when do you get a boyfriend?!?
I guess any time. You you just to be yourself.. flirt with them and make a date. Most likely the guy will get interested in you
But if you're talking about "the one" or a long lasting relationship.. It would take a lot longer to find a guy like that. You have to know them really good and just flirt.
If you show you're interested in them, they might get the hint that you want to go out with them.
It's really not that simple.
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ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right?
Yeah mostly like. Even with sports and stuff.
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is it okay to like.. touch yourself and have a sex toy or something at age 13?? my 13 year old younger sister does it.. and has been since she was like 6 or 7 with like a teddy bear. ew. and she got her period at age 10! a year younger than i got mine. ew. is this er.. normal? or should i ask a doctor or something.
Yeah its normal to be doing things like that. It's something new and if it feels good.. of course you'll do it again... even though you don't really know what you're doing.
Lots of young kids do it without realizing what it is.
Yeah.. The whole having the period thing doesn't really have to do anything with masturbation.
Maybe that her horomones are crazy. Matured faster..
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how old do i have to be to get a piercing without parental permission....is it 16 or 18? or is it different in every state?
It depends on where you live... But it's usually around 18 from what I've heard.
Depends on your legal age but I'll go for 18.
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hi is there anyway to tell who reads your blogs on myspace?
Nope.
You can check your subscriptions.
You can put people on a preffered list.. but yeah.. of course they would be the only ones to read it.
there's really no tracker to tell you that.
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Do you have to be a certain age to purchuse a vibrator im 14, and if so...where can i go to get one?
You have to be 18 to get one. In the future you can go to Spencers (if you have heard of it)
Or you can get an older friend of yours to buy one for you.
You just can't buy it yourself.. but you can own one. Nothing wrong with that.
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16/f
someone once told me that i have a mustache (like upper lip hair) i dont think you cant really notice it in my opinion so here my question, what should i do? should i pluck it or get it waxed or whateverr? how fast will it grow back? will it grown back darker and more noticeable?
thankss for any help
It's really noticeable though. When I had upper lip hair.. I didn't notice it either until some guy said I had a mustache.. then I could always see it.
But if it doesn't bother you, just can leave it alone. Some people you notice and the others.. you really don't.
Or try that bleaching kit thing.
Plucking hurts. It takes too much time. Waxing only lasts for a while...The hair usually comes back a lot darker.
You could always try Nair.
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What happened to the little faces on the top right hand corner of questions? I noticed that they disappeared.
Yeah I noticed it was gone too. I guess Advicenators took it off.
What was the purpose?
Was it like a happy face when it got lots of answers?
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Im starting to feel very self concious around people now. Im starting to think that everyone is thinking im ugly and I get really nervous around people now. Before I wasn't so self concious and I dont know why im like this. Last year I just changed and I dont know how. Is this just a phase?
Yeah it's a phase. Don't let it bother you though. You shouldn't care what they think. Just because you don't look like them or anything.. it doesn't make you ugly. You're unique in your own way. Just remember that. If people stare.. it means you're pretty! :D Don't feel nervous. Just smile!
Yeah these things just happen.
Sadly this happened to me for years. It killed my middle school years and a part of my high school year.
You should try to forget about people and what they think. It won't make you happy. I lost many friends because I refused to be seen with them.. I thought they looked so better than me and thought they were smarter. I just felt intimated. So it's best to like the way you like because you're going to look like that for a long time XD
Great personality is the key. Just be yourself.
It enhances your looks .
I'm not sure how to explain it.
But if you're a nice, funny, etc person.. then you'll be fun to be around and yeah.
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I've been reading alot of questions on here about "group homes" and I haven't answered any yet because I'm not sure what a 'group home' is. So if someone would tell me.. that'd be great!
= ]
I searched it up.
definition says:
A single-family residence used as a living space for unrelated, developmentally disabled or mentally disabled people.
So it's pretty much what you think.. of a group home.
More than one person (unrelated!) living together in a house.
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im 14 and never had boyfriend. most of my friends have. am I just a loser? I dont mind it much im happy and everything but usually when people find out their just like "OMG YOU NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?!" and it just makes me feel pretty dumb. i like this one boy but I know I dont have a chance with him because im not exactly pretty.
People are probably surprised because they find you to be a great person with a good personality and looks.
It's much happier to be without a boy. Haha. Believeee me.
Not exactly pretty? But everyone's pretty! If someone doesn't think you're pretty it's because they don't understand that everyone looks good in their own way.
Like some girls have these big beautiful eyes. Or small lips. A feature that enhances their face. Everyone looks good. Some guys are just blind and they just want someone that looks like one of those maked up eating disorder models. [No no girl at their age is really like that]
Just remember guys are immature haha.
You're pretty when you're happy and when you show off your great personality with CONFIDENCE!
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i love my boyfriend a lot and i lost my virginity to him, its just that when we have sex he only lasts about 5 min! EVERYTIME! and its usually always the same position, i want him to last longer and be more spontaneous/wild in bed.. yet i cant say anything or else ill make him feel bad!! how can i get him to loosen up and try different things!! please HELP!
Just tell him you want to try a new exciting position~
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions
If sex doesn't last long. Do foreplay.
Tell him you want sex to last like 30 mins to an hour. Try to make it a goal and to be as much fun as possible. I'm sure he would like that idea. He would probably try to last longer even though I don't think he would make it longer than half an hour (the first time)
YOU can also make the moves. I'm sure he would like the idea of his girlfriend "taking advantage" of him. ;]
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what do i do? the guy i like thinks i stalk him.....and I DON'T! I am jus tin the wrong place at the wrong time i guess. I am scared to tell him the situation, and not to mention he is scared of me and tries to stay advoid me when he sees me. what can i do to get him to notice me and not get him thinking i am an obsessed stalker freak???
Where have you seen him though?
Try avoiding him as much as possible or something.
You can tell him your situation. Like "I'm not a stalker if that's what you were thinking. We just end up together at the same place and time.. blah"
You should try to get away from him though. Especially if he's scared. It might ruin your chances of any future thing with this guy.
If he's around you, DON'T STARE. Just walk away and pretend he wasn't there. Don't try to get him to notice you.. because I'm sure he notices you as a stalker right now.
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Alright im not good for asking advice from people i dont know. But here it goes, there is this guy iv been going out with for about 3 weeks now. Well it all started on holloween when we were sitting around me and him started to be uhmmm F*** buddies if you get my drift. At the time he still had a girlfriend, well he would tell me all these stories about her and it was horrid. Well he came attached to me and i to him needless to say he broke up with her for me. Well now this girl is coming up to me saying that he is her boyfriend and theyve been together for 2 years she doesnt care what the hell he says hes hers and if i talk or go near him shes gonna kick my ass blah blah the normal shit. When she walked away she said she was gonna cut me, well im not one to be intimidated or back down from something i want. So now another girl coems up to me this time and tells me hes cheating on me again and by now three girls have all came up to me. But on the other hand they are all of her friends to. Iv talked to him each time and he said that they wernt going out and hes getting mad or so i think he is if its all an act i dont know. So now im confused out of my mind and hurt beyound hell and i need help what should i do? I RATE
Look, if this guy cheated on his ex. He could have cheated again with you.
But if you think you could trust him with what he tells you, then continue going out.
I think if those girls are saying that, obviously they want you to break up with him. Don't let them get to you. Those girls are trying to help that one girl out.
But if your guy, is.. showing signs of cheating.
Get rid of him.
If he has no time for you
or if he works late, always busy, won't answer calls/etc
Then you need to talk to him.
But you shouldn't trust him fully yet. He cheated once he could cheat again. Maybe the girls could be right though.
But if you're willing to give him a chance then go ahead!
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~~~~~A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her~~~~~
I read this somewhere, and really want to know if this is true or false.
So, is it true or not?
Yes and no.
Sometimes the thought of someone liking you.. makes you feel wanted/special and good.. but you don't really like them back.
It's more of.. liking the idea..that a girl would like them.
But yeah.. you could like someone if you thought about them a lot.
But there's only a chance they don't.
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theres this guys who i reallllly like. people also think he likes me, too, just because he always looks at me and talks to me. But, I told my friend to tell him that I like him. So, my friend told him that i like him, and now he seems to pay much more atention to me and want to talk to me more and stuff. is that normal?
Yeah it's normal.
Now that he knows you like him.. He's trying to get closer to you, that's a good thing haha.
Flirtt! Go see a movie with him. :]
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Okay so there is this teacher at school who I really like. Shes like punk rock-emo even though shes in her fifties. Heh. Anyways, like some days she is extremely funny and bubbly and happy and the the next day she will be totally crazy and stressed, almost to the point where she scares us. She will start yelling at us and blaming all of her problems and stuff on us. Anyways I was just wondering, could this be a sign of like bipolar disorder or some other disorder? Like, I dont want to pry into her personal life, but I want to know if we are making her mad or if it is some kind of thing she cant control.
I doubt she has any disorders or whatever.
Teachers are usually most stressed out. They have all these papers to grade. When they are sick or something, they have to make a plan for a sub. They have to keep grades in and always make plans for each day. They have to teach a certain amount of information in a couple of weeks.. then go into the next subject. It's somewhat hard especially when the students may not understand it quickly. Sometimes it's hard for a teacher to keep up with the work and students.
She has her own life too. People have their bad days.
But you can go on your own time and ask her why she was mad. Though, if your class was talking or not listening to her.. that could be a reason.
It could be an off day. Lots of teachers have things going on in their life and they aren't supposed to tell students about it. They are there to teach you so if they wasted time talking to you, you probably wouldn't learn much.
Some teachers go through bad marriages, family problems, their own issues and everything. Some of them are good at covering it up and others.. get slightly irritated and take it out on their students.
Just remember she has her own life and your class is doing nothing to upset her (unless they are pulling at her nerves with attitude). It's sometimes hard to seperate your personal life/problems with school/work.
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I have never kissed a guy and I'm scared that when I do I will be really bad at it. Does anyone have any kissing advice for a kissing virgin?
Make sure your lips aren't chapped ;]
Just pucker up a little and press your lips against his.
Slowly open your mouth and press back.
When you're like.. making out.. you can nibble on his lip softly.
When it happens, just follow him.
Always carry a mint or a piece of gum!
Too much saliva is bad too. Don't try to french kiss or anything, or well.. don't let him do that.. unless you're comfortable with that.
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I had a friend last year, and we werent like best friends or aquatences (sp) either. this year we joined the same club, and i was like right next to her and she didnt even look or say anything to me. its like she didnt even notice i was there. why would she do that? she was paying attention to only the other girls there who were also my friends.. but like idk why she'd be pissed at me or somethin.
Well if you weren't really a good close friend then she doesn't really have to talk to you.
Sometimes it could be awkward.
Maybe she has nothing to talk about with you. You just start a conversation but if she ignores you.. then that's a problem.
You could always say Hi or something.. I remember you from last year. Maybe she doesn't recognize you?
I'm pretty sure she saw you but didn't know what to say.
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im in a group home and its an all girls one. im straight but i really am starting to like the girls. if you know what i mean. i wanna touch them all over. i have a bf, but i want one of the girls to join in with me and him. i think that would be fun. so now am i gay?
No I don't think you are gay. I think you may be bi though or bi curious?
I can imagine I'll probably be the same if I were stuck in a place with all girls. It's pretty much what you see all day.
But yeah you could still be straight though.. but you're just "open" to girls.. even though you don't want a relationship with them.
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