Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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Last Update: August 9, 2008
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So this has started ever since highschool began, I can't eat breakfast, I just feel nausia when I see food, eggs, bacon, poptarts, sandwichs. I know its unhealthy I've been forcing myself to eat breakfast now! Yesterday I forced myself to eat a poptart and I threw up, I only had 4 bites? It's almost been a month and my parents are getting annoyed that I don't eat what they make me to eat. But then at like 9:59am-12:00pm I'm starving. Why is this happening?! And I have diahhrea now, which I have no clue why! HELP!
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I'm practically the same way. It's just when highschool started, I didn't have time in the morning to get in a breakfast, so my body got adjusted to a certain sort of eating schedule, and breakfast was never a part of it anymore. But as for the diahhrea, I'm not too sure why your body's reacting that badly to food, I would consider going to a doctor and check that out and ask them what you should do. But if you're starving around 12:00ish or so, just bring a poptart or some sort of bag filled with some crackers or a little snack and while you're walking to classes, sneak a little few bites. That's what I do sometimes. And whenever you're sitting getting stuff @ your locker, you can also sneak some bites there.
Also, I tried googling it up, and this site came up:
http://www.blm.rcs.k12.tn.us/teachers/CrichtonP/CrichtonP.htm
So check it out and see if it helps you at all.
I hope I helped.
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Im almost sixteen, female.
So I kinda like this guy, and we've been friends since about 4th or 5th grade. Hes not like my best friend, or even my best guy friend, but we've been pretty cool. I dont know if i want to ruin that. Anyways, i kinda like him, and he really likes me, and hes supposedly gonna ask me out soon,like in the next couple of days. On top of that, i just broke up with my boyfriend a little less than a month ago (Sept. 1st) and they r kinda friends, but not that much. And, my ex was really attached to me, so hed be really upset if i started dating him now. (Actually...when he heard we're going to homecoming together, he called me that night, and started yelling and cussing at me! and we'd been broken up 2 weeks then. But maybe he's gotten better since then)Whats a good amount of time to wait? And is dating this guy worth all of this drama?
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Just wait a good week or so. I would wait till homecoming and see if he's really worth going through all the drama for, and really think of your feelings for this guy. I think so ; if you really like him, the drama will be worth it. If your ex-boyfriend calls you again and starts cussing and everything, just be like,"Well, we broke up. That's what's going to happen. I'm going to date other people, you're going to date other people. Sorry." Because he can't be that jealous, I mean you guys broke up for a reason and you're not his anymore. But like I said, just go to homecoming with him, have fun with him, flirt, whatever and see how strong your feelings really are for him and see if he's really worth it. I hope I helped.
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This was my previous question:
Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and I was wondering how I'd go about selling some of my artwork in galleries? Maybe just some small galleries around town. How old do you have to be and how would I do it? Any other info you could give me would be great too. Thanks!
My town is Mooloolaba (Sunshine Coast. Aust.)
Thanks!! (link)
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I'm not totally sure if I found where you live, but I went to a map site and look up Art, Antiques and Galleries in where you live, and this came up:
http://www.street-directory.com.au/sd_new/business.cgi?UrlSD=Australia/Queensland/SunshineCoast/MaroochyShire/Mooloolaba/ArtCraftAntique&CategoryID=1&StateID=4&RegionID=23&CouncilID=366&SuburbID=6799
So there's 5 places you can possibly check out and see if they work out for you.
I've been trying to Google up how old you have to be to sell artwork, but nothing seems to come up at all. Still it only keeps being "artwork you can sell online". I assume the age would be 18 because you're old enough to handle repsonsibility then and you have identification and you don't need parental permission or anything.
If any of those galleries are near you, drive to them and ask them how old you would have to be and everything if you were to sell your artwork. It'd be best to go straight to the actual source and an employee and person whose in the art business than me. I'm sorry I couldn't help you more. :/
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Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and I was wondering how I'd go about selling some of my artwork in galleries? Maybe just some small galleries around town. How old do you have to be and how would I do it? Any other info you could give me would be great too. Thanks! (link)
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Well, I've tried just Googling the age for selling artwork to galleries and places, but nothing came up. I would probably need to know where you live, because the age could be different for many places, and then I could also try and find some of your small museums around your town and find out their information then. So if you just tell me your town, I'd be more than glad to Google around some more!
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hi, I'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 next month and i've been a vegetarian since I was 13. I became really sick from eating meat, like throwing up and having pins and needles everywhere and stuff - i was just really sick. it happened a few times so i decided to go vegetarian. i eat tuna about 3 times a week though - fish is the only meat i eat. Well, my problem is that i haven't grown at all since I became a vego, everyone says i look like i'm 12 which is humiliating and i weigh 47 kg (which varies) and i'm only 159cm tall. I'm really short compared to my friends and i hate the fact i look so young when im almost 16! is this to do with the food i'm eating? i dont really know what i should be eating and the lentils thing doesn't really appeal to me. I just want to grow!! also should i take vitamin suppliments? i take multivitamin/mineral suppliments everyday. Please help me! (link)
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Well, I'm not a vegetarian so I would exaclty be sure, so I found this site with a person who practically asked the same question:
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sports/1433.html
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2196.html
I don't think dieting would necessairly effect your height that much, and I don't think the way you eat would effect the way you look in terms of your face. It just might be your genetics and the way you're growing or not growing and how you look. Just incase, I tried Googling up if being a vegetarian effect how old you look and such, and nothing came up for it, so it just might be the way you look.
Heres some sites for you to help you out on some good healthy foods for vegetarians:
http://vegweb.com/
http://www.llu.edu/llu/nutrition/vegguide.html
http://vegetarian.allrecipes.com/
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/dietandfitness/nutrition/vitamins/qas/0,9582,250_163610,00.html
Especially read the bottom site. It tells you about supplements and everything you're taking. You really don't need them. If you look onto some of those veg sites I showed you, they'll provide you and show you how to cook things with enough vitamins and nutrients in them, I'm sure.
And just remember about your looks and height, it's just your genetics. I'm sure over time, you're height spurts and such'll kick in and you'll get taller and look older. The body doesn't stop developing until you're 18 years old, so you still have 2 long years ahead of you to go. Also, being 5'2" ( I hope I did the math right )isn't THAT bad at all. I'm 5'4" and I'm 15 going on 16 in July. And there's nothing to be embarassed about! Alot of people think short girls are actually really cute. :)
I hope I helped.
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ok so i went to that site and i did what you said i went to column settings then right next to text i put this in
broadwaypink(Safe Hex3) #FF0066
and it didn't do anything! see..i dont know if its my account or what like my friend did it for me before and its not working and the box in the middle like where all of your shit is at like your advice and stuff you know..and it wont be the same color i dont know ..am i doing it wrong again? (link)
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Hm, it should work. Now, did you put the WHOLE entire thing in there? Like did you paste "broadwaypink (safe hex3) #______" in there? Because you're not supposed to. You're only supposed to enter #FF0066 in there. If you still can't seem to do it, I'd be happy to go onto it for you and do it myself. It also could be your internet or something, because it should only take 1,2,3 and it's done.
I hope I helped.
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Um, first of all, do you just want to IM me, lol? Or message me over myspace, whatever's fine. It might be quicker to get done and we won't have to keep messaging eachother over here and everything, but I'll try to answer it.
I assume by trying to put a background on it, you mean the side bar? Now did you go to column settings, and then SIDE BAR IMAGE (URL):____ and eneter in the URL for the background there?
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I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night? (link)
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Most people would probably consider a person who did that a slut, yes. That word would probably pop right off into my mind if I heard that. ( I'm not trying to be rude if it's you or anything, I'm just saying. ) But I don't think if someone did that they'd be like, the biggest slut in the world, it just a little.. distasteful to me. Most people don't go around sleeping with 2 guys in one night, but this is only my opinion. It'd depend on whatever other people consider a slut, and what they don't, really.
I hope I helped.
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ok dude..i dont know how to make my column look cute..i know how to do the background but then the column on the inside box is all gross so what do i do? lol thanks (link)
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Well, I wouldn't consider my column CUTE, but to get a nice color on the side box thing a nice color, I just go here:
http://www.december.com/html/spec/color.html
And just copy and paste the code on that site onto the column settings.
I hope I helped.
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ok i need to know if this is considered cheating...I am "cake" and one of my guy friends is "d". I talked to him and I know he likes me.
[21:02] Cake: hey
[21:02] d: hi
[21:03] Cake: how's it goin?
[21:03] davis9088: pretty good
[21:03] Cake: thats good
[21:04] d: yea i guess
[21:05] Cake: :P
[21:05] d: i need a hug
[21:06] Cake: aww sry
[21:06] Cake: *hug*
[21:07] Cake: wish i could hug you but i can't really have people over right now
[21:07] Cake: so thats gonna have to work
[21:07] Cake: haha
[21:07] d: what
[21:07] Cake: *hug*
[21:10] Cake: so how's it going with that one chick that turns 18 soon
[21:10] d: good
[21:10] Cake: cool
[21:11] Cake: so you guys are gonna hook up soon maybe?
[21:11] d: umm what do you mean
[21:12] Cake: you said there was some chick that you were talking to at your lunch break
[21:12] Cake: did you guys hookup?
[21:12] d: she won't fuck me
[21:12] Cake: oh
[21:13] d: shes a good girl
[21:13] Cake: so is that all you are lookin for haha
[21:13] d: n
[21:13] d: i don't care that i'm not gunna get laid
[21:13] d: thats kinda why i like her
[21:13] Cake: thats cool
[21:14] d: and if i ever do get to have sex with her awesome
[21:14] Cake: i feel neglected
[21:15] d: why
[21:15] Cake: my boyfriends playing WoW
[21:15] Cake: :P
[21:15] Cake: and he' like hardly talking to me
[21:15] d: whats wow
[21:15] d: never mind
[21:15] Cake: World of Warcraft
[21:15] Cake: oh ok
[21:16] d: well i'm talking kinda
[21:16] d: i still wanna see ya
[21:16] Cake: yeah i have to like pounce on him to get him to talk to me
[21:16] d: punc eon me
[21:17] Cake: yeah but pouncing leads to much more
[21:17] d: hmmm
[21:17] d: i'd like that
[21:17] Cake: silly boy
[21:18] d: so do it
[21:19] Cake: what's your favorite part of sex?
[21:19] d: i'm not sure
[21:19] d: i love it when the girl fels great
[21:20] d: how she asks for more
[21:20] Cake: usually guys are very sure haha
[21:20] d: i just love it
[21:21] d: i dunno why
[21:21] d: i just wihs i could nut up in her
[21:21] d: instead of worry about pullin out
[21:22] d: gosh
[21:22] Cake: yea
[21:22] d: i so wanna do it now
[21:22] d: your so mean
[21:22] d: why doyou have to get me hard
[21:22] Cake: i was just curious
[21:22] d: do yo like to be eaten out
[21:22] Cake: nuh uh
[21:23] d: so yo jus tlike se
[21:23] d: sex
[21:23] Cake: many kinds
[21:23] d: tell me what you like best
[21:23] Cake: humm
[21:23] Cake: thats acually pretty hard
[21:23] d: hmm
[21:24] Cake: i like it when he's first putting it in
[21:24] d: do you like having sex with or without a condom
[21:24] Cake:it's way better without a condom
[21:24] d: so a girl can tell
[21:24] Cake: yeah
[21:25] d: so when could i see what its like
[21:25] d: i wanna have sex with you
[21:25] Cake: you couldn't handle me
[21:25] Cake: haha
[21:25] d: are you sure
[21:26] Cake: no
[21:26] d: y ou couldn't handle me
[21:26] Cake: but i know i can't have sex with you
[21:26] d: why can't you
[21:26] Cake: boyfriend
[21:26] d: how big is he
[21:26] Cake: big enough for me
[21:26] d: soo
[21:26] Cake: i've never measured him before
[21:27] Cake: i dunno
[21:27] Cake: pretty big
[21:27] d: what happens if we had sex
[21:28] Cake: hum
[21:28] Cake: i dunno
[21:28] Cake: i would end up telling him
[21:28] d: well thats cool (link)
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Cheating is whenever you actually are doing something with another person, so no, I wouldn't consider it cheating. But I wouldn't be talking about stuff like that to other guys, I mean you can crack sex jokes and stuff and maybe talk to them like, as a conversation for advice or something, but not talks of "can you handle me" and whatnot. I mean, think if your boyfriend was sitting there talking to this girl and she was saying that sort of stuff. I don't think you like it, right? So just sort of veer off away from that kind of conversation if he ever starts talking about it again. And if he continues to, just be like,"I don't want to talk about this, I have a boyfriend, remember?" and let him know you want him to stop talking about it.
I hope I helped.
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okay.. i really need help. i have REALLY STRAIGHT HAIR, and ive tried soo many thiungs to get it to scrunch. what are the best ways to scrunch hair. i dont want any products that can damage my hair. please help. thanks so much (link)
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The best way I scrunch hair, and it always seems to work for me, hardly cost me anything! All I do is buy a bottle of gel and then I go in the shower, wash my hair as usual, and then just leave it to dry a bit and then when it's damp, I just take gel and sort of just, grab my hair and make it curly. And then I might spray a little hair spray on it here and there to just make sure it stays sometimes. I hope I helped.
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ok so im trying to set up my account and i have this cute background and like the box in the middle wont turn that color..and i cant change the color of the text..can u explain how to do that? thanx (link)
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Alright, well I'm not totally sure what you mean by the box in the middle, so you might have to explain that one to me. But with the text, all I do is go here:
http://www.december.com/html/spec/color.html
And I find the color I want and I copy the font color code. Then I just go back to the advice site and I paste it where the font color code should be.
Like I said, you can message me again or IM me or something about that box in the middle, but maybe try doing what I suggested with the font color. Maybe it'll turn the color then.
I hope I helped.
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How do you leave a group on myspace?
I joined one a while ago, and now I want to leave. Please Help! (link)
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Alright, you know where your profile views and everything are on the right hand side? Just look under it for the words "MY GROUPS" at the bottom and click on it. Then your groups should come up and whatever group you want to leave, click on it. Then there's should be a couple of blue buttons next to the display picture for the group saying stuff, and one should say "RESIGN". Then you just leave the group. I hope I helped.
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ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest
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It's a brand new relationship, of course it's going to start out a little awkard maybe and shy. It might be like for a couple days or so, depends on how quick you get started on talking. Just think of him as a friend and what you guys would talk about whenver you talk to him. Just because he's your boyfriend, it's not like there's some different special way you have to talk to them. So just start a random conversation about anything that happened to you today or you saw or you learned, and ask him about him. Then maybe just start hugging him and holding hands with him and sooner or later it'll all be less shy and more common. :] Also just give him compliments, make him feel special, sit close to him, just show him you like him and just flirt and everything! I hope I helped.
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there is this guy at my school.i went out with him last year and now he wont leave me alone!! he asked me out already asked me out this year but i dont like him!
How can i tell him to leave me alone politly? (link)
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Just tell him that you can't talk at the moment, or you're really busy with something if you just want to avoid him for awhile. And whenever he comes up to talk, say you can't, maybe later, sorry and walk away. And sooner over time, hopefully he'll realize you're not always available to talk and will back off a little.
Or you can do that be honest thing too, haha. Just let him know that you're not liking him like that, and you really would like to be friends with him, but he can't always be crowding around in your space. You're not saying he's annoying or anything, but you don't always want to talk to people and be around them." And just let him know what you're feeling and thinking, and hopefully he'll understand.
I hope I helped.
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Hey guys! Well I'm not sure if this sould have went under home decorading or something but here it goes. I want a new comforter but it is around $50.00. I don't have that kinda money right now. Plus, shipping and handling might add around another $10.00. Anyone have any good ideas on how I could make some money? I'm 13 years old so something that I could do that would get some quick money. Thanks!!! (link)
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Here's some stuff you can do:
- mow lawns
- rake leaves
- take out people's dogs for walks
- give dogs baths
- clean windows, house
- clean room
- clean dishes
- take out garbage
- wash car
- weedwhack the lawn too
- sell clothes or have a garage sale
- sell books anything other junk you don't want
- sell CD's and tapes and movies too you don't want either
- babysit pets
- babysit kids
- ask parents for a loan of like, just 10 of the dollars so you can at least get a little closer to your goal and promise to back them back ( and do so! )
And just ask your parents and friends and other people if there's anything else you can do to make some extra cash,and hopefully they'll come up with some more stuff.
I hope I helped.
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okay heres the thing i am scared to go up to a girl and start talking to her i am scared i will try and talk to her and she will think i am an idiot..
is it normal for a girl to say they have a boyfriend around there friends
but when they are not around there friends they act like they really like me
i need help
thankyou
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Haha, it's perfectly fine to talk to her, she's not going to think you're an idiot. And if you do say something weird or anything, if she has a sense of humor ( which most girls should have cause girls love to laugh ) she'll just laugh and it and find you cute and funny.
And sadly, yeah it's normal. Girls love to get attention, of course. So whenever you guys are just sitting there hanging out, she might be flirting and either not realize, or is doing it to get attention from you, which she is. But of course some girls are decent and realize they have a boyfriend and let people know and won't take it any further than flirting ( but they shouldn't be doing it anyway ).
But there's also just the kind of girl who guys take it as flirting, but the girl thinks she's just being friendly. Like with me one time I was just talking to this guy and he was funny so I was laughing and everything, and all my friends thought I was flirting with him!
So it can go either way sometimes, but I'd probably take it she's an attention-craver. Girls can be like that especially with boyfriends sometimes cause they don't want attention from just ONE guy. I hope I helped.
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in an AIM profile how do you make crossed out text? or strike through text?
thanks :] (link)
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Alright, first go to your profile, and highlight whatever you wanted to have a line crossing through it. Then, right click and click FONT or it might be TEXT on your computer. But then see the list for all the different fonts? Right under it should be "EFFECTS" and there'll be "STRIKE OUT" and "UNDERLINE" and they'll have boxes next to them. Then all you do is just click STRIKE OUT, and there ya go! I hope I helped.
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ok well heres the thing ive been going out with my boyfriend scence last tuesday. and i feel kinda distant from him i guess. also im kinda worried because i heard this rumar recently that with every girlfriend he's had, he's had sex with. and im not that type of girl, i think he might know that..but still i dont want him to be takin it too slow. i mean we dont hold hands we havent kissed yet. we've only hugged. i just want him to know its ok to kiss me.. what shoyuldi do to give him the hint?? (link)
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There's no need to be worried about that rumor. First of all, talk to him about that and ask him if it's true ; cause you never can believe a rumor. If it is, just let him know right then and there before all these emotions get involved, you're not that type of girl. And so you know if he continues wanting to date you, he obviously doesn't care and really likes you. And if he DOES care, well then he's just a player and doesn't deserve you, but I don't think that's the case.
Anyways.
About the taking it slow thing. Just the next time you guys are hanging out and whatnot, before you go to say by or just whenever, make a little hint/joke of it. Be like,"Haha, it's okay to kiss me, you know! I'm sure I won't give you germs." and that'll let him know it's ok, but you're not giving him the third degree or anything. Just remember, it IS a new relationship. And he just might really like you and might be afraid he'll move too fast for you and you'll get upset, and he might not want to ruin everything.
And also, you can kiss him too! I'm sure that'll not just give him a hint, it'll give him a message, lol. But I'm sure if you gave him a big kiss, little kiss, whatever he'll know that you don't mind being kissed and giving kisses, so he'll be a-okay. :]
I hope I helped.
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ok so my friend just started dating this really nice boy and they are soo cute together and her boyfriend has a friend who is into.. and they are all trying to get me to go out with him but i do not want to... don't get me wrong i like him in all but i am just not one of those girls that should have a boyfriend. and i have tried to tell them to stop trying to set me up with him cause all i want to be is friends.. please help thanks
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You just need to sit down with them and let them know: you're not interested in him like that, and they can't keep trying to pressure you into it. Try and (practice or not whichever) with a more assertive voice, to show you're serious.
Just let them know you think he's cool and everything, but you just want to be friends with him, and they can't MAKE you like him like that or date him. They need to respect your decision ; that's what being a friend is about, understanding and respecting eachother. And just let them know you don't even really WANT to date anybody right now, you like kicking back and realxing and being single.
And maybe even talk to him about the situation. I don't know if he likes you or not, but if he does, let him know that you only like him as a friend, cause maybe that's why your friends are being so assertive about it because maybe he mentioned something about liking you and they think they're doing him a favor. But if he doesn't, I'm sure he'll understand, and maybe even ask him to ask your friends to back off to, because since he doesn't like you like that he can explain that to them and ask them to please stop asking you to date him.
I hope I helped.
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I cannot seem to get 'close' to guys. I never have been able to, I've always been much closer to girls and all of my close freinds are girls. I never found that too odd before as I thought it was fairly normal. That is, until I realized that 'normal' teenage girls are spposed to be boy-crazy or something. I never have been.
However, all of my major crushed (except for one) have been on guys. I've always liked guys, and always thought that I would be with a guy. That is, until recently. One of my close freinds is bi--possibly a lesbian, and I've started to like her a bit. I can't tell though if my head is just tricking itself or...or what. I'm just really confused.
She's always been open and I've never had a problem with that. She's very nice, funny, and sweet. I do have a boyfreind right now though. We never talk about much...it's always awkward, and I don't really like him so much anymore. I haven't dated much in the past so I don't have a lot to compare it to. I would like to be sure though, and I would like to know your opinion on this to help me reassure myself and straighten my thoughts. =) Any advice would be appriciated. (link)
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This is perfectly normal to be confused about everything. All teenagers go through this with trying to find theirselves and everything and get evertyhing in order.
I would suggest to you to experiment around. It's the only real way you're going to know and be able to see your real feelings you have for people. Or if you don't want to experiment, just try and imagine it. ( I'm just saying since your friends a lesbian,.. but I'm not telling you HAVE to do it ) but either way, just try seeing yourself with a girl and if you can imagine having a relationship together and messing around with them and see how it makes you feel.
Also, try and see what goes on with you and guys more, too. Just because you don't like your boyfriend anymore doesn't necessairly mean anything, you just might not like HIM. So, first of all, just break up with him. It's best not to keep him sitting there thinking everything's great, when it's really not. And just be single for awhile, live the life, mix it up, do whatever you want and just see what happens.
I hope you figure everything out, and I hope I helped.
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