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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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okay i hang out with a group of about 8 girls...its kinda split up, its kinda like me and my 3 other best friends, then them tha 4 other girls. between tha 2 groups in one, weve had our fights and up and downs. but now one of tha girls in my group is moving away in 2 weeks to Hawaii..then another girl in my group is getting soooooo close to tha other group..now its just me and my best friend and we feel left out and everything. please dont say that i needa have a talk with tha other girls, cause we are sick of even bringing it up cause they never listen and dont really care...next yr at school me and my best friend are gunna feel like losers cause its just gunna be me and her!!! helppp

what do you mean groups? forget that corney group shit, if they are dissing you and your friend who needs them

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how d'u become a moderator?

well you have to be really good at reading upside down... thats what i heard anyway... might just be a rumor though

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what's good make-up that i can wear 4 going back to school?

try cover girl or pick some cute stuff out of an avon catalog... i love avon

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I'm a moderator, I read the help facts and everything. But I still have no idea what to do. Can someone help me figure this out? Oh, and it also says that there will be a link next to questions so I can rate them but there aren't. Can you explain to me what I have to do?

go click on the "contact us" link on the left side bar, and ask the administration.

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okay, this mite be weird, especially cuz i can't think of all the lyrics and i mite get them messed up, but does ne1 kno this song..

what would u do if ur son was lyin at home all alone cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to....

im pretty sure i messed up the lyrics, but it's just been drivin me CRAZY!! thanks in advance!!

is to... sleep with a man for a little bit of money, and his daddys gone, in out of lock down, i aint got a job now, so for you this is just a good time, but for me, this is what i call life!

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this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate

as long as you are changing for yourself and no one else, who cares what other people think. as long as you like you is all that matters.

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I, like most people, have a complicated relationship with an ex. We dated in college, split up for a while, then got back together, then split up again, etc. for a grand total of ten years of my dating life. Even though I really truly don't want to get back together with him, I can't seem to stop thinking about him. How do I get over it?

It just takes time. Maybe you should find something new to occupt your time, like reading ro exercising or the best SHOPPING! But trust me you will get over him. :)

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hey i'm 13 years old in a month, and i still havent gotten mi period, and most of myy friends have... i'm kind of skinny, and really short... should i be worried about not getting it yet, or is it normal? (i'm also kind of worried about not getting tall... i'm like 4 foot 10/11)
-short stuff-

whats wrong with being 4'10"? I'm 4'10". I'm alomost 18 and I haven't grown in like 3 1/2 years. Short is fun. Guys like short girls. Why do you want to be tall? I wouldn't wanan be tall. And you said you were skinny. That is great! Short and skinny. You're petite! Petite is cute. And as for your period... just cuz your friends already have it and you don't and your 13 doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. And just for the record your height and weight dont have jack to do with getting it. It will come when it does, and when it does, you will wish you hadn't wanted it so bad. Be happy you dont have it yet, you don't have to deal with stains on sheets and panties, and being paranoyed that people can see your pad or you're gonna leak, and best of all NO CRAMPS. You're the luckiest one out of all your friends. If I were you I would be laughing at them, like haha i dont have to deal with that shit. But it will come. Just dont stress about it, stress makes it take longer to come. Good Luck! :)

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i need help getting a babysitting job!!
help me i rate good!!!

post some flyers at your local library or super market or post an add in your local paper or put some signs on trees... i dont know whatever you got to do lol :) put your name, age, location of where you will babysit, and a price or put price is negotiable. good luck! :)

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I have this friend who i used to talk to everyday and stayed up until 3 in the morning talkin to her on the phone, but now days it seems like we've moved apart or are not as close as we once were! We still talk but how can i tell whats going on between us? I'll rate high if its good advice!!!

Sometimes really goo friends just drift apart. I know this sucks. Maybe she has a guy or soemthing and is frogetting about you. Whatever it is, if she is that important to you than, have a chat with her and tell her you fell like the 2 of you are becoming dtistant and you dont want that to happen because you really appreciate her as a friend.

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iight something happend to my column it's all messed up someone go look at it and then let me know how to fix it plZe?

http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=mxpimpette26

i did it... sorry my bad :)

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I am 18/f...and i have been really confused lately about my ex boyfriend (which is still my best friend). We were best friends for 5 years before we started dating..and we were on and off for about a year and a half. He was my first serious relationship. I am very much in love with him but we had to break up because he moved 2 hours away for college. We both still have feelings for each other and we agreed that when we are located closer together again we will probably get back together. My problem is that he is looking to date other people, and he thinks i should do the same, but i just cant get him out of the picture and i dont want him out of the picture. He is the only person i really want to be with. How am i supposed to handle this? I cant like other people when i am still in love with him, and i know i am just going to be extremely jealous when he starts dating if i dont have any one. Does anyone have suggestions on what i should do to move on or meet new people or whatever! I just need help.

its not that hard... i'm sure there is someone you have a little interest in or that has interest in you... if so, then find away to start hanging with the guy... or go to club or bar or something. good luck! :)

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Shew...And I Thought I Was The Only One With Problems Lol!.*=) Some People Tell You That You Can't Fall In Love In A Month!! Message Me Back And Tell Me If You Think That People Can Fall In Love In A Month I Think So..
Thanks For All The Questions!.*=))
Can't Wait To Answer More!.*=))
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i believe in love at 1st sight so yeah i think you can fall in love in a month... its not common and sometimes it not really ture love but yeah you can :)

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if you got kicked off this site for a while but have answered more then 100 quoestions can u become a moderator?

i dont know... click the "contact us" link on the left side bad and ask the administration.

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theres this song that i know and it goes "it was 1980 somthin in a town that i grew up in.........." do you kno who it's by!!! i rate good plezz help!!

yeah i wrote tha shit... thats the f*ckin song aint it?

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ok im just curious to know...r there n e like 12-14 year old GUYS on advicenators asking questions OR have an advice colum? it just seems like theres mostly girls or maybe i just havent noticed idk....please answer though!

-katie (hot_tamalee_1218)

i'm not sure but does it really matter?

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I got my first period over a year ago, July 2003. I have gotten 4-6 periods when i should have had 12. i go long periods of time without getting a period. Like I got one in December and my next one was in March. I have one like every 3-4 months and what really sux about it is that when i actually do get them its not the same day of the month. My first one was on the 1st but i've gotten them anytime of the month. Im really skinny and some ppl say if u dont have alot of body fat it messes up ur periods.. is that true?

thanx... kt

no that is not true!... you just have irregular periods. not everyone is the same. if it is such a problem, then maybe you should consdie getting on birth control to regulate them.

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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions?

get her the necklace with the heart that sounds cute

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I have TWO questions. One-I'm always bored and I never have anything to do. When I'm doing something I'm thinking of how bored I'm gonna be after it. Got any ideas? Two- I have to pimpils on my nose. Have any good advice on what to do?

wash your face with clerasil the pimples will go away or pop the things. if your bored you can stick stick beans up your notrils and see how many can fit it in there before they stuck. i'm sure after yuo are done that things wont be so boring. :)

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What is a moderator?

someone who pees on you... if you are the one being peed on you are not the moderator.

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