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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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I've been with my boyfriend for over 14 months. It took him about 9 months to actually open up to me and tell me what was wrong when he was upset. You have to understand with guys, they like to think they're big and tough and if they tell you what their problems are as if you're a shrink, it makes them feel... I guess you can say "Less of a man". You can't keep pressuring him to tell you what's wrong. Ask him ONCE what's wrong. If he says It's not that important or It's nothing, leave it at that. Just say okay and leave it alone. He already knows that you're always gonna be there for him and you'll always listen to him, but TRUST ME, he WILL NOT TELL YOU. I tried my hardest with my boyfriend. It takes them a while to crack open their "bad ass" outside and get to see their softness. Even still, it could be nothing. So you just have to leave it alone. I know it sucks, trust me it does, but you have to leave it alone. He'll begin to open up to you in a few months. Just wait it out a bit =)
hey i know this might seem stupid but I have braces and i want to give my guy head but i don't know if my braces might get in the way or hurt him or something thanks for your help
Well... I'm not an expert at giving head because I've never done it and probably never will... But I'm pretty sure you aren't supposed to use your TEETH. So I doubt your braces will get in the way.
is the movie 'The Notebook' the same as the book? what are the differences?
They are pretty simmilar. The part about the war in the movie isn't what happens in the book. And alot of the stuff that happens in the movie doesn't go on in the book. I can't give it away though! You'll have to read it for yourself to find out! But I'll tell you one thing.. The book is A MILLION times better than the movie. And the movie was great. Oh yeah, I cried more reading the book than I did watching the movie.
Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?
Well it seems as though abortion for you is out of the question, and you officially rock because of that. The way I see it is, if you CANNOT financially handle having a second child then you should give it up for adoption. It's not fair to your child to suffer because you aren't capable of being able to afford for it. BUT if you are able to have a second child then by all means, you can keep the child. Your boyfriend wants to help you raise the baby and he seems like a great guy so I'm glad you have a great guy! Because most guys will deny it's their kid after the baby's born and then you end up on the Maury show. Not fun. But during your pregnancy, look at your financial situation, school and everything else that could possibly be affected by bringing another child into the world. If you feel you cannot raise the baby with a good life, you should give it up. There are adoption agencies that allow you to stay in contact with your child throughout his/her life even though they'd be living with their adoptive parents. So that could be something you'd like to consider. What kind of life would you want for your baby? If what you have is something you wouldn't want for your baby, then I think it would be best to give it up. I wish you the best of luck!
Hey! I want to get a new Screen Name, but I'm not sure what It should be. I've tried to come up with some, But it's just not working.
If this helps:
Im 15
I like:
beaches
Summer
Summer stuff ( Water, Sun, Heat, Sandals etc )
Eyes ( I love people's eyes )
Sunsets
I tried to do something with my Email which is : BrownEyedBaBy_59 but mostly everything was taken already. Could someone please help!? Thanks.
I always Rate!
Flipflopsummer59
BeachxSunset59
HotxSummerxNights
All L's or I's can be replaced with the number 1. O's can be replaced with Zeros. E's can be replaced with 3's.
Much luck =)
this one is for girls to enter..i found a brownish redish substance in my underwear...in front. i am like70% sure it wasnt blood...what happened?
It was blood. Well, partly blood. And, congrats. You got your first period. Welcome to the world of being a chick. A wonderful time full of cramps, bloating, sore breasts, headaches, backaches and bleeding for a week straight! Sounds exciting right? WELL IT'S NOT. You need to start wearing a pad so that you don't bleed onto your undies and ruine them. Good luck.
i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed?
Why would you be uncomfortable telling your mom. For the love of God, she has her period too! It's not like you're telling her something she knows NOTHING about. Pull her aside and just say mom, I got my period. Done. That's it. Nothing too complicated right? Depending on her personality she might freak out and go OH MY LITTLE GIRL IS A WOMAN NOW BLAH BLAH BLAH! Or give you a dollar and say congrats like my mom did. It's not something you need to feel uncomfortable about. ALL girls get their period at one point or another.
how do you make these ♥ without copying them
♥ And if it shows up (Because I'm not sure if HTML is working on here or not) it's & hearts; without the space between the & and the hearts.
What does it mean when someone says "Gonads and strife"? Don't say "Google it" because I already have. I have looked everywhere for what it means and I JUST can't find it! Please help!
I rate high!
Hahahahhahhahaha! Oh man, before I answer your question and before you read the rest of my answer, PLEASE look at this video keep watching it til the end. http://funnyjunk.com/pages/squirrel.htm
Gonads are a man's genitals
Strife is a quarrel; an argument of some sort.
im noticing im growing hair around my vag. is that normal? what does it mean?
It means you're starting to enter puberty. It's normal to get pubic hair. All girls have it, but some shave/wax it off. And yes, you could be getting your period VERY soon. Within a year you should get it. Nothing to be concerned about. 100000% normal.
pimples!!! ewww lol my friend told me toothpaste but didn't work well! lol and i have like little bumps on my forhead and chin! HELP i gotta look GORGOUS for school ha!!
Have you tried Clean & Clear advantage acne spot treatment? I swear, it's a woman's bestfriend aside from diamonds. It works in a few hours and the size and redness of the pimples is 80% of what it was. Keep putting it on every day, make sure you wash your face in the morning AND at night. No if ands or buts missy! Also, you can try Clearasil products. It's a facewash that helps to clear pimples in 3 days. And I must say, they lied. It was only 2 days for me =) Good luck with everything!
The song that goes "dont ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me dont ya wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?"....anyone know who sings it or the name of it?
The song is called "Don't Cha" The artists are The Pussycat Dolls.
The lyrics are:
Baby
Ladies
Fellas
Are you ready?
Lets dance
Baby (ooooh)
I know you like me (I know you like me)
I know you do (I know you do)
Thats why whenever I come around
She's all over you (she's all over you)
I know you want it (I know you want it)
It's easy to see (it's easy to see)
And in the back of your mind
I know you should be fucking me (babe)
[refrain:]
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
Fight the feeling (fight the feeling)
Leave it alone (leave it alone)
Cause if it ain't love
It just aint enough to leave my happy home (my happy home)
Let's keep it friendly (let's keep it friendly)
You have to play fair (you have to play fair)
See I dont care
But I know She ain't gonna wanna share
[refrain:]
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
I know I'm on your mind
I know we'd have a good time
I'm your friend
I'm fun
And I'm fine
I aint lying
Look at me shine
You aint blind (you aint blind)
I know I'm on your mind
I know wed have a good time
I'm your friend
I'm fun
And I'm fine
I aint lying
Look at me shine
You aint blind
I know she loves you (I know she loves you)
So I understand (I understand)
I'd probably be just as crazy about you
If you were my own man
Maybe next lifetime (maybe next lifetime)
Possibly (possibly)
Until then old friend
Your secret is safe with me
[refrain:]
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don't cha
Don't cha
i asked the question about what 3 tops to wear and most people said the second one and i put the same link for 2 and 3 the 3rd link was supposed to be
http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/7c959017.jpg
this is the one you guys said i should wear >>>
http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg
so which one the first link or the second link with blue jeans and pink and black shoes
thanks 2 everyone who answered my last question..
The second one is alot prettier. Plus, pink and black shoes would match it alot better. It's a pretty top. Where'd you get it from?
Next week is my best friend's birthday. I wanted to get her something that she'd really like so I decided to get her a necklace from Tiffany and Co. Their are two necklaces that I like, so I thought that I would ask you guys which one you liked better. Price doesn't matter. Here are the links to the two necklaces:
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^ I was planning on putting her initials on that one. Do you think people would think that that necklace with the initials might be fake since it doesn't say return to tiffany on it and since you don't usually see it with the initials?
And here's the other one:
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^click on the picture of that one to see what it would look like on your neck.
Thanks!
Well, I would definately give you an opinion as to which one would be best, but the links you provided aren't linking to anything but the main page. Could you maybe go back to the site and copy the links again and post them in your "additional information"? And, if you notice on the links you DID provide, they are exactly the same.
ive been rated 35 times or more..but now it says that ive only been rated 21 times..?? i dont get it
Are you saying you've beeen rated 35 times TOTAL? It will say you've only been rated 21 times because it goes by how many times you've been rated in the past 30 days. For more information on ratings please visit: http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=6
is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about.
The chances are EXTREMELY low, as sperm will die when it touches air (NOT ALL OF IT, but some of it will). Especially if it was a few minutes later. Precum doesn't contain alot of sperm, but it does contain sperm. I highly doubt you could've gotten pregnant from that. The chances are like one in a billon. So I'd have to say you'll be okay. It's nothing to worry about. But next time if you are doing something like that, have him wash his hands JUST to be on the safe side. But I think you'll be okay. Just relax. You'll be fine! I guarentee it. =)
i kno a "gleam in someone's eye" means it's a sperm, but how can a sperm be a gleam in someone's eye?
... Who told you that a gleam in someone's eye has anything to do with sperm? A gleam in someone's eye is a phrase used to describe when someone is really happy. For example: I saw the gleam in his eye when I met him at the airport. A gleam in an eye has NOTHING to do with sperm. Gleam also means glow. None of which have anything to do with sperm.
My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be?
Yes, you can most definately be pregnant. Having sex without a condom is a surefire way to get pregnant. Did he cum while he was inside you when you had sex? If he did, your chances of being pregnant are even higher. If he didn't, your chances aren't as high, but there is still a significant chance you can be. Wait it out a little bit until you are due to get your period. If you miss your period, take a pregnancy test. If it comes up positive you are pregnant. Try not to worry about it UNTIL you are supposed to get your period. Because if you turn out not to be pregnant, all the worrying will delay your period which will freak you out even more about being pregnant. So CHILLLLLLL for a little bit. Wait until you're supposed to get your period. Then, take it from there. Keep me updated on how you're doing and let me know how things work out for you. I wish you the best.
I read a question about Applesauce on here. Is it a program? Can someone please explain what it is and what it does and how you get it?
Applesauce is a program for AIM to change your font colors to different ones than the ones they have preset. You can download it, and while your logged onto AIM, click on the applesauce icon (you can put it in a folder or on your desktop) and then you can pick your colors. HOWEVER it only changes your font colors for when you are typing to people. You can't change them in your info. You can get it at this site: http://www.iconcave.com/program/Applesauce_For_AIM_NEW_VERSION--2----2--__3--25--10--25--0.html
It should download immediately.
I know not to trust anyone on the internet. But what are ways to find out he is a normal, nice guy? I'm not giving out any information, i'm not that stupid. But how can I get proof from him?
I must say, that is a very difficult question to answer. The only way you could get HONEST information from him, whether he sounds sincere or not is to find out for yourself, meaning physically going to meet him and finding out. Even if he IS who he says he is, his personality can change and he could be some nasty, violent boy who could end up hurting you. That's why meeting people on the internet is SO difficult and dangerous. What I tend to be more assured with is if the person lives close to you. Possibly a few towns over. If that person lives a few towns over, you could ask to meet at the movies or a mall and BRING FRIENDS just to be sure. Make sure it's a public place so nothing will happen. Then you should be able to find out from there. But if he lives a few states over, then that's never something you could trust. But I'll tell you one thing, boys will LIE and lie and lie and lie and tell you everything you want to hear just to get what they want. It's all about YOUR judgement on the situation. You have to really be smart about things like that. And finding a nice, normal guy is hard enough as it is. I hope everything works out for you! Good luck.