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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D

Pearls, bows, ribbons, flowers, muted pinks... hmmm hmmm hmm thats what you can add or look for in shirts. Just anything along the lines of that. Try a skirt. Pretty, different, but natural and nothing to bright. Make a very neutral colored statement... do the more is less. I'd try one of those shirts that let your shoulders show. Those are pretty and trendy. Try light pinks with bieges or denim would be nice. Even pale greeens. Sry im not being specific but i want to keep your options open. Try looking in stores like hollister, Forever 21, abercrombie, Marshalls (CHEAP BRAND NAMES!), and things like that to find everything im describing. If your still stuck I've got more advice i can give.. i just dont want to bore you to death. Good luck on your first day...and have fun shopping. XoXO

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My best friend and i are practically sisters and now my mom mite have to move into another state because of her job in the next 2 years. I kinda want to move because where we live- everything is boring and nothing ever happens it seems like- and our house is teenie tiny and i wish we had a new one- and we can afford one- but i really don't want to leave her. We grew up together and we are like all each other ever had!! My parents are asking me about my opinion on this and i don't know what to tell them. I know i'll have friends there but i will never find one like her. I could probly visit her a lot too. Just i dunno how i will be if we do move- i am scared.

Think of it this way. Would you rather look back on your years thinking of the awsome place where you lived or the times you shared with your best friend in the world. Whichever you would rather see in the future and remember and enjoy is probably the way you should go. I think that if i had a really good friend... it wouldnt matter where I'd live ... id justhave fun even in the tiniest town. And its not like when you grow up you cant be a city girl or whoever or whatever you want to be. But during your younger years the best way to go is spend it with those who make them so much fun. So the ultimate decision is yours... but I hope ive kinda rubbed off what I think is best. Best of luck... and did you ever think about moving to a slightly bigger house in a nearby town or in the same town? That might work.

good luck
i hope the BEST BEST BEST for you. xoxox

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Hey I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or tips on puttin on eye shadow. I wear it all the time but I always do it the same way: white eye shadow, black eye liner, and masquara! If you have any ideas lemme know!!

Try colors that match your eyes.

Brown eyes= try biege and/or gold
Blue eyes= Light blues, darker blues (at night), silvers
green eyes=pinks, light greens, bieges
Hazel= try using bieges with shimmer to go over it, or some light greens


To give any of the above a kick, add in eye shimmer or some white... try using metallics. Way cool and really attractive. Different pinks are quite eye catching too. Be as creative as possible. Goooood luck xoxo

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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?

Nothing went wrong at all. I know how you feel but you shouldnt rush anything that wasnt meant to be. Your not unloved you just havent stumbled upon the right guy... think of it... it could be possible that if you lived in some other community somewhere else you might have... it just depends who your around and who you have 'access' to, but dont worry. Im sure dream boys on his way, ;-)

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It seems like hoops are going out of style, am I right?

If your referring to earrings, i would say no. The only thing people stare down or dont like is when people where those huge cheap looking hoops b.c it gives you or any1 one name WHORE. Lol.. so try and keep it classy and if silvers too plain for you try gold. And hoops that are thicker those are cute... remember to keep the size rational. Or if you arent into hoops yourself try something new and interesting. You can get cute - affordable things from Claire's or even Forever 21 has really cute jewelry. Whatever you need to do to make every part of you spiced up, go for it. Good luck, if i can help you with any more fashion tips im always here for ya. Bye.. xoxo

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Okay there's this person who I know and like they have always depended on me for like a lot of stuff since like 7th Grade and now were going to be Juniors in High school. but we never hang out like maybe ocassionally on a friday during the school year. and like recently they called me like at 1:30 in the morining for me to come pick them up and take them to my house and I'm not 16 yet and not legally to drive but my family is out of town....so they told me to pick them up from somewhere because they did something really stupid and didn't want to risk getting in trouble with there parents...but yet me get in trouble for several things....what would you guys consider this person?

If they would risk you getting in trouble so that their butt would be saved, they were using you. I would consider this person low and really out of their minds. The next time she/he asks you for a favor, set some boundaries. Tell them that you dont believe your relationship is give and take, and that without that your 'friendship' is a meaningless nothing that does not exist. Dont let people use you... especially when you could get in major trouble. Good luck with everything---- XoOOoxoOooOxOooOxOooO

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ok me n my friend got in trouble with the cops tonight and well both of our parents know now and were BEST FRIENDS i mean we've been there for each other everytime we could and we live in a pretti nice neighborhood with nice house and nice people and me n her we relate with alot of things and we were at the park burning stuff and a constable saw us and we tried running and well she caught us and now were both royally screwed in the ass and i still wanna see her shes my best friend and i cant loose her what do i do???

well first you need to realize that what you did was totally WRONG. Once you come to that conclusion, you need to also realize that you have to talk to your parents sometime. Figure out a good day when no ones mad and they've somewhat cooled off from what you did. Dont go up to them if their in a bad mood. Find a time when you can sit both parents down. Explain how sorry you are and the fact that what you did wasn't smart and apologize for portraying a lack of maturity. Tell them you want to be a lot more responsible (AND MEAN IT!) and how you'll do some chores for them or anything to gain back their trust. Explain how important their trust is to you. Ask them if when you gain that trust back from them, you could maybe see your best friend again. Tell them you'll stay in the house or at her house when someone is around for a long while just so they can keep an eye on you guys but you can still see eachother. Tell them shes one of your bestest friends in the world and explain how you'd feel without her...

You have to understand that unfortunately when we dont do smart things in life... we have to reallly ease back into things. That's why its such a good idea to hang out with your friend under their care b/c it's pleasing to their interests... please dont do something like you did... b/c if you ever got in trouble again Im SURE you would loose everything and get a bad name (YUCK!)... but good luck talking to your parents. Think before you make your move...

good luck sweeetheart!
*i feel soo bad 4 u
XoXo

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Well today I woke up with a really stuffy nose. I went to go take a shower and I bent down to pick up some shampoo and when I got back up I got dizzy and this gray fuzz took up like half my vision. It started from the bottom of my eye but seemed to stop halfway. It made my eyes water and head spin.

Maybe it was from getting up too fast + a head cold? This never happens when I just get up really fast, but I do get a little dizzy. But I was hoping for your help...because I'm not sure. =o/

Thanks!

I get like that too. I get like all delerious ((haha as usual)) but in any case i feel like im like having a hangover even tho i NEVER drink... its so wierd. What I think is that you just get that from getting a cold and being sick... I think its just from having a cold and just turning all dizzy. Its nausea. But its normal most people do getting it while having a cold. But if you get it too often, try consulting with a doctor. You shouldnt have to deal with this more than you should. How to get rid of it? Take cold medicine... it always helps me... and lots of bed rest is good for you.

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iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!?

Break up with him. Just do it before he can... if the feeling he doesnt like you rubs off onto you then your probably right. And just b/c you cant get back with your X doesnt mean lifes over. Not having a boyfriend for a little wont harm you. I promise. Try and take it easy for a few monthes... and if you really want to be back with your X... go for it... tell your mom you guys are just good friends. When it comes to that situation you cant always obey parents.. as long as you dont cross the borderline and do something unhealthy for yourself.

good luck
xoxo

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whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it?

B/c they dont want to keep doing things that makes them feel uncomfortable .. they dont want to do it with a girl that doesnt like it. They're basically checking if they did their job. Or if they did the right thing in making out with them. Its a respect thing. Its nothing to dislike, just be happy they do say it.

xoxo- hope I helped

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Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP

Ask him the total truth. Wait it out... until you get ful proof its his baby dont do anything you may regret. She may be some crazy bitch who just wants you two to split up and has to ruin someone elses life b/c hers is tough enough being pregnant. Dont believe someone you dont know over your boyfriend. If he turns the father, break up with him. Not for him expecting a child but do it b/c he lied to you and obviously isnt faithful to you. But see what happens... and for now go on as usual. You may want to confront him and ask him to admit anything b4 the results come... and tell him you wont get mad if he admits whether or not hes a virgin now... if he says he lied ask why... if its a good enuff reason .... then keep him for at least confessing...

good luck xoxo

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This next week I am going camping with my friend. I have never been camping ever and I am excited. Except the fact I am very afraid of water. They plan on taking us out on a boat and go swimming in the middle of the lake and do stuff like that. I dont want to be a pain, and them feel like, oh god.. why we take her. What can I do? I dont want her to get mad at me either. I am just so scared and I can barely swim.

If you can barely swim, dont go if you feel that uncomfortable ... its not safe.. maybe you dont like the idea... but wear a life jacket... lol just tell her you want to wear it b/c your not awsome at swimming. If they dont have one then be the truth.... they wont think your a pain, why would they think your a pain for not wanting to drown? Just tell her ahead of time and not last minute. Like maybe BEFORE you leave haha lol. Be excited! Ive never camped.. it sounds like a ton of fun. So kick back, and relax. And be truthful to your friend, how can she get mad at you... what would she want you to do instead, drownd? noooope. Just make sure to be extra active in the rest of the activites you CAN do and that wont risk your saftey... this way they know your up to trying anything that wont consider you being hurt.

good luck xoxo happy camping..

remember if your friend is a good friend she'll completely understand and you'll have noo problems

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my name is adisley and i need a nickname for my friends to call me....please help

how about they can call you Ley? pronounced (Lee).. its just spelled different. Or they can call you Adi pronounced (addy) good luck.. if you need some more it might help if you tell me how you prounounce your name....

hope i helped!

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Hey ..my cousin is about to have a baby in a month she hasnt picked out the name yet and she cant think of any names so i thought maybe some ppl could give me some good ideas for a name..
plz..i would rly appreciate it

if all else fails try babynames.com... but ill give you what i know and LOVE.

Girls-
Jaslyn
Jasmine
Leah
Jordan
Crystal
Amythest (nickname Amy)
Valentina
Deanna
Diane
Celeste (can be prenounced with hard or soft c)
Odette
Mercy
Zoey
Santana
KristaBell
Clarabell
Lanie
Melanie
Brittany
Nicole
Ginger
Danielle
Christina
Holly
Merry
Isabel
Joclyn
Destiny
Desiree
Sephora (Like the makeup company!)
Dawn
Lisa
Lauren
Andraya
Lydia
Sahara
Sonia


Guys
Miles
James
Jonathan
John
Joel
Michael
Joshua
Joseph
Christopher
Gregory
Webb
Winston
Will
Wayne
Zachary
Joshua
Steven
Allen
Mark
Gabriel
Landon
Shayne

... there are tons of names... I just cant squeeze anymore good ones out of my brain right now. But try inboxing me if you need more for a certain gender or just both ... good luck xoxo best wishes for the baby

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What's a good way to get rid of pimples?

some people say tooth paste works really well...try it... if that fails, try oxy pads, and scrub really hard. It'll get all the dirt out and you'll b xtra clean. You can find them at a pharmacy or a walmart ...

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how do some people haev stars by their names?

b/c they got rated... you may not have been rated yet if you are new

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ok well me and my(guy)friend both like each other but we are not going out.(long story) but he said that he wanted to kiss me and then asked me what i thought and i said idk. and i still dont know. but i dont want to say yes and i dont want to say no. cuz if i say yes then we will end up going to far..and ill end up getting to close and dont want to get hurt. but if i say no then i might regret it. and one of my friends went on vaca for two weeks. the guy i like and her both liked eachother b4 she left. then all this happend and me and him held hands at the movies adn stuff. she will be back soon and idk what will happen.he might go back with her. i need some advice on what to do. im so confused..please help.

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if your friend liked him, but you just dont want to or arent going to bother going out with him, dont kiss him. B/c you'll kiss him for no reason, not go out with him, and nothing will become of your relationship. If your going to hurt your friend, its not even worth it especially if you wont even be going out. Im wishing you good luck... xoxoo

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Which freezes faster, cold water or hot water? somepeople say deff. things. ive tryed to experiment but i dont see which does. HOT OR COLD??

Id definetly assume cold... heres my philosophy.When somethings frozen, its reallly really cold, if the waters already cold, it will take a shorter time to freeze, but hot water has to turn cold and then freeze, so the process must be longer.

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15 female
~i hate skool...i feel like no one likes me...we started skool yesterday and i mean it sucked right off the bat! i mean today sucked worse to! i feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore...and that no one wants me to be around...today at lunch i started crying cuz i jst felt like nothing was going right! i mean i only talk to bout 3 ppl and the rest everyone got to talk crap...i still gotta ride the darn bus and every morning my bus drivers pisses me off and the day jst start off all wrong! i jst don't know wat to do! last nite all i wantd to do was kill myslef or cut myself! i jst wanna be happy like i us to!!??

Your probably just having one of those days. It sucks... but you need to get past it. Tell everyone whos talking crap about you to stop entertaining themselves by someone that their jealous of... and for everyone you thinx ignoring you... stop cuddling up in a ball and assuming. Go up to them and just ask. Can you maybe ask your parents to drive you to school? If not and the bus driver is still pissing you off just be like ok leave me alone. Lol.. ignore them... their probably some stupid old fart who needs to retire or really just shouldnt be a bus driver. Dont kill yourself... its giving up... and its the worst thing to do... dont end your life knowing you've given up. Instead take tomorrow as a fresh start, a clean slate, and take it straight off from there. But.. good luck. See what happens...

xoxoxo if you need ne more help drop one in my inbox... i understand how you feel all the way

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Does anyone know a good brand of makeup that makes your skin look flawless. Kind of like how the stars have their makeup that makes their skin look so beautiful. Or does anybody know a good way to apply makeup to make it look that way?

I think an awsome makeup store that has the best but really expensive brands is both Sephora and Ulta. Anything you buy there will give you a really cute look. But if your looking for something cheaper, try Wet and Wild which you can get basically from any pharmacy or even Walmart or something like that.

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