Question Posted Tuesday September 26 2006, 5:26 pm
okay heres the thing i am scared to go up to a girl and start talking to her i am scared i will try and talk to her and she will think i am an idiot..
is it normal for a girl to say they have a boyfriend around there friends
but when they are not around there friends they act like they really like me
i need help
Wheeler answered Friday September 29 2006, 1:38 pm: So your shy? Aren't all guys? Just try to be friends with her. If you can't talk to her just look at her around every 5 minutes meet her eye then when she looks back look away and smile. She'll eventually start wondering and go up to talk to you. If you stumble while talking to her tell her your horrible at talking to girls. Try talking in a mirror it will build up your charisma, hope I helped! [ Wheeler's advice column | Ask Wheeler A Question ]
kalis_advice answered Wednesday September 27 2006, 10:53 pm: ok well honey this isent like the movies when girls arnt really in to you they will not say they have a bf......well just hang out with her just talk just make a joke dont act like a dumbass just talk.......and if they dont like it well w.e let it go_be youself_ [ kalis_advice's advice column | Ask kalis_advice A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Wednesday September 27 2006, 4:56 pm: Haha, it's perfectly fine to talk to her, she's not going to think you're an idiot. And if you do say something weird or anything, if she has a sense of humor ( which most girls should have cause girls love to laugh ) she'll just laugh and it and find you cute and funny.
And sadly, yeah it's normal. Girls love to get attention, of course. So whenever you guys are just sitting there hanging out, she might be flirting and either not realize, or is doing it to get attention from you, which she is. But of course some girls are decent and realize they have a boyfriend and let people know and won't take it any further than flirting ( but they shouldn't be doing it anyway ).
But there's also just the kind of girl who guys take it as flirting, but the girl thinks she's just being friendly. Like with me one time I was just talking to this guy and he was funny so I was laughing and everything, and all my friends thought I was flirting with him!
So it can go either way sometimes, but I'd probably take it she's an attention-craver. Girls can be like that especially with boyfriends sometimes cause they don't want attention from just ONE guy. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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