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pregnant and dont know who is the father what do u think?


Question Posted Tuesday May 3 2011, 10:22 pm

Hi, i am 21 years old with 1 child and currently 27 weeks pregnant i been continuesly sleeping with my partner before i concieved, however one time and only "once" i had a encounter with another man he ejaculated in his hand then touched me "down there" i quickly moved away as he did. I didnt want to sleep with him which is why i let him jack off! could it be possible I am pregnant by him. Although me and my partner were not officially together and he was seeing other woman i still feel guilty as can be because i never mess with more than 1 man. My boyfriend is 27 with no kids, he was never able to get his ex wife pregnant of 6+ years he says she had fertility problems but i still feel very scared for some reason.. what do you think the chances are that this is his baby?

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lwynn answered Monday May 23 2011, 10:16 pm:
Thank you.... everyone for feedback, I think im just all nervous because of the guilt even though we were not oficially together but i now know in my heart this is his child, besides i doubt if that one time really got me pregnant compared to the amount of times me and him did it. I know he did not have fertility issues as well and i know i am very fertile given this is my 5th pregnancy and 2nd full term... and we went and got the 3d/4d ultra sound and the baby looks just like him... :)

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VoiceofReason answered Friday May 13 2011, 9:55 pm:
If you want to know for sure, get a DNA test after the baby is born. But on a more realistic level, it is probably best to just ignore the question of who the father is. Besides, it is highly unlikely you got pregnant the way you described.

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julie75 answered Wednesday May 4 2011, 11:51 am:
If you didn't have actual sex where his unprotected penis was inside of you, then chances are you didn't get any sperm inside of your vagina. If you don't want to ruin things with the long term guy, I would talk to the one time guy and see if he'll take a dna test just to ease your mind. I hope this helps and good luck.

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Director answered Tuesday May 3 2011, 11:17 pm:
Hey,

No one here will be able to give you an accurate answer, and I think I know what answer will help you feel very relieved. I strongly recommend talking to your partner about this and getting the necessary tests done. Are you sure it wasn't his ex-gf with the fertility problem? Things change, you never know. Seek medical advice to get the best answer. Best of luck, it's going to be ok.

K

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