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Wow its been awhile since I have been on here. Well I'm always told I give great advice and it seems people flock to me for it. Ive experienced alot so I can relate to alot of people. Feel free to ask me anything :)
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I LOVE music but i need something new to listen to what are some good bands??

i like mostly rock and altenative music.

5's for anything. (link)
I'm not a huge rock fan but these are some really good bands!

1. Fallout Boy
2. Greenday
3. Nickelback
4. 3 Doors Down
5. The Click 5

Hope you like those! ♥ caitie


what are some creepy games to play with your friends. for example light as a feathe, stiff as a board. you know?

thanks a bunch x3 (link)
Go and buy a Quija Board...you can have fun with that! Another gaem I know of that is similar to Light As A Feather goes like this...

1. Have someone sit in a chair and raise there arms as if they're leaning on invisible armrests.

2.Have 2 people stand on each side of her..one at the thighs and one at the arms on both sides.

3. Now have each person put 2 fingers under the person in the chair and try and lift. It's going to be kinda hard.

4. Now get one person to put out there left hand, then going counter-clockwise everyone put there left hand on top of the first persons, then have the first person put there right hand on top and then all the other people put their right hands on top.

5. Now the last person to put theit hand down takes their hand off..then the next person..and the next person so on. Now repeat step 3..but this time when you lift the person there gonna be super light..and you'll be able to lift them really high.

It's so wierd but it's fun! Good luck..and have fun! ♥ caitie


I tried using tampons yesterday but i messed up on the first one, the second one i got in but it hurt really bad and i dont know what to do I wanna wear one but it hurts like when I sit down and stuff any tips on how to make it not hurt? thank you! (link)
I had that probelm at first too. You're not pushing it in far enough, make sure you're fingers are touching you before you take the applicator out..push the tampon as far as it can go. Then walk back and forth a couple times to make sure it feels comfortable, eventually you'll get the hang of it!! Good luck! ♥


What the crap is up with me getting BAD ratings from Level 2 or 3 or whatever moderators? I am getting like 1's and 2's and I am giving good advice! Has this happened to anyone else? (link)
Ya I got that too, I give good advice too...i have no idea why they do that! But I totally agree...it's your thoughts, so why are they rating them?? W/E....well screw them lol! ♥ caitie


I'm pretty sure i'm a christian. But i sometimes doubt God and if he's there or not. Does this mean that, if i like... died tomorrow, i would go to hell. Am i not allowed to doubt God? It seems like the only people who are considered religious are the ones like "i'm sure he's real b/c i've read his word and i believed it" but... i'm a very doubtfull person and i can't just believe things like that. Does this mean i'm not going to Heaven? (link)
No it's not bad, because you dont have to be overly religious to go to heaven...I have my doubts too, but I still pray to God. If he's reall he'll listen to my prayers, if he's not then every night I'm pretty much whispering my dreams to nonone..but oh well! You won't go to hell for having doubts, so don't worry! ♥ caitie


http://fashionbug.charmingshoppes.com/Shopping/product.aspx?product_id=FM002607&nav=FM

Anyone think that shirt is cute cause i want to buy it (link)
Ya, it's very cute, especially now that it's the holiday season! Go for it! ♥ caitie


okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you! (link)
It means he wants to have sex with you really bad! ♥ caitie


what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for (link)
Ok. what you should do is make a list...put alot of things on there, but tell your dad you're not expecting all this,,you're just giving him alot to choose from. Thinks of movies you've seen that you want, or perfume. Here i'll list some stuff...

1. Movies
2. Perfume
3. Video Games
4. Earinngs
5. Clothes
6. Accesories
7. Flat Iron (if you use one)
8. Magzine Subscriptions
9. Tickets to an up and coming concert
10. Gift Certificates
11. CD's
12. Seasons of your favorite shows on dvd


Well there are some good idea's...good luck, and ask for the neclace...you're dad won't think you're spoiled..it's just something you'd liek to have! Merry Christmas!!! ♥ caitie


well, im going through a lot in my life with guys but only guy friends, i think i like my ex again but then i like one of my other friends.... but i dont wanna ruin any of our friendships so should i just move on with both of them? or pick one?? but which one??????!?!?!? (link)
First. thx for asking me! Ok well, sometimes it works out when friends go out with eachother, so I'd like to tell you to choose one but I cant! Most of the time it doesn't work...and I wouldn't take the chance of ruining your friendship with your ex..after having it been awkward after you broke up in the 1st place...as for your friend...don't mess with your friendship unless he approaches you first. I think that's how you should deall with this type of situation...if you like your friend, don't be the one to say it, let him! Blah-blah blah...what I'm trying to say is just move on..i'm sure you'll find someone else in no time!! Good luck! ♥ caitie


how old do you have to be to go clubbin? well i live in massachusetts (link)
It depends, some clubs are 18+ for women and 21+ for men. Then there are clubs that are strictly 21+...but 18 is normally the age you have to be to go to most clubs! If you're still illegal go online and see if there are some teen clubs in your area! Good luck! ♥ caitie


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First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM (link)
Awww so adorable!!! I dont know why, but the first name that popped into my head was Binky! I think it's cute..well good luck! ♥ caitie


ok i want the ipod nano or video for xmas or my bday on the 22nd

i want the 4 gb white- becasue if you scratch the black it looks bad

the 4gb nano holds about 1,000 songs right?
the 2gb nano holds about 500 songs right?

and i want eather of them...

can the video hold music and mucis videos?

how much is the video anyways?

wich one is more what is it called... better?


please and thankyou - i rate

x0o ♥ Lauraa (link)
Ok to start off...i wouldn't get the Ipod Video b/c it attracts ALOT of viruses, so it's pointless! Yes, the 2gb holds 500 and the 4gb holds 1000! I would go for the 4gb b/c 500 might sound liek a lot, but trust me you'll will definitly get more than 500 songs! I don;t know how mucha video is, but like I said, it's a waste of money! Hope this helps! ♥ caitie


I'm 13, and in 7th grade. I recently found out like half the girls in my grade wear thongs?!?! I thought this was a little young, is it normal? How could I ask my mom if I could start wearing them, I'm pretty embarresed to ask. (link)
Ya it's perfectly normal....I've been wearing them since I was 10...some people view them as a sexual thing and that;'s why people say.."Oh 10 is too young!", but they're really made so you don't have panty lines! Before you ask your mom, you should go out and buy one..or a couple and just casually say to your mom, "Oh, look I bought these really cute thongs today." If she gets mad tell her you didn't know it was bad to buy thongs and that you'd liek to wear them. Tell her you're the only one that doesn't wear them plus you hate panty lines. I'm sure she'll let you wear them, honestly it's not a big deal! Good luck! ♥ caitie


Where can I find cell phone covers ? (link)
There's always stands in the mall. Hope this helps! ♥ caitie


Okay...I've had my period for exactly 2 years as of December 5. I want to use tampons, and I know how to put them in and all the dangers. But I have a few other questions:

Does it hurt going in/while its in/coming out?
What is an appropriate size?
What exactly does Toxic Shock Sydrome do to your body?
How do you know that you have TSS?

I rate. (link)
1. As long as you are relaxed and don't jamit up ther it won't hurt. As for coming out..sometimes it may feel uncomfortable when you don't have a heavy flow, b/c the tampon is dry. It doesnt hurt though, it's just a wierd feeling.

2. For your first time you shouyld start with "Tampax Satin Teen" b/c they are specially made for teens, so they are made smaller but with the same absorbency. Start witha light...and then gradually move up. I'm sure you've realised how your flow acts by now so for ex. if the first day is light wera a light tampon...if the second day is heavy wear a super tampon. Basically match the tampon size to the amount of blood you get. And if your just not sure which to use, stick with regular. remember it's always best to use the smallest tampon as possible.

3. TSS can make you pass out, hace a ceisure, and end up in a coma. It's very rare but you can die from it, so make sure you dont sleep with a tampon, and don't wear it more that 8 hrs!

4. Sudden fever (usually 102° or higher), vomiting, diarrhea, fainting or near fainting when standing up, dizziness, and/or a rash that looks like sunburn. If you experience any of these..then discontinue tampon use and go to the doctor or hospital right away!


Hope this helps and by the way...using tampon really isnt a big deal so dont worry! Plus they are WAYYY better than pads! ♥ caitie


My breasts began to get bigger around May. I went from 22 A to a 28C in around a month. Now I have little purplish reddish lines on them. They look like little scratch marks leading from the nipple out on. I have the 3 marks on each breast. The 3 scratch marks are on one side of the nipple. What are these? Are they just stretch marks or something, will they go away ??? (link)
Those are definitly stretch marks, and you got them because your breasts went through such an extreme growth spurt! Sometimes they go away and sometimes they don't..wait a little while and if they don't fade..try going to a drugstore and oicking up a stretch mark cream! Good luck! ♥ caitie


What song is this from:?
So I wont give up...And I won't break down
Sooner then it seems life...
Turns around...

thanks! (link)
It;s called "Someone's Watching Over Me" by Hilary Duff. Hope this helped! ♥ caitie


Okay, so this is my fourth or fifth period, and I still don't use tampons. The catch is, next month around this time, I'm going to the beach. So I really want to learn how to use tampons for future reference. I tried just putting in a light one, and it hurt sooo bad. I put vasaline on the tip and everything, I just can't get it in. Any tips for putting that damn thing in? (link)
First off, you should start with Tampax Satin Teen brand, becasue they are specially made for teens, so they are made smaller, and are plastic aplicators. Make sure you're putting it in the right hole..it's the hole closest to your clitoris. Sorry to be so detailed but just trying to help lol! You could also read the directions in the box of tampons to help you. When you put it in, try doing it standing up with your legs way apart...completly relax..or it will hurt..then push the tampon it until your fingers hit you. Also, make sure you put a tampon in when you have your period....i mean don't try it when you don't have your period..beacuase it's just too dry w/out it. Ok well good luck! ♥ caitie


Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks (link)
It is against the law for your doctor to tell your mother anything..so when she askes tell her you're not! Trust me, she deals with girls much younger than you who are not virgins! You're mom won't find out...and you should take this opportunity to talk to your doctor about things you cna't ask your mom or friends! Good luck! ♥ caitie


Hey Im really scared.


I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help (link)
Well, it sounds to me like you were raped by Mr. 17....that is not right and you need to tell your mom what happened. She'll understand, because it's not as if you wanted to have sex with him! Unless you did, then you still have to tell your mom..but she might not be very happy. Good luck! ♥ caitie




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