|
Guilt...
kay Im sorry If this is really long I just dont know how to put it..
well I've known this kid chris for a long time.. we've always been friends and I was going out with this kid named derrick for a 11 months when we broke up I was so hearbroken and me and chris started hangin out alot.. so then we started going out and derrick had a girlfriend already too.. but It always seemed like derrick didnt want me with anyone when or be happy..when I was with chris derrick would come over and like things would happen and he would be really mean to be when I was with chris.. well I cheated on chris with my ex and I just feel so guilty he thinks all girls cheat bc all of his girlfriends have to him.. and hes a wicked nice guy he treats his girlfriends sooo good.. and he said that I proved him wrong but I feel so horrible that I could do that to him we arent together anymore but were styll really good friends.. everyday since that day i cheated on him It hurts me cause i feel so guilty and I wanna tell him but I know If I tell him I`ll lose him as a friend.. and I dont want that.. I dont know what to do I think about this everyday the guilt just wont leave me alone.. what should I do? please help If you can.. I`ll rate.. thanks
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
dont cheat just be there for him and if derrick cant leave u alone then file a restraining order on him! ive had a possesive bf and thats the worst kind! take my advice and get rid of him!!!!!!!!!!!
]
ok well you do not want to lose chris as a friend because that will make you feel bad.So do Not tell him you cheated on him but you will have to make sure the boy you cheated on him with will not tell him.otherwise it will look like you lied. Do not tell him the only reason to feel bad is if you slept with the other boy while with chris. I am sure men would cheat if they had a chance so lay back and say nothing!!!! Hope i helped love sweetcorn xx inbox me if u need more advice.
]
okay
lets say one day yall are hanging out haveing a good time ...thats when you should tell him...dont say it foward start by like asking questions like ...if you ahd this really good friend and yall went out and something happened then with a nother guy and she was feeling guilty and wanted to tell him but didnt want to lose a really good friend?.......after you said that ask him what he would if he was the guy....then you go out and tell
hop i helped
]
More Questions: |