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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
ill rate 5s if you give good answers (link)
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I would say yes get tested first then discuss with your bf how u feel about using protection he will feel the same way and if not bring up having a baby after that he'll shut up and use a condom most people feel that using a condom takes away the flavor in sex the feeling but really it doesn't actually it feels better not only that but you know your safe. And is for brands on condoms I don't know but pick a good one that doesn't come off too easily and that doesn't rip easily. something that is expensive and not cheap. Like those heated condoms it heats you up really quickly and stuff.
Please rate thankyou.
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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me (link)
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How many times do I have to explain it to the females men are insecure they don't care about what the woman thinks because they know the woman won't do anything about it so if you do do something about it the man will step off i've gotten rated 4 times just for helping someone out with that problem go and tell him that if he doesn't stop sexual harrasing you you'll beat the shit out of him problem is he just doesn't have enough sex if he's a virgin he thinks any girl is hot at first site and wants a peice so do as i say and he'll stop if you don't then deal with the sexual harrasment until you have sex with him or for the rest of your life or at least until you move. please rate.
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WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do
PLEASE HELP!!
~Princess Ava~ (link)
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In my shoes I would say put that on hold until I am ready to decide becuz after what went down I don't know if that getting drunk part was an excuse of getting out of the fact of having sex with one of your friends and then said i got drunk and seduced her i would wait becuz even while drunk you can still decide yes or no through your emotions it doesn't matter if you were drunk yes or no is your decision i think he meant to do it.
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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
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Giving a guy head isn't going to give you a baby only sex will and so i have to say no don't use a condom and as for tips while you give him head i've actually had this done to me before tickle his balls lol trust me a good feeling.
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My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.
I'm scared for her.
Any Advice??...
- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.
Thank you
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you know i get problems like this all the time and i've had the experience so i know what i'm talking about when i say that you need to tell her to have the baby but put the baby in adoption that's all don't kill the innocent baby because of your guilt and wrong in having it.
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i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers (link)
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Listen don't care about what your family thinks if they can't take the pressure then so what, they can't help to think that your just a woman trapped inside of a man's body basically just tell them when you feel your ready and when you feel they're ready if they don't accept you for who you are don't accept them.
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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No it's really really really really not normal for a 14 year old to do that. Your bisexual for one you thought last night felt pretty good and not bad so your lesbian then you thought that you wanted a guy to be there more than anything so your heterosexual then you combine those two and your bisexual no changing that for the rest of your life your bisexual. please rate thankyou bye.
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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks! (link)
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before using a condom check it to see if there is a hole if so throw it away don't use it unless you want a baby of course. they also have condoms for women. Also make sure that when using a condom that it stays on through the whole time your having sex sometimes if the sex gets to wild it will pull off by itself. so pull it up like every 5 min. condoms are 93.2% safe and 6.7% not safe please rate thankyou.
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ahhh ok, basically my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards i noticed he had a ringworm on his arm..jus above his elbow, quite bigg around 5-6cm ish. and im really worried i could get it..i didnt realise it was contagious till i go home and looked it up. i had a longg bath with dettol and my clothes i was wearin are in the wash. do you know anything i could do to prevent me actually getting it/to prevent it showing upp at all or anything i should take etc? plzzzzz help thnx xxx (link)
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your not going to catch it because he used his finger and his elbow didn't touch you but if it so happened too then just use beyer pills it will keep it cool for a while and like u said use a lot of soap and take like 3 baths a day. Baths not showers.
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i don't know that its exactly healthy but i was wondering if there is anything else (like a household item) that i can use that would work kinda like a dildo or a vibrator? i mean it doesnt have to move or anything...just feel good. cuz my parents would freak if they found a dildo or vibrator. is it unhealthy to use anything else? can i sterilize other stuff? if so, how? (link)
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Yeah you can try finding something like a small flashlight or a gentle pen or maybe you can take a spoon and wrap it around in toilet tissue and something slippery on it like dish washing liquid and use that.
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ok well..
i was hooking up with some guy and we were going for about 6 mins and then he started to move my hand slowly down his pants but i just kinda backed away concerning i really dont kno what to do if i go down a guys pants and how to keep it there long. so my question is what do i do down there and for how long. thanks
ps. im 14 years old going on to 15 (link)
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What you do is press against his dik hard but gentle tickle his balls jerk him off and do it for as long as you think you can just make sure he don't have nothin wrong with his dik like the herpes onr nothin.
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Ok I want to really please my boyfriend so this question is mainly for guys but if you girls can help me too that would be great. Ok so I want to give him something he will never forget sexually. What really turns guys on? Do they have favorite positions or favorite acts the enjoy being done on them?? It's our 3 year anniversery so I am really going to put all out. Thankyou for you consideration! I really need help (link)
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Yea start off in a stripping position put on some music on and strip. Then when you get to having sex if your a roller suck his dik. get on top of him and ride his dik hard then doggie style if you suppose. Just that freaky shit men like that shit.
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either.. (link)
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Hey if you liked it admit it and say you liked it you can like both girls and guys you can be a lesbian but if it felt good doing it with a girl what's wrong with that. If you feel your a lesbian there's nothing wrong with that.
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Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl? (link)
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You should go for the the girl since now your lesbian you said that the sex you had for your best friend made you feel something then that's makingyou feel love forher and not your boyfriend anymore so be the lesbian you are and be with her.
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What do i do when im 14 and already fingering my self, i get soo horny all the time i dont know what to do i cant find any guy whos my age and will have sex wit me, i just wanna know how it feels, i dont care I need a girl or a boy just help! (link)
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Look it's not a good idea to have sex at your age your not ready but you can stop fingering yourself all the time. Just go out and buy a dildo.
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im going to be moving into a new house and the room that i get is pretty small compared to the bigg room i had before, does anyone know any good idea to make the room bigger??
and also any good themes for my room, and if u do any good websites to check out for room decorating?
thanks so much! (link)
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I don't know how to make your room bigger but maybe it's a better idea to keep the small room becuz sometimes a small room can work to it's advanatge such as smaller rooms always look much more decorative then big rooms everyone knows that.But as for the theme I say a jungle but not a manly jungle like a jungle with pink flowers and the walls are painted with flowers and roses just stuff like that.
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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Until he's ready to have sex you shouldn't rush things it's always better to wait until your married to have sex you don't want to rush things really.
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well signingfish.com is up for sale... which sucks BALLS!! does anyone know i site kind of like it that i can just listen to music and its fast and easy? (link)
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Just go to launch.com you don't need the www
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well theirs this REALLY hot guy who me and him both wanna make*out, im scared im not good enough for him =/ i need some tips on making out and exactly what to do to make my kiss MEMORABLE =) i rate really high!! ((top ratings for everyone)) (link)
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if you want sex tips e-mail me personally at fiend_chap@yahoo.com and i'm a guy so i know exactly what positions a guy likes as for the kiss just do a regular french kiss like when you kiss him take your tongue and massage his tongue with yours take your tongue as far down into his mouth as you can and he'll do the same that's something that'll be memorable.
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Alright So i need some songs..
I have an ipod that i take about everywhere with me and i only have 160 songs on it..
N i was just wonderin if you can give me some songs..If this helps im a guy`
Im into Punk-Rock..Rock..Alternative..Punk..
Here are some people I like..
Papa Roach
My Chemical Romance
Blink 182
Yellow Card
Green Day
Bowling For Soup
The Killers..
And all that kind of music..`
``I`ll Rate High For Decent Music..
Or if its music by the groups I didnt list but have on my ipod` (link)
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Have you tried Linkin park I have all the cd's and all of the green day cd's you know i can give you some advice on this one go to aj.com or u can e-mail a person that can help you at fiend_chap@yahoo.com
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