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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please! (link)
ok well he likes you because he told your friends he likes you!I think that he does not have a gf and he said it was his gfs favorite song to make you jealous and to see your reaction?because if you said to him you have a gf?he could then say no i want you as my gf!or to see how u would take it?or maybe he just said it because someone told him you like him and he wants to make you jealous.i have been to school with boys since 3 years old so i know that thats what they do!I think you should act cool around him now just like you are friends.Also act like you do not care.If he said it to you why don't you say it to him tell him tell him you have a bf and see his reaction play his game.when he asks you say to him do you have a gf?if he says no you say i don't have a bf.Then see what happens from there, but maybe you should bare in mind he might have a gf although i don't think he does.I hope i helped if you need further advice inbox me i am happy to help lv sweetcorn xx


okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...

what other ways can i make a good impression? (link)
Start by shaking their hand then you will look well mannered i did it and it always works for me hope i helped.


ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay? (link)
No stay friends with him just because he is gay does not mean he is any different he has probably always been gay and when you did not know you was friends right?? So stay friends with him Gay men are nice they can't help being different from stright men. hope i helped!Why lose a friend because he is gay.


Hey im a guy and girls always tell me that when i get older that if i have hair on my chest i should shave it! and i am not sure about it! like is it like when girls shave their legs how it has pointy hairs? do you have to do it often? is it weird? where do i shave like by my belly? answers like that! (link)
i think it is sexy for a man to have hairs on his chest but not 2 many!!! like if it is black hair or brown there its nice if it is blonde get rid of it!!!!hope i helped


Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu! (link)
instead of saying to him i got my period just do something else.Say you want to go to the cinema or a place where he will not touch you down there.Do something where he can't because you are in public and don't go back to his house or him go to yous and i am sure it will save you the imbarrasment.hope i helped


I heard a long time ago that different fruits mean different things. For instance, if you leave a squash on your girlfriend's front porch then that means you want to break up with her. The reason I am asking is because last night (very late) someone, possibly two people, ate watermelon on our porch and left the remains of the watermelon! What the crap does this mean? Does it mean anything at all? There are two peices that were cut in triangles. This is freaking weird. (link)
no it does not mean anything it means someone eat watermellon and left it there because they could not be bothered to find a bin lol


Ok i know i just did something really stupid but i was bored so i put on some fake nail with nail glue and i took one off and like its really nasty looking on my real nail the glue is and i cant get the glue off my real nail how can i do this?
help signed,
STUPID! (link)
get some nail polish remover and scrub it of it that does not work then get hot water and scrub it of.


i got this weird virus on my computer through AIM..i did a virusscan on my comp. and it said there was nothing there but it still kept acting funny. so i restored my computer to an earlier date, will this get rid of it???? thanks, i rate 5's!! (link)
it may not get rid of it fully try and re boot the computer


I had something about this about 2-3 months ago.

I have this huge cat scratch on my nose & its just in 2 lines... I think its scared... but I was wondering how I could get rid of this scar & how long it would take?

thanks! (link)
umm thats a hard question i think you can only wait for it to go on its own. When you go out cover it up with some concellor!!


Okay, so I'm bedridden for a while. I certainly don't enjoy readering, but I figure it will pass the time.. so I'm not just stuck laying there like a useless moron. I like those cheesy little romance plots and all that sensitive bologna, so if ANYONE can think of something I might enjoy, I would DEFINITELY appreciate your recommendation!!

"Mackenzie" (link)
of mice and men is one of the best books! not romantic but good its one you won't put down until you finish it.Try pride and prejudice a classic is never out of date lol or maybe try Jane Eyre what an amazing book.... or another book u could try and get hold of is a special relationship which i have not read yet its just waiting to be read.


ok i don't really have acne just a few pimples here and there..but when they go away it leaves a red spot behind and they take forever to go away! and my skin is like red and splotchy looking is there any way to get rid of this? (link)
i think try sudocream it is so good!!!!


I have these big bee-stung lips...they are so poofy and ughhhh I hate them..is there any way to make my lips look thin like normal people?? (link)
huh usally people get there lips made bigger and don't you think it is better to kiss someone with big lips rather than thin!!!!!so leave them as they are i am sure they are nice. leave them don't make them look small.Who would want to kiss thin lips if u could kiss thick lips.....hope i helped


I have these really weird & un-attractive black dots on my nose... I think there black-heads & they are VERY small, but there are so many of them...

how can I get rid of them?

thank you so much! (link)
black heads come from soap try and use plain water to wash your face in the future and it should advoid them.To get rid of them now try and get some hot water on a cloth put it on the area and then squeese them out i always believe in getting rid of the bacteria not leaving it there. hope i helped sweetcorn.


In school, everyone always makes fun of me because of my flat butt...So I thot I would take this summer to improve myself. Does anyone have any instant exercises that can make my butt look toned and bigger? Thanks! (link)
its good to have a flat bum loads of people would do anything for a flat bum not make it bigger. The only reason they make fun is because they are jealous and they want a flat bum hope i helped sweetcornxx


I have real sweaty hands...does anyone know anything i can do to prevent, or block this? It is so bad i cant even write without having my pen slip or having my paper become wet. Please Help. (link)
Try to wash your hands in cold water alot and it might help.Then dry them and put some lotion on them hope i helped lv sweetcorn


So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here. (link)
don't worry about it my first kiss was when i was 16 and i really wanted to kiss someone so i ended up dating my friend this boy who was my friend for ages anyway now we are not as good friends as we were before so don't date a friend usless he likes u alot and u like him and will stay friends afterwards.Don't rush to find someone i am sure soon someone will come along and then they will kiss you there are loads of people who have never kissed anyone out there also a first kiss is special so make it special because you have the choice of anyone and you will always remember your first kiss. so don't worry about it hope i helped lv sweetcorn xx


i need help. every day i have a feeling that gradually wells up like a knot in my chest of hopelessness, desperation and panic. the only thing i can do to get rid of the feeling is to cut and feel as much pain as i can. one day someone will find my scars and it makes me sick that i do this. i have no other way out. i want to die. (link)
please don't do that you are causing pain for your self. i am sure there is a reason why you feel like this but just listen to music,watch films,play games tennis ect do not harm yourself. its causing you worst pain than before.


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im trying to convince my parents to allow me to fly by myself from wisconsin to washington. the problum is my parents say im 2 young to travle on my owne and i could be kidnapped. i was wondering if some people could give me some info. on the safety so i can try and convince my parents. i want to go next year so i will be 14 but they still wont listen 2 me. i heard from a friend that the airport people like, make shure u get from plane to plane and crap. but my parents refuse to even think about it. my mom is preddy much my only hope, and shes a big worry wart. could someone please help me? i rate well (link)
ok same thing has kind of happened to me apart from because my parents new my friend would meet me the other side they let me go.They new i would be safe because i was staying with my friend i traveled to japan on my own. Yes you can get a thing called family service which is really good they are with you all the time i think depending on the airline it might cost extra to have family service.Lots of younge people travel aswell along with family service so you will not be alone. They do not leave you they make sure you get to the airport the otherside safe aswell and they are on the plane aswell.They travel back with you aswell its really gd.You wear a badge that says family service so they won't lose you.Tell you're mum you will not talk to strangers!! and don't because there are weirdos out there!!! hope i helped lv sweetcorn as long as you are meeting someone there its ok otherwise do not go.


There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.



*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl ) (link)
ok you are 13 please don't waist yourself on someone that says that to you. I mean you don't need to get serious you are 13 and below the age of having sex. It is not a good idea to have sex as friends because he might throw it in your face later on and call you names like slut ect. I kn ow you really like him but i think if you want to find out if he likes you see if he waits until you are older.If not then get rid of him he won't be any good as a friend either.Just keep him as a friend and keep you're space.Hope i helped lv sweetcorn x


kay Im sorry If this is really long I just dont know how to put it..

well I've known this kid chris for a long time.. we've always been friends and I was going out with this kid named derrick for a 11 months when we broke up I was so hearbroken and me and chris started hangin out alot.. so then we started going out and derrick had a girlfriend already too.. but It always seemed like derrick didnt want me with anyone when or be happy..when I was with chris derrick would come over and like things would happen and he would be really mean to be when I was with chris.. well I cheated on chris with my ex and I just feel so guilty he thinks all girls cheat bc all of his girlfriends have to him.. and hes a wicked nice guy he treats his girlfriends sooo good.. and he said that I proved him wrong but I feel so horrible that I could do that to him we arent together anymore but were styll really good friends.. everyday since that day i cheated on him It hurts me cause i feel so guilty and I wanna tell him but I know If I tell him I`ll lose him as a friend.. and I dont want that.. I dont know what to do I think about this everyday the guilt just wont leave me alone.. what should I do? please help If you can.. I`ll rate.. thanks (link)
ok well you do not want to lose chris as a friend because that will make you feel bad.So do Not tell him you cheated on him but you will have to make sure the boy you cheated on him with will not tell him.otherwise it will look like you lied. Do not tell him the only reason to feel bad is if you slept with the other boy while with chris. I am sure men would cheat if they had a chance so lay back and say nothing!!!! Hope i helped love sweetcorn xx inbox me if u need more advice.




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