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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??

Really, there are different kinds of ways to think of love. Basically, its what you feel in your heart....like you feel like you can be with that one special someone for the rest of your life.....
When your around the ages 13-16 a lot of teens our age are gonna say that they "love" someone....in other words, we're just all naive and we dont know what we want. Even little kids say that they love their little boyfriends or girlfriends. I used to say that i loved my past little boyfriends..but now that im a little older, I finally know the importance of saying "i love you" to someone. Thats why i havent said it anymore.

hope i helped
~Sammie~

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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?

If she is gonna go after that same guy that you like then i dont think that you should tell her about guys that you like anymore. I mean, i know its nice to be able to tell your friends about the guys that you like, but....you kno. I have freinds like that right now...if you tell them who you like, then that will make them want to go after that guy that you like EVEN MORE. Its pretty retarded. LOL
Just remember....any chance you get, to go out with a guy that you like, then i think that you should go for it, cuz if you wait then everyone will have their chance with that special someone...and you wont. Get it?

~Sam~

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sammie ok this is really hard to explaine but there is this guy thats has a boyfriend and they have been together for a year now but they fight alot and they dont even make a good couple (everyone says that) i always saw him at school before but never thought anything of it and this might sound crazy but i have been praying for a couple of weeks now to bring me a guy and all of a suden (ill call him E) one day i went with my friend to go chill with her boyfriend and E was in the truck and he never hangs out with my friends boyfriend and anyways he got out of the truck and asked if i wanted to come so my friend and her boyfriend can be alone so i did and we talked bout alot of stuff and we started resiling and he got me down and we looked at each other and he kissed me and i love talking to him and everything he is really easy to talk to anyways i thought about him alot so like 2 days later i wanted him to come again so i could talk to him but he was with his girlfriend so just us 3 went riding arould (my friend her boyfriend and me) and then like 5 minute later E left his girl and left with me and he talked alot and it was really fun cause we went to the lake and walked the trail and it was at midnight and off course we kissed . And its not like yeah i really like him cause this is like really different i really dont know how to explain it but its different from anything i have EVER felt for a guy and we went out to eat and everything.... even thought i have only known him for like a 13 days its like i have known him forever and he told his friend that he thinks im pretty and he likes me but he has a grilfriend...... and all of this is so hard to explaine soo please try to understand... please help what should i do???????
ps sorry so long

okay....i dont think that you sould mess around with him too much becuz he has a girlfriend. What im trying to say is that if his girlfriend finds out whats going on, then that would be really bad news. See what i mean.
Im glad that you've finally found someone that you really like..but you shouldnt go liking someone like this. If he really cares for you then he would dump his girlfriend for you. He's giving it a chance with you and him, but in all the wrong ways.
I think that you should wait for a little while before getting too serious with him...but only becuz of the fact that he has a girlfriend.

I hope i helped and good luck
Sammie
p.s. dont ever worry about how long your questions are...im always here to read what you have to ask or say. ^_^

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okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends?

Honestly, i dont really think that you should do anything becuz if you tried to help....then you would get caught in the middle of it all if something bad happened. If your friend thinks that this guy is so great then she would go for it on her own.

sam

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Okay , I like this guy, and he just told me that he likes me too, we have a problem. Me and him arent sure if we should start dating because Im friends with his sister, and his sister will NEVER buy the fact that me and him were dating...and we wouldnt be able to tell our parents because we wanna have sleep overs and stuff, but i mean we dont plan on doing anything at the sleep overs, we just wanna see each other because we live an hour away from each other, but anyways, my question is, should we date behind his sisters back or tell her with the fact we both know shes not gonna buy the whole thing...???

help :(

I rate everyone a 5

A relationship is not worth messing up a friendship...

Sam

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Ok well theres these 2 twins and they are both REALLY cute! at first i liked one...lets call him..will. so i liked will at first and then after talking to his brother a little...i started to like him! lets call him...joe!Ok well joe is funny, has a sence of humor,sweet, and if he accodently hurts ur feelings he'll apologize right away. Will is nice, kinda serious in a way (mature), funny (when you get to know him), and reallly caring, sweet. They are both kinda pervs. but they are still realllly sweet and i just cant choose. i heard one of them likes me(will) and i like him too. But i also like joe and he just broke up w/ him gf and he acts like he likes me. So now im realllly confused on what to do. I like them both a whole bunch. please help me...thanks :-/
Luv
-beyond confused-

I know that this may seem like it wont help but....just be friends with the both of them for a little while longer and then take if from there. Just think about it. if you go out with Will then you will hurt Joe; or if you go out with Joe then you would hurt Will. see what im saying. i know i dont know any of you guys...i just want you to know that i dont want anyone to get hurt.
but, just in case, if you want an answer on who to pick....i think that you should give Will a try first.

good luck
Sam

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i have liked this guy for three years now....he knows i like him..and i want 2 go out with him....really bad! hes also who i got my first kiss from..which made it even worse for me to try and let him go...n hes never answered my question whenever i ask him..will we ever go out..ever...or my question do you like me more than a friend?? what does that mean...he hates me...just wants to be friends????what?? please help me!!

I'll rate u a five if u ask me a question and rate me fairly...

I think that if you really liked him then you would just let go. I mean...i really dont want you to go on liking someone that doesnt show any intrest. I kno how that feels and it sux.

hope i helped
Sam

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This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..

Love,

WAnt HiM To mOVe On

Just be straight up forward with him about how you feel about all of this...if he really cares for you this much then i think he'll understand.

Sammie

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

ok first of all i would just like to say...."WOW!" lol (not in a rude way tho) ok im not sure if thats normal or not but maybe it is... for all i kno it could be a cycle that us teens go through. dont worry about it.

Sam

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Alot of people's columns look different and at the bottom it says Layout By Dustin..how do you get it like that? Thanks

u kno under the logout link...well it has a link that says "page backrounds", click on that and it will give you a variety of backrounds. :)

~Sammie~

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My friend cuts herself. And it really scares me she talks about killing herself sometimes. Like she thinks no one would miss her. Sometimes I wanna kill myself too but I realize how many people would miss me. But she doesn't seem to realize that. She doesn't cut herself often like she only did once but I am just scared it might become a habit. What should I do? And its not that serious enough to tell anybody yet and she would get really mad if I told anyone. I don't plan on doing anything until it gets worse like i see marks on her arms. What should I do to keep her happy and keep her not thinking about killing herself? I'm so scared right now please help me! I rate High and leave comments too!

Your friend needs to know that someone is there for her...and that is where you come in. That means that you have to talk to her now. Dont wait for her to do more damage to herself. You should bring her to the mall or movies...anything that would take her mind off the cutting thing. I kno you care for her, that's why you are such a good friend.:) If your other friend cared too then she should listen to you.

~Sammie~

P.S. dont be afraid to talk to her about this. otay

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Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present

Ask him why he's been neglecting you. its not cool he's acting the way he is. but if he's a bootyhead about you confronting your feelings with him, then i say let him go...

~sammie~

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there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?

hmmmm...well its ok to flirt around a little bit but its only because of the fact that he's not dating anyone. how exactly do you think he's flirting? maybe he is trying to be nice to other girls....he could just be joking around. LOL!! Just dont stress yourself for it cuz if he flirts with you MORE than i think that he likes you way better. dont worry about those other girls, he likes you. :)

~Sammie~

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I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do?

If your unsure to like him or not then i think that you should wait until highschool. BUT if you change your mind then i think that you should give it a try. If he really likes you then he would ask you out...maybe, the reason he's not asking you out is becuz he's just unsure about that one guy that he's claiming you like, of coarse. and you kno what that means...he's jealous, he does like you i just think that he wants you to talk to him about it and then he can be sure if he wants to ask you out or not. see what i mean.

hope i helped
~sammie~

p.s. HIGHSCHOOL so much drauma...LOL :)

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i met this guy mike whos kinda cute, shy, extremely sensitive, and over mature. he likes me but we seem to be fading inour conversations. we barely talk at school so we always talk online. ive tried everything to keep the converstaions goin but i give up. i kinda like mike too but im losing interest faster than the speed of light. then my best friend, xris, told me he just about loves me. mike knows and hes mad. but i told him i liked him and xris would have to deal with dat but that might have changed.i think i lyk xris, wut do i do?

If mike is fading in the conversations and xris shows that he likes you then i think that you should go for xris. But just to be sure...not trying to make this sound forward but i think that you should ask mike if he likes you. that question might open his eyes a little to what your expecting...yeah...i think that you should do that first..

hope i helped
~Sammie~

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Yes i like someone from my school and he claims to also like me but he also likes someone else. he said he likes her more but wont make his finaly decision yet. We talk alot and have hung out once but if he goes out with the other person than he mite get hurt because shes a bad person and i dont want to see that. what should i do?!

talk to him more....
tell him how you feel....
let him find out what that girl is all about on his own. dont get in the middle of all of that, cuz then you would end up getting hurt.

always here for help
~sammie~

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I have been weight lifting for a couple of years now and ppl are scared of me cuz they think i am too big what should i do?

You should walk up to some people and strike up a conversation. THEN they will kno how cool you are and they will tell other people how great of a person you are. dont be afraid to do that...it helps a lot cuz you get a lot of friends that way.
Im your friend..and by you asking questions i think that your pretty brave, its a start.

YOUR FRIEND :)
~Sammie~

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How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"

dont take this the wrong way..but your friends are right. if they ask the guy if he likes you then he would think that you cant do things for yourself..see what i mean. if you ask him if he likes you on your own then he will think that you are confident in yourself and he will like that about you a lot. if he tells you that he does like you then you will feel GREAT and then you'll kno if you want to ask him out or not.

hope i helped
~Sammie~

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I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help!

i think that you should wait to see him in person. Im not saying for the physical attration i just think that it would be best to talk in person for once. lol. thats so cute tho, the little thing that is going on with you and that boy. it is nice to be physically and mentally attracted to someone tho.

but i think that a personality is what makes a person beautiful..not just their looks.

~Sammie~

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I really really wont to ask this guy out but we really dont talk that much and he always goes out with the popular Girls I dont really know if I should get over it or what plz help

Feedback does count

I think that you should get to kno him more..then if you think that he's your type of guy, ask him out. Or if he isnt then dont worry about it. there are plenty of other awsome guys out there for you to choose from.

~Sammie~

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