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Why can't i orgasm?

Question Posted Tuesday October 11 2011, 9:55 pm

Why can't I orgasm during sex?

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bigskyguy answered Friday November 11 2011, 9:27 pm:
If you are indeed female, you might want to try a vibrator. if the thought freaks you out, I suggest something small, maybe check the selection at your local Walgreens or Rite-aid type store. Enjoy ;)

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LeBel answered Thursday October 20 2011, 2:47 pm:
ok Pookyy is a bitch first off dont bother with any of her advice! Secondly..there are cases where some women (im assuming your a female) never have an orgasm. not sure of age but as embarrassing as it mayb seem you can talk to your gyno about it. As another option try K.Y. his and hers, or K.Y. Intense. its amazing, i call it my little black tube of awesome. not to sound like that Pookyy bitch but maybe that sex isnt as good as it should be maybe not as exciting. Sex should be pleasurable and thats sucky that you can have the big O. you will have one eventually and it will blow your mind... lol.
I hope everything works out!

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orphans answered Wednesday October 12 2011, 3:11 pm:
some people cant orgasm during sex because they are not really a woman only real women can orgasm during sex.

or if not, maybe the guy wasnt good enough at all. so its prolly just him.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday October 12 2011, 9:45 am:
More detail is needed to answer this question; age and sex, if you masturbating or having intercourse. Without this information I would only be guessing on the why of your question and any answer I might put forth could be totally wrong.

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smileydino answered Tuesday October 11 2011, 11:54 pm:
You need to specify whether you are a boy or girl, more detail would be appreciated, that way myself along with others can give you a more detailed response.

If you are a girl, it's fairly common to be unable to reach an orgasm.
for girls the easiest way for most to reach their first climax is by stimulating your clitoris, set aside at least an hour you know you will have time for yourself, start by slowly rubbing your vagina, after you feel ready take a finger or two and place it lightly upon your clitoris, rotate it slowly, you may feel overwhelmed and try and pull your hand away, try to overcome it and continue, once you get the hang of it an orgasm is close behind, try not to focus on the orgasm but rather on how good it feels.

If you are a boy you may want some form of lubricant, unscented lotion or lubricant. Rub yourself until you are erect then apply a small amount of lubricant to your palm clasp your hand with a small amount of pressure around the bottom of the shaft and slowly slide your hand up and down the shaft, you can slowly increase the speed, make sure to pay attention to the head as this is the most sensitive part, set aside at least an hour you have to yourself and continue.

If neither of this helps then you may want to talk to your doctor.

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