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Hey everyone, My mom is finally letting me get my cartlidge pierced after about 4 years of asking btw 14/f. Well I am really scared actually. Does it hurt worse than your earlobe? I have finaly came up with the courage because if girls my age can go and get their nose and belly button pierced this should be simple. I'm still scared though I mainly wanna know though is does it hurt that bad and does it hurt/ feel the same as just getting your earlobles peirced? because all my friends that have theirs pierced say it didnt hurt at all! Please help. Thaks(: (link)
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Hey there!
I have mine pierced in three places, it is not fun, it hurts a lot, when they push the needle in it makes this horrible popping noise too. It also takes a long time to heal, I had mine pierced in August of last year and it healed 9 months later. You have to clean it constantly, try not to touch it a lot and don't clean it with rubbing alcohol, use salt water on a cotton swab, it's not too fun but I am very glad I did it, it looks awesome (:
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I had sex on a Saturday morning and took a plan B pill Monday. I have had burning urination for the past 2 hours and it is now Tuesday. Does this mean I have a STD or side effects from the pill? Please help, I need answers but can't let none of family or friends know. (link)
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A sexually transmitted disease takes a lot longer then a few days to show symptoms. It could be a urinary tract infection.
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how to kiss
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There are a variety of ways to kiss, if you are a first time kisser it's simply, turn your head slightly and open your mouth just a bit put your lips softly to theirs closing them as you meet and repeating this process, this is the simplest kiss, however it should come natural.
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We use condoms and I'm on birth control and he goes inside me (with the condom on). Should i be worried about pregnancy? (link)
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You should be fine, if you have any doubts get a pregnancy test.
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Why can't I orgasm during sex? (link)
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You need to specify whether you are a boy or girl, more detail would be appreciated, that way myself along with others can give you a more detailed response.
If you are a girl, it's fairly common to be unable to reach an orgasm.
for girls the easiest way for most to reach their first climax is by stimulating your clitoris, set aside at least an hour you know you will have time for yourself, start by slowly rubbing your vagina, after you feel ready take a finger or two and place it lightly upon your clitoris, rotate it slowly, you may feel overwhelmed and try and pull your hand away, try to overcome it and continue, once you get the hang of it an orgasm is close behind, try not to focus on the orgasm but rather on how good it feels.
If you are a boy you may want some form of lubricant, unscented lotion or lubricant. Rub yourself until you are erect then apply a small amount of lubricant to your palm clasp your hand with a small amount of pressure around the bottom of the shaft and slowly slide your hand up and down the shaft, you can slowly increase the speed, make sure to pay attention to the head as this is the most sensitive part, set aside at least an hour you have to yourself and continue.
If neither of this helps then you may want to talk to your doctor.
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Usually, whenever my boyfriend and I are having sex, I can only orgasm once (from my clitoris) and then I'm just totally not in the mood anymore. I can't be aroused for HOURS after that because it just doesn't "work". Why is it that I get out of the mood right after that? How can we make it last longer or happen again? (link)
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You should be lucky you can reach an orgasm, a lot of girls have trouble reaching them, one is better then none.
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15/f
Well......There is this guy me and him are Best Friends even after we went out. He is a year younger than me but we diceied to give it a shot. We went out for like a week we wouldnt do anything like hold hands or kiss that kind of stuff because my cousis were down and they were ALWAYS around us. When we were going out I aksed why he liked me and he said the sweetest thing "I liked you the very frist day i meet you" That was sweet. But now he is going out with this girl a year younger than him and im mad because he said the only reason he is going out with her is becuase she will 'put out'. The only reason we didnt do anything was because of my family it isnt my fault.
So....my question is How do I deal with this i really like him.....and i wanna go back out with him but he is goin out with a girl 2 younger than me and 1 year younger than him. (link)
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You are 15, you do not need to be. "putting out"
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What are your top...lets say 3...reasons to live? What makes you happy to be here? (link)
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Growing and learning, I love learning lessons and enriching my life, there has been a lot of shit that has happened that makes me question life. But in the end I see the hardships are what make me who I am.
Painting, I love art and I love to paint until my hands are numb.
Adventure, I love doing new things, life is about experiences.
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how long does a hickey last
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It really depends on the person, healing time varies, but I say about anywhere from 3-9 days.
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im a girl. and im 14 :p okay so, ill start rom the beginning. in April i dated this guy Magilla (ehh, code name). he was my first love and i dated him for three months.he left me because i wouldnt have sex with him. and i was so heart broken. id have alot of good friends that helped me. one of them was Jonny. Jonny at that time had a girlfriend that he was with for a whole year. so he was there for me through everything. so when school started again in August, Jonny helped me get to most of my classes and i started to really like him. and i knew he did too. me and Jonny would always get high together and have the most funnest time ever when we hung out :)he was like me brother. but i always felt like hed use me becase when his girlfriend wasnt there hed treat me like i was his gf. and i didnt like that. him and his gf broke up last week (its October now)and he asked me out. but......i dont like him as much as he likes me. being in a relationship with him is so different from us just being friends. his kiss dosent feel right. nor when we cuddle. im so confused. i wanna leave him but i know we wont have the same friendship we had befor. help? :( (link)
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I'm going to give you some girl to girl advice, I'm 18 now and when I was 14 I was where you were, well maybe 15 but eh.
So I dumped a guy who wanted to have sex with me, but we dated a year. Shortly after my best friend of 4 years uhm we'll call him "seth" dumped his girlfriend of 2 years, I was 16 at that time and he was 17
Well Seth and I started this relationship up, Our first kiss I got total butterflies, but after that, it started to feel weird, I just thought, I used to think of him as a brother and here I am with my tongue down his throat cuddling up watching movies with him. It's weird transitioning from friends to lovers. Because your mindset takes a bit longer to shift from friendship to relationship.
You can go ahead and break it off, your friendship will not be the same no matter what. Sorry, I've been romantic with a few friends, and i've only successfully stayed friends with about 3 out of 7 of these guys and these were brief encounters, I am talking about one night, I didn't date any of them except for Seth.
Well anyway, you can break up with Johnny and try and be friends, but it won't be the same, or you can give it some time, it will feel weird for a while but it's just because of that transition, it's kind of like breaking in a new pair of shoes, it takes some getting used to that feeling.
I say give it a few weeks, and if things still weird simply tell him it feels weird and you'd rather have your friendship back, he might understand he might not. You are 14 though, remember that. Chances are when you are 18 you will have a different boyfriend and different friends.
I'm not with Seth anymore and he and I are not friends, we are complete strangers to one another and it sucks, but I love the time I had with him, it was the best relationship I've had so far. You could miss out on a great experience but you could also lose out on a friend.
Sorry if I confused you further but I hope this helps dear (:
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As a guy, sometimes I have trouble initiating sex, but mainly when asking for something only for myself.
My girlfriend has no trouble with oral sex, she isn't grossed out by it, and she says she likes making me feel good. We've been together for a year, and normally she has to initiate this.
We have slightly different libidos, so there are times she'd rather give oral than have full on sex with me, or during her period.
Sometimes I end up feeling selfish when it's only me getting pleasured and she isn't in the mood for it, which is one reason why I have trouble asking her for it. People have said "just be direct and ask," but there is literally no romance in that.
Is there any good way to ask her for oral sex when I am wanting some, or any indirect way of showing her that I want it? Also, I'm not going to push her head down or do anything that direct or degrading. (link)
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There's no other way than asking for it, there can be romance in asking for it, but ask indirectly, imply it rather than ask.
For Example:
"Babe, I love how good you are at oral."
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"I was just thinking about how good you make me feel when you [insert dirty deed here]"
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17/f
Every couple of months, I go and get a wax at a spa I trust, and I never get ingrown hairs. However, this past summer, I shaved a little bit "down there" because I didn't have the time to get a wax. Ever since, I've been continuously getting red bumps and some ingrown hairs. There's a lot, and only on the right side. How can I get rid of these bumps and ingrowns? I don't want to sit there for an hour tweezing and trying to get the ingrowns to come out. Also, the razor bumps are getting annoying too. How can I clean it up down there and get rid of all the bumps? (link)
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I had the same problem with this, you do need to pull out the ingrown hairs however, avoid using a lot of soap down there, is dries out your skin and irritates it a lot, use a small amount of moisturizing soap and tons of warm water, the way I found to reduce ingrown hairs and irritation is to wax and shave less, space out the sessions of shaving, shaving every other day will irritate your skin. Also do not put lotion on after shaving while your skin is still wet, and don't use scented lotions. wait about a week or two inbetween shaving sessions, and when you shave do it in the shower lather it with a shaving product, soap, or shampoo, pull the skin tight and press lightly, rinse the razor after every stroke.
Hope this helps!
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So my boyfriend went out of town a few weeks ago and promised he'd kiss me when he got back and that sorta didn't happen we both got nervous and he kinda kissed me right above my lip... so anyway he's gone again and I had been so mad that I didn't go for the kiss the last time so I promised I would kiss him on our next date which is in a week. I'm terrified! I really want to kiss him because I love him but I'm just so nervous about how to bring it up and when to actually do it on our date. This is my first kiss and his also so I have no idea what to do.
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You will know when the time is right, you'll get this feeling in your whole body just to kiss him, listen to that feeling, but if he doesn't look like he wants to then don't keep going. Just close your eyes slightly turn your head open your mouth only slightly and softly close them on his.
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how do i over come the fear of cutting myself for the first time? (link)
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Don't, I used to cut my wrists, i'm covered in scars from it, it doesn't help at all and isn't worth it. I cut my wrists for five years until recently and it never helped, and everyone could see it and everyone judged me, it isn't worth it, if you are depressed get on medication or find an outlet, mine is art.
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So, I dyed the TIPS of my hair purple, and I used the bleach first, and when the bleach was done, it was an awful auburnish color,so then I put the purple in and it came out okay in the end, not exactly what i wanted. I only let it stay in for the minimum time period because I only want it for a few weeks of summer. My question is, will it wash out by itself and the bleach and purple both fade back to my natural hair color? or will it fade to the bleached color and will I have to dye my hair to my natural color again? I dont want to get a haircut because I'd be cutting a lot off. Please Help! :) (link)
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I bleach my hair and dye it crazy colors all the time. In fact is it purple right now, when your color fades it will leave a slight purple tint and bleaching your hair removes the pigment so it cannot fade, so you either have to cut it off or dye it back.
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How many regret breaking up with there first love?
we break up with our first loves (didnt fall out of love) because we want to go out and have fun and party with their friends and think maybe after a few years they will just find another person. How many people end up doing this and regret loosing their first love? Just out of curiosity, and how long did it ever take you to realize it was a mistake? tell me your stories, i really would like to hear them if you dont mind :) (link)
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I don't regret it but sometimes I miss what I had.
I dated this guy for a year my first love, we lost our virginity to one another and were happy with one another. Well I grew tired, of the same person I wanted to see what it was like to be with other people, he was controlling and paranoid. Well I broke up with him and two years later here I am. Sometimes I look back and miss it, he made me happy. I talk to him sometimes and visit him. I still love him but not the same. I miss it now and then and I tell him when I do. But I would never get back together with him.
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What are some good songs/quotes about a guy playing you and you knowing it and he thinks you have no idea? (link)
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The Girl's a straight up hustler - All Time Low
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does the cum enter in youu?
how does the penis enter... when he gets a boner?
anddd can you feel the cum coming into your vagina?
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If you want to get pregnant or do not use protections yes it enters you
The penis can be inserted when it is erect.
It really depends, some times you can feel it sometimes you cannot.
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My boyfriend and i have started having sex we were both virgins we are both 17 and everytime we have sex he doesn't last that long his penis goes soft and i can't get him hard again i'm not sure if it's nerves or not but he only last a couple of minutes and soemtimes it takes awhile for him to get an erection he's really embarrassed im not sure what to do how can i get him to last longer? (link)
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This is very common for males when they first start having sex, it may take several times for it to start lasting longer, don't let him get embarrassed. Don't let it be a big deal, if he goes soft or he cannot get an erection, whisper in his ear that it's okay and then bite his ear lobe lightly and suck on it, kiss his neck and rub your hands on his body. Don't let him think you care it went away. This will arouse him and hopefully will help. Good luck (:
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ok so when my boyfriend and i have sex a few times the condom has got like stuck inside me. not like stuck but it slips off and its still in me..is that normal? is that a bad thing? im just curious if that is not suppose to happen or what is causing this to happen..thanks! (link)
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your boyfriend needs to wear smaller condoms this means
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