If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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im 15 and my bf's 18 n my parents are cool with it...Well weve had sex alot and i actually live with him because of certain issues that happened while living with my dad...Well i know that he loves me and weve been together for almost 2 years. But we had this one conversation not too long ago about a friend whos bf wont dump her cus they have sex all the time..Well thats sort of my issue..I have sex like everyday and he told me he would dump me if we stopped having sex (over a long period of time)the thing is is that i want to have sex and that isnt a problem but its like at first when we went out it was like all about love and building our relationship now that thats established its about our love and then sex then building a life together..Im confused because i live with him and depend on him so its not like im gonna leave him but im worried that If i stop having sex he wont be with me ne more-so far after a year and a half of having sex (he devirginized me) Im still into it totally But sometimes i feel like im on his schedule like its all about when hes horny and then sometimes when i actually am hes asleep or something...But anyways he is the only person who has ever loved me for me..and he treats me like a queen but sometimes i just get confused..if anyone could give me advice it would be great..also if anyone has ne sex tips for me it would b gr8tly appreciated( i rate ) thanks alot!! (link)
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Oh shit. It's obvious to me that he's in the relationship for the pussy that you give him. This is also highly illegal. You're not even close to 18. You mention that he wants it on his schedule and has no regard for yours. He's using for sex when he wants and you mention the relationship will end if the sex stops. He's too old for you anyway. At 15,it's not surprising he's the only person who has "loved" you. You're only 15 and not even halfway finished with high school. Give life more of a chance and don't tie yourself down. The sex might be great now,but it won't be forever. You better really really love this guy.
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Whenever i meet a new guy we always end up being pretty good friends. we get close and i feel so comfortable around them. this constantly happens and i can never get a boyfriend. what should i do? (link)
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Don't feel too bad,the same goes for me and girls. If you find an answer before I do,e-mail me and let me know what it is.
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I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
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If you loved your carless boyfriend,then you wouldn't still like you ex. You say you like him but you don't love him. The same goes for your current boyfriend. I say ditch Mr. Long Distance and give your ex another chance. A guy wouldn't be there for you all the time if he didn't like you.
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my boyfriend went to a club without asking...and told me afterwards...i have the right to be mad right?...if i went he would of killed me...i cant take it anymore we fight so much but i love him so much how can i stop the fighting? please help i rate.... (link)
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It's ok that he went to a club,but then he has no right to get mad at you if you did that. That's being hypocritical. You should be mad if you're being held to a double standard. The reason you're mad is because you think he may fooled around. And he may have. If you both loved each other,you wouldn't get mad over stupid shit like this. You both need to talk about this club thing and address why you're boyfriend is being a royal asshole.
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help (link)
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It's not too fast and if you're alone with her,do it. She'll get that look in her eyes and just do it. They like you to take initiative anyway.
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i'm a teenage girl and, like most teenage girls do, i want to meet someone i like and have a boyfriend...so this brings me to my question: guys - where do you normally meet girls? and if you think a girl is hot/cute but you don't know her, will you try to talk to her even if you aren't at a party or anything like that? or are you too shy/don't care enough?? oh yeah, and do guys care as much if they connect with a girl or do they just like anything with two legs that will talk to them? sorry, that sounded a little harsh haha BE HONEST (link)
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Lets take this one at a time. First,you can meet a guy at school,the gym,at a game,at a club,or hell,even a library. I will not usually go up and talk to a good looking girl,because it's going to come off as cheap flirting. Besides she's got other shit to do than talk to me. I like connecting with a girl,yeah,but when a girl shows interest in us,that's a real turn on. It also makes us do less work.
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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ! (link)
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All I can say is oh shit. If you haven't had your period in awhile,you need to start worrying. Go see a doctor immediatelty. There's a great chance you could be pregnant. There are plenty of guys who would've taken advantage of you.
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when ur giving head and u spit instead of swallow...where do u spit it? (link)
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You can spit in the sink,the toilet, and anywhere else you might spit something. Just don't do it immediately,it gives off the impression that we were disguisting and that's a turn off.
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IM MIKE! Im a nice guy and alot of girls like me. i have a pretty good life except ONE THING..puberty. my voice is still a little high and there is no sign of cracking. im 13 years old and i turn 14 in the begging of january! Is there something wrong with me?! (link)
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No,everybody goes through puberty at different times. Your voice will lower and when you think about it,you're only 13 and a half. 14 isn't coming up real soon. Some girls don't get their first period until 14 or 15. Everybody grows up at different rates Mike. Or you may just have a high voice naturally. Either way,nothing is wrong with you.
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I just found out that if you have anal sex that if you have anal sex then your not a virgin! is that really true? and..i wanna no if a guy cums while his penis is in a gurl (during anal) can she still get pregnant..and if the girl gets cum on her front side and doesn't whip it off right away can she get pregnant? hurry I need to know!!!
PLEASE I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!! (link)
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Having anal sex is just as much as having oral sex. If you believe oral sex is sex,anal sex should also be considered sex. You can only get pregnant if some of his cum drips in your pussy. No other way. If you're careful and none gets in,then no,you can't get pregnant from anal sex.
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OK, well, I wear glasses. I can see without them but not very well. THe thing is, how am I supposed to have sex with glasses on? Wouldn't it be a bit awkward? For those who wear glasses, do you just take them off or do you leave them on? ANy advice is really appreciated!! (link)
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Unless you just can't see a damn thing,take them off. It's like when you sleep,you take them off then right? Just take them off when you're fucking. But they can't be that bad when you're having sex. You probably wouldn't even think twice about it.
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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No way. If you had your period,you're safe. But you were only safe THIS time. Don't have unprotected sex anymore. Next time,you might get pregnant.
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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.
When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.
I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. (link)
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You're strongly seeking his approval because he is your father and you love him. He feels his daughter is too young to be having a child,even though you are married. He still views you as his little baby. At least your child will have a father figure in its life and you are married. He will eventually get over it. He also may view this as a sign that he's getting old. I mean he is going to be GRANDfather. A lot of men,my father included,are terrified of getting old.
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Can u get an orgasm while just being fingered? They other night i was being fingered by my boyfriend, and he asked me if I had just had an orgasm. I honestly don't know what an orgasm is or how to tell if i've had one...
Can someone please tell me how to tell if i've had one and how to tell when im having one? (link)
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Yes,if he hits the g-spot. It's about 2 inches inside you and can be touched by doing the come here motion with your finger. If you don't know if you had one,then you didn't have one. You would know.
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would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween??? (link)
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No,that's a good idea.
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This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
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You can't. You're gunna think about him all the time if you like him. Just keep praying he won't die.
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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
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No,when you first get your period,it's irregular. You're not pregnant.
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whats a orgy? how do you get one? (link)
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An orgy is a lot of people having sex with each other at once. How do you get one? If I knew,I wouldn't be here sweety. I'd be having an orgy.
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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD? (link)
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Sure. If it breaks or if he eats you out.
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how can you tel if your girlfriend is or did cheat on you (link)
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You can't. Unless you have proof(photos of her and another guy or actually seeing it) you have to take her word.
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