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I like this kid Myk, and lyk he likes me and this other girl Jessie. Everyone tells me to move on...but as they say....its easier said than done...so these other guys: Danny, Rob, and Duvy all lyk me too, and i have little feelings for all of them except for Rob. Rob is my best guy friend...and he just broke up with his girlfriend for me because he said he just can't love anyone else.....but i don't like rob the way he likes me.....so i need help....what do i do? i love myk so much.....but i dont want to break the rest of the boys hearts!
-Hopeless 14,Female
The easiest way is to say you can't pick anybody because you don't want to hurt anybody else. Eventually they might figure out that you don't like them that way and if you start hanging out with Myk more and talk to him more than you usually do (even if it's a lot) he'll probably start to like you and not the Jessie. Then if the other guys don't like you anymore or as much then go out with Myk =c). But for now just tell them you can't pick between them because you don't want to hurt anybody else.
my boifriend and i are relly starting to argue alot. but its all because of jealousy. whenever we go somewhere a guy is always staring or smiling at me. he thinks i look at them or smile back.i tell him it doesn't matter if they are lokking they are never gonna have me plus i am only looking at you. what do you suggest i do??
Tell him that you care about HIM and ONLY HIM. If a guy is looking at you give him a dirty look and make sure your boyfriend sees it. If he can't realize that you don't care about the other guys and he keeps on arguing with you about it and is being all jealous then ask him what you can do to prove to him that you're only looking at him. Hope I helped! Tell me if it doesn't work and I'll try to tell you what else you can do.
Love, racheL
ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.
I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx
Ok I'm about 5'8 120 lbs and that's a pretty good weight. If anything you might be able to gain weight but I think that's pretty healthy. Those websites are just doing the average weight of people in this country and a lot of us are overweight, so the average weight goes up. But yes, I think that's healthy. Hope I helped!
Love, racheL
i get horrible back pains, and all i can do is crack it, but sometimes it gets so stiff that it wont crack, any advice on how to crack it?
Ok well if you want to crack it then have your right hand on your left shoulder and your left hand on your right shoulder and hold on to it and then have somebody pick you up from behind. Make sure they grab around your waist or stomach, you might have to try a couple times to see what works best for you. If you want your back to stop being pained, go see a chiropractor or try taking cartilage pills. They rebuild the cartilage and my dad takes it and he's not having back pains as bad or as often anymore. That could be the case for you =c). Hope I helped!
ok well i have windows XP and if any one else has it if u look at teh corner of ur taskbar it has leik a globe icon and mine is gone i used to have it but not no moor and when i try to get it bac it says i need a supervisor password.. do u no what teh password could be cuz no one made one up or do u no how to get it back.. thx
Supervisor password might mean the owner's password. (Your mom or dad or whoever) When you start your computer and an icon comes up saying owner, and to get on that you (might) need a password. That could be the password. Sorry if I didn't help!
hey ok i have a cold sore on my lip from making out and its not rally big yet its just starting and i hate having it on my lip cuz it looks weird does anybody know how i can get rid of it before it gets big? and how long do they take to go awya? help plz!
Try vaseline. It depends how big the cold sore is, but if it's not very big it can go away overnight.
y do girls stereotype guys so much? I mean, we may think about "stuff" some of the time, but girls always jus automatically assume thats wat guys r thinking about 24/7. And u also always assume that in a relationship, the guy is always wanting one thing and he will always make the first moves towards it. And another thing that bothers me is y girls are such feminist. ok, back then guys were thought to be superior to girls, but now days we r equal. however, lots of girls are always arguing how they have to go through so much pain, or how they have to endure so many more hardships. it really annoys me. And also, y is it always sexist if a guy does something or says something to a girl, but no one cares if a girl does or says something about a guy? i mean, a male teacher can favor guys and not pay much attention to girls, and automatically he is sexist and fired....but a female or male teacher can favor girls, and no one cares b/c no one thinks that is sexist except the guys who are on the short end of the stick. i jus want to know y.
Ok about the stuff. A lot of guys always talk about "dirty" things and always talk about sex, so it's automatic that we think of that. And girls do go through a lot of pain like heartbreaks. Every girl has pretty much gotten her heart broken and it's harder on us because we take it harder. A lot of times guys just forget about it and move on to another girl.. they're not as emotionally attached to one person like we are. A lot of times when girls like somebody it can be for a year or even more and then suddenly he just breaks her heart for no reason. It takes a lot of time to get over these things. And about the sexist stuff it's just how it is. If a male teacher favors guys he is probably considered gay and people might think he will try to do something and he gets fired. At my school theres a man teacher who favors girls.... really FAVORS them and he hasn't gotten fired because girls are usually quieter and get in less trouble, so it's normal for teachers to favor girls.
When guys say something about a girl, our feelings get hurt a lot. A lot of times we can end up in cutting or crying or maybe even suicide. When a girl says something about a guy, they might laugh about it or not think twice about it. If you say something to a girl like if you're looking at a picture and it's an ugly person and the girl might go ohh she's ugly. The guy might say "you're not that ugly." and be meaning you're prettier than that. The girl will take it the wrong way and think that he meant you're not THAT ugly but you're still calling her ugly. That's just the way we are. Anyway sorry it's long but I hope I helped!!
Love, racheL
hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high
OMG ME TOO!! It's terrible and I have to know all the stuff from about 7 long chapters.. over 250 pages! And there's a bunch of words lol. Like everyone else suggested, you could use flash cards and go somewhere quiet. You could also study with a friend and have then quiz you on what the words mean and have you spell them (you'll probably need to know the accents too.) You could also go to Spanish help sites...I'll look for them and if I find them I'll edit my answer. Hope I helped!
Love, racheL
well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.
My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.
thanx much!!!
Crystal
Thats great! Thanks for telling me =c). Just be careful because an overprotective dad can and will start limiting the things you do with him. But I'm glad they're letting you see him! =cD
Love, racheL
I've just discovered Good Charlotte when i heard "Predictalbe". It's like my favorited song EVER! But i'm wondering if the ther songs on the cd are as good, or better. If anyone has the cd, tell me if it was good. Thanks!
THE CD IS AWESOME!!!!! I love it so much! All the songs on there are great.. definatly get it.
Ok, my boy friend is really nice and I've been waiting to talk to him for sometime now, but I haven't been able to see him and I feel as if I've been losing connection and I don't want to do that! Well, I have this really big cold sore, that I accidentally bit and it's really big! It's the size of my upper 1/2 of my thumb. Tomorrow is the only day I can see him this week but NO ONE can see me like this, let alone HIM!! What do I do?
Use concealer and put carmax on it.
my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
Tell him if he doesn't appreciate who your friends are then you don't want to appreciate him anymore and if he does it again say you'll dump him. He'll probably stop in fear of losing you! =c) Hope I helped!
Love, racheL
Ok. I want to lose 100 pounds or more in about 1 -3 years. Will this make me lose 100 pounds. For breakfast all I eat is cereal. Then I have gym for 4th period. Which 2/5 days I walk about a mile or more. For lunch I have a sprite and sometimes chips. Then for dinner I have whatever my parents make. Then after dinner I do 35 sit ups, 50 squats. 30 jumping jacks. Also, I do watch what I eat. I drink water most the time and sometimes Ill have a pop. I usally only have 1 pop a day. Is there anything else I should do to help me? And do you think that'll make me lose 100 pounds in 1 - 3 years? Ok thanks.
Stop eating cereal.. eat something healthy like a banana or apple. Don't drink pop at all. Drink water and milk. Don't eat anything with a lot of sugar like chocolate and if you parents make stuff that isn't very healthy ask them to make some healthier stuff or eat something healthy with it. Try to jog half a mile a day outside of gym. You need to exercise basically every day to lose 100 lbs in 1-3 years and it'll be a lot of work. Wait an hour or so after dinner to do your workout because otherwise you'll just get hungrier faster and eat more, which will probably make you gain weight. Hope I helped!!
Love, racheL
Ok well I heard that a girl can "pop her cherry" by horseback riding...Im a horseback rider N like...I think its true bc awhile ago I had a spot of blood but it wasnt bc of my period or anything...So I was just wonderin if anyone knew if it is true or not...
I also heard that ya can get orgasms from riding N thats deffiniately true...so...lol
Yes you can "pop your cherry" from horseback riding. Just because you might not it doesn't mean you can't. =c)
Love, racheL
how do you get rid of dead skin on your face?! I've tried everything, exfoliators, expesnive lotions..etc etc...and nothing seems to be working. I was just wondering if there was any home remedy or something that would make my skin smooth and flakey free? Thank you.
Just use vaseline. It's really inexpensive and you can put it on when you're home alone or going to sleep or something. It's for cuts and stuff like that but it works for basically anything on skin. You have to put it on every day and it'll go away in a couple of days. Just make sure you keep putting it on after that for a little bit or it might come back. Hope I helped!
Love, racheL
Hey! I might sound stupid for asking this, but I really want to know. I was talking to this really cute kid about my birthday. He's kind of a minor pothead. Anyways he likes me. I was asking him what he was going to get me for my birthday, and he said he was gunna get me a G, and a platinum necklace. Yeah, so I was just wondering, what is a G? does it have to do something with weed (he knows i dont smoke) or does it have to do with jewelry? Or something else? I'd appreciate anyone whos answers this question and I'll rate high! Thankins in advance!
G-string. I bet he wants to see you in it ;) haha. Hope I helped!
Love, racheL
ok well this guy and i have been friends for awhile now and i started liking him as more than a friend..im like crazy about him..i think about him alot..and he adds axtra happiness to my life ..but any ways..he told me that he had to see me before he left for a trip to state..because i was good luck for him..and he said that i was the prettiest girl..and that not getting to see me was the worst part of his day...last night i told him in person that i liked him..but..i dont know how to take it i dont know if he likes me or not.. any ideas..b/c i like him ALOT and i really want it to work out
If he likes you and knows you like him I'm sure he'll tell you eventually. Probably before he leaves or something. Hope I helped!!
Love, RacheL
Glitter name? Can you make me one! Thanks! i have no clue what to tell u but my name is erin! umm answer this and tell me what info u need so i can send it! cool advice!
Ok I need to know what color gltter you want. You can go here and just click on the one you like and send me the hyperlink. Also if there's any specific font you want it to be in. =c)
http://www.wtv-zone.com/aylana/bringontheglitter/bringontheglitter-1.html
last year, me and this boy wer boyfrend-girlfriend.In the beginning of June, he dumped me for this girl.Today in school my grade went outside to play. He kept hanging around close to me. He did that when he liked me.he just ran around with his friends near me a lot. I waz thinking Does he like me? Right afret that, we ate in the lunchroom. We're in seperate classes and my table is right next to his. That day instead of sitting next to the girl he dumped me for, the girls friend and his friend, he sat with this boy he never sat with before. They werent even friends.But he was sitting the closest he could 2 me.if he sat with all his friends, he would be sitting farther away from me. Then I thought-did he just sit with that guy s o he could sit near me? then doues he like me?
Also, he's always looking at me wen i'm not looking at him. he also talks about me 2 his friends (but he mighyt be talkin bad or good about me).My best friend is in his class. So that day, i was talking 2 her a lot and he looked at me a lot and listened to our conversation a lot too. Also, a few days ago,he came and sat in my table talkin to this guy in my class that he like Never talked to before! Does he like me???
Note: I still like him!
I wouldn't jump to conclusions. He might he might not. IF he shows the signs that he might like you then he probably does. Just wait awhile before jumping to conclusions that he might like you because maybe he doesn't and just wants to talk to you more or something. Hope I helped!
well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?
confused..
elle
It depends what religion you are. I don't know much about other religions, but in Christianity you're not supposed to have sex until you're married. It also depends on how devout you are to your religion. Personally, I think you should wait until marrige because then you know you're with the one you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. If you're around your age or even older people often regret it and wish they hadn't done it. They say it ruined their life and all that stuff.. it's happened to a bunch of people I know. Hope I helped!