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hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean?????

Those numbers are like.. Your hip size.. breast size.. and ass size.. for instance.. Say u wear the bra size.. 36 B.. one of ur numbers is 36.. say ur hips are a 24.. then that number is 24.. and say the length around ur ass is a 36.. then ur a 36.. its how many INCHES you are around ur.. hips.. ass.. n breasts.. like.. u kno how u get measured for dance or cheerleading? they are ur MEASUREMENTS? Get it?

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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!

She's definitely not pregnant if she's had her period.. if she's still scared go to the dollar store er something and buy a PREGNANCY test.. then when it tells her SHES NOT pregnant.. have her tell her mom what's going on.. and get her to a doctor.. she's probably just imagining things.. shes prolly a hypocondriact like i was.. lol.. which means.. u always think somethings wrong with you when there isn't lol..

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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do?

one of my best friends is pregnant right now and she's going thru so much in her life.. i would say.. please don't get an abortion it will give you depression.. if ANYTHING give up the baby for adoption.. but it would be nice if you could keep it.. ABORTION is NOT the thing to do.. you did the dirrty deed.. so now.. u can pay the price.. please.. PLEASE.. don't get an abortion.. EVEN if ur parents tell the doctors to give you one.. it's still YOUR choice.. KEEP THE BABY!

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

13! wow.. i wish you wouldn't of had sex.. your so young and still have MANY years ahead of you.. sex IS NOT the greatest.. but.. yeah.. ur all normal.. you not bleeding just means he didn't pop your cherry.. or at least.. didn't pop your cherry all the way.. it's all normal don't worry.. some girls don't ever bleed from it..

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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!

Nothing is wrong with you it's just that your.. "you know" is still tight and not used to it yet.. if u want it to feel good.. u gotta keep doing it.. BUT you'd be better off just to like.. not have sex till you married.. your way to young to be having sex!

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when u go to the gyno i know that they can tell if your a virgin but can they tell if you masturbate too?

No gyno's cannot tell if you masterbate.. don't worry.. nothing to be embarrassed about.. if your having sex.. PLEASE get on birth control.. if you have a Planned Parenthood.. you can go there YOURSELF without PARENTS and get it without them EVER knowing.. then if ur parents ever find ur Birth Control.. just tell them ur friend left it there.. haha

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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

If you have a Planned Parenthood around where you live.. you can go there and get Lifestyles for free!! And if ur gunna buy them.. Get Trojan.. I think they are more reliable.. lol even though I've only used Lifestyles.. Either one really.. just be careful babe! OH! And if you've got a Planned Parenthood by where you live.. You can go there without your parents get get on Birth Control.. that would be a very good idea.. it's only like.. 15-30 dollars!!! Good Luck! Be Safe!

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo

I would just forget about him bcuz it's not right to still be friends with the girl and like her x boyfriend.. friends don't date friend's old boyfriends.. you just don't do that.. and it's stupid to try to even get started in any kind of relationship bcuz he doesn't even live near you.. just forget about him.. you WILL find someone else.. and if it's just a little itsy bitsy crush.. u'll get over it like THAT! lol

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my little sister has a habbit of thinking that our cousins are cute. the ones that we dont get to see that often. she likes our cousin J.R and our cousin Michael. I can't figure out how to get her to stop. I have told her that they are our cousins and its nasty. But she won't listen. She has even told me that she wants to kiss J.R. I mean yea hes a good looking kid (i dont like him...ew!) but hes our cousin so thats just nasty. I have tried explaining the whole cousin thing and she still doesn't understand. Please help.

well if shes young like.. under the age of 8.. she will eventually grow out of it.. but if she isn't u need to tell that little girl that its INCEST and its against the law and its not right to like family.. Family CANNOT date family lol.. tell her about like.. if cousins have sex that their babies will become retarded.. and tell her something like.. u'll go to jail if u kiss our cousin.. lol IF shes young enough to believe that lol

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omg... all of my questions have been about ummm... ben... lol... ok well here is another... my boyfriend (ben) likes this other girl and i guess she likes him but she has a boyfriend also... so im really worried... should i dump him and get it over with, (although i kno she's not dumping her guy)... or... should i wait till it passes... i heard she is swithing schools... help me please!!
...claire

babe.. a guy should NOT like another girl while ur with him.. if he had the balls to actually tell u that and expect u to stay with him.. hes STUPID.. get rid of that dick head! im sure ull move on.. all girls do! lol

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what are some things to say to turn a guy on?

what are some things to do to get him horny?

my boyfriend and i traded a few risque pictures... any way i can slip that into conversation with out it being obvious?

so please, all wise one, heeeeelp!

im not sure what to say to him bcuz.. i dont usually do that.. but to get him horny wow i know MANY things u can do for that.. okay this might sound nasty but.. hay.. im the love doctor and im here to help! lol.. try licking his stomach and guys love it when u lick their nipples.. lol also.. try licking up n down his neck.. and definitely his ear lobe.. then blow verrry softly over where u licked.. u can also rub the inside of his leg.. and squeeze it.. yah know.. things like that..

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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)

you guys might all not like him.. but she obviously REALLY cares for him.. let her be.. and just ignore the dude.. don't make her give away someone she really cares for.. it's not right.. Don't bother love.. that's a no no.. Let them be!

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how can i get my boyfriend to trust me?
how can i proove to him i didnt cheat on him?
n lastquestion how can i proove to him that i love him???
thank you so much
xoxo..sam

well.. im not sure how u can prove to him that you didn't cheat on him bcuz I don't know the story.. but try hanging out with him a lot more and like.. letting him know where u are and stuff.. I know it might sound stupid like.. he doesnt need to ALWAYS know where im at n shit.. but it would help a lot.. Tell him u love him like 43274032480 times a day and always tell him how u feel.. it would really help a lot..

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what can you say to turn a guy on?

wow.. there are so many things u can say to turn on a guy.. but instead of saying something.. you should dooo something.. for instance!! Guys can't resist it when a girl.. Licks his neck or his ear lobe.. or u know.. rub the inside of his thigh.. or just put ur hand there.. haha.. I am the SeX QuEEn!! CoMe To Me FoR AnYtHiNg!

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Ok so I've tried about four different legal, free ways to downlaod music but either they don't downlaod or I can't burn the music onto a cd. What do you think is a good, free, legal, music downlaoding program?

Break the law and download Kazaa!

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.

Oh wow.. trust me.. if you tell him your ready.. HE WILL okay it.. I mean he's a guy.. all guys are the same.. lol.. Go for it! As LONG as you KNOW you love him and he loves you.. But be prepared.. once u have sex.. U'll never wanna stop.. it's THAT good!

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There is this guy in three of my classes and almost every single class he says things like
"I like you"
"I love you"
"You have pretty eyes"
"I'm gonna call you my boo"
and "You're so nice"
but most of the time when he says these things he says it in a dorky joking kinda voice, and I like him. We're pretty good friends and we flirt a lot but I don't know if he's serious or not. Is he?

ASK HIM!!

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I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

Honestly.. I think you should break up with him.. Yes you will hurt for a little bit.. but YOU WILL get over it.. trust me.. you will.. about that other guy living with his girl friend.. That happend to me too.. I fooled with him NUMEROUS times knowing he was with his girlfriend and I cried all the time.. but I loooved fooling with him bcuz I liked him so much.. No I loved him.. But I eventually got over it.. Just have fun and be single.. You only live once! So live it to the fullest.. and if girls call u a whore for having fun.. FUCK THEM.. bcuz u can do what u want! lol.. Yes.. definitely break up with him.. Have some fun girl!!

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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa

Tell your friend that your sick of being used.. and of course she'll say ohh im not using u i swear.. and be like.. well it sure feels like you do.. bcuz u ALWAYS come to me when ur parents won't let u do such n such.. and u come to my house so u'll be allowed to do it.. OMG! My friend did this to me.. and I HATED it.. Don't worry hopefully ur friend John will understand.. but damn.. tell that girl whats up! NO BODY deserves to be used..

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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?

The best thing to do is just.. tell him.. Don't let it ALL out on him at once.. but just be like.. Hay (w.e. his name is) and then of course he'll be like.. what.. and tell him you need to talk to him about something.. Just be like.. (name) I've really been thinking about this loong and hard and I wasn't sure if it was true at first.. but now I know that it is.. I really have strong feelings for you but I'm afraid that if anything were to happen that it might ruin our friendship and I'm not sure if you feel the same way about me.. I just had to tell you bcuz I can't hold my feelings in for you anymore.. then be like.. I hope this didn't change the way you feel for me at all.. unless the feeling change is good.. and then just ask him what he thinks.. MAKE SURE u tell him NOT to say ONE word until u are ALL finished talking.. then when ur all done.. be like.. So.. What do you think? I hope I could help! Make sure n tell me how it goes!! My AIM sn is on my site!

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