid Mexicans would get high and rape all the white women---yes, this is actually true and it's weird how the go to meme white guys in power had was visions of minorities raping caucasian girls).
But there is a continuum of effects on the body and brain and while pot, for example, is largely innocuous (I am a former smoker of it myself), I have also known a lot of drug addicts in my life and heroin just makes you pathetic and because it is illegal it causes criminality due to the high street prices (if it were treated as a medical problem, as in Portugal, use of it would decline, btw).
The biggest problem with drugs is actually grandstanding politicians. Man has always gotten high as long as he has trod the planet and refusal to recognize that has only lead to perpetually lucrative paydays for organized crime. As we have found out with alcohol, cigarettes and gambling, it is better to try to manage hedonism than suppress it.
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Hey guys i'm a 20 yr old female and i have really dry skin on my face. I recently started to try using a moisturizer and I've used the clean and clear advanced acne control moisturizer. I dont feel like it's working i feel like it's gotten worse to be honest. I felt like it worked somewhat at first then just stopped. Do you have any suggestions on what i should try next? I'm looking to spend less than $15 Anyways thanks for the advice you're help is very much appreciated!!!! I rate :) (link)
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Your best bet is to see a dermatologist. A lot of moisturizers and make up products do nothing for your skin in point of fact. You may even be overworrying about something you may not need to really be concerned with. But only a doctor can tell you for sure.
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I am 19 years old and female. I decided, I don't want to have sex with just anybody but I'm talking to a guy and it always sparks the question in my head.
I want to be prepared of course but my main problem is, I have health problems. I get bacterial infections on a monthly basis and the doctors have no idea what the cause is yet. With this issue, I'm on antibiotics a lot. So much that I may become immune to them soon(thats another problem in itself) and I heard they interfere with the Pill.
I've never seen my "girl" doctor yet but I want to be prepared. Do you think she might just say, lay off Sex until i'm officially off the antibiotics? Or is there another form that the antibiotics won't interfere with?
I just want to note, I'm really not planning on having sex anytime soon but I still want to know. Just in case, situation. (link)
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You definitely need to see a gynecologist. The infections are something you need to have taken care of. Here's to hoping it clears up for you soon.
And yes, antibiotics can interfere with the viability of the pill. But there are other options available to you like the cervical cap and the diaphragm. I've heard contradictory information about the effectiveness or safety of the sponge and the deprovera shot. Ask your doctor and see what he/she recommends.
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I am a 15 year old girl.
I have bright colored red hair and blue eyes and i just was curious to know how most men feel about redheads. Just because sometimes i get insecure about how i look, which i guess happens to most women even if their good at hiding it. I am 5'8", i weigh 112 lbs last time i checked, but its not like im so skinny i look sick. I think i have a nice body and pretty face, but im just not sure how guys feel about my hair. Ive gotten insults and compliments, but the compliments are most of the time from people much older than me. Sooo i was just curious, please give your opinion on red hair and blue eyes on a girl. :) (link)
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There are a fair share of guys who love redheads. The peaches and cream complexion can be rather fetching. Most guys don't really care, though, what your hair color is as long as it looks good. So I don't think you need to brood that much over it. Just relax, be a nice person, have a sense of humor and be halfway intelligent and things will take care of themselves when it comes to men.
By the way, I had a redheaded girlfriend when I was a teenager. She was a swimmer, so she had a smokin' body. However, because the swimming gave her a lot of muscle, she was about your height, maybe an inch or two shorter, but around 140 pounds. You could stand to gain 15 pounds to fill things out a little more (like your butt and hips). So feel free to eat well and combine that with regular exercise and you're good to go.
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So I have had darkish brown hair since forever. For the past two years I have been adding blonde highlights to my hair. There is a lot of them so it makes my hair seem lighter. Lately I have been hating the way it looks with blonde in it. So, I have decided to dye my hair back to its original color. I am wondering how this will affect my hair? i have never "dyed" my hair before, and I was thinking it might make my hair different. So is there any bad side affects that could happen to my hair because of dying it? (link)
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The highlights will fade, so best to let it happen naturally. Dying can damage your hair. Natural is almost always best anyway.
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OK.... three months ago my bestie snapped and threw me against a wall in a park bathroom.... I havnt talked to her since then and mom thinks ive punished her enough.... I still dnt want to talk to her.... But i feel really bad..... What do i do? btw im 12 nd female.
LJB (link)
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None of this is your fault. Stop looking at yourself as where all the blame lies for everything. You gotta live life with a sense of proportion, so relax, step back emotionally and analyze how you really feel about this without overthinking it. If you decide you still don't want to be friends with her again then, well, it's her loss. You can't live your life for the benefit of others at the sacrifice of your own. She isn't entitled to your friendship anyway.
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