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HEy yall in a few days im getin a ipod nano and i have some question
DO you think its worth the money??
Ill rate high
its not worth it
15/f. Theres this guy at my school who i've always had this crush on since like 8th grade. He's pretty popular, but at my school theres isnt really popular people theres just like the cool people who have alotta friends. anyway, hes always giving me these intense looks, like whenever i walk down the hallway i eat lunch in (in my school we can eat in the halls and he sits like 50 feet away) and he always looks up from whatever hes doing to look at me and he always smiles and every now and then he'll say something to me like, " i like your new haircut, shorter looks good on you". So does he like me or is it just like a friendly thing? And what can i do to get him to notice me?
ok well just nice guys are kinda like that and there are flirty guys,honestly, i think hes just being nice and chancesare he doesnt like you that way
sorry
What do i get my boyfriend of 3 and a half months for valentines day? i can't get him chocolates or a teddy bear. help me!!!!
i can't really spend anything. Would a card be enough since it's usually the guy who buys the gift?
do him
i'll make this short and simple.
16f never been kissed (i know pathetic loser)
likes boy
wants to make first move
but scared of being rejected
what if i mess up? what if he moves his head away? i have braces will it be harder to kiss? should i eat chocolate before hand so i taste good?
please help a sista out. i'll give you 5's.
well just dont worry, just maybe try to make sure that ya dont have bad breath, that could suck. just let it happen!
ps just cause your 16 and never been kissed doesnt mean that your a loser!
I am getting like pimple looking things on my hairline on my forehead. They look like acne but like its not on my forehead its for like where my hair grows/hairline. Is this zits or is it something else like lice bites or something like it.
ill rate high.
its just zits, the oils from your hiar make it easier to get em there.dont worry
My friend has being going out with her boyfriend for two years now - she's just turned 16 and he's just turned 18. They've always got on really well, and he's always been a really good boyfriend, but lately he's been pressuring her for sex.
She's really not comfortable with this and is happy to carry on as before, but he's been saying how selfish she is.
He also spoke to one of his girl mates about it (someone my friend doesn't even KNOW), and this girls said very nasty things about her.
How can I help my friend? What should she do?
ok as for everyone who is sayin dump him. loko at it from his point of view too. He hasnt gotten laid in 2 yrs! i asy kudos to the guy adn it sounds as if up until recently he has been very respectful of her. if she isnt ready to haev sex then she shouldnt and he should respect that and then decide if he is ready to wait forher. but you gota relize most 18yr old guys the only thign on thier mind is gettin laid. tehy should talk it out and decide for them selves and as for talkin to some girl about it, he must be friends with her an she clearly talks to you about the relationship so it seems a bit hipocritical to say that he cant say anthing to anyone.
ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks
underweight or not isnt really the issue, as long as your healthy and your body gets what is needs your fine.. it took quite some time beofre i reached a 100 pounds and i strugle at times to stay above. body process foods differntly, youcoudl havea high metabolisism or something. dont worry your body does what it needs to do.
Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...)
uh well theres are a few reasons why you shouldnt do it.
1. your questionign your judgement by posting this question,a good sign that its notn a good idea
2. your way to young! its not even legal.
3. there is so many guys out there, dont stop lookin now
4. say you say yes, then something stupid happens and you too break up, in a year or two from know youll feel like such an idiot for even considering.
well i had sex with use of condoms but after da first time he used soap n washed da dick but the second time before putting the condom he placed da dick in n ma periods r delaying ????????????/
sorry, would love to help but i dont speak idiot.
Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?
some guys are just happy to be gettin any, but its a to eacht hier own situation, some do some dont. do what ever is most comfortable for you
Heylo. I just got out of a 9month relationship about 3 days ago. I haven't eaten anything in 2 days and a half. I don't have any eating disorders. I'm already underweight as it is. I dont know what to do. I've tried eating but I get so nauseous. I've puked about 6 times already. I tried soup, ice cream, salads, hot meals..and it makes me so sick.
Any foods that you suggest I try? I'm starving..but the food I usually eat...taste HORRIBLE and i cant keep it in my stomach. How long can you go without eating (but you're drinking water) before you get really sick?
ok if it is because of the break up that your not eatin there is something there that you need to clear up, get some closure or what ever. but i do know very well what you mean with the not being able to eat.i expeirince this alot! i always find that very small portions and juices are good. but keep with juices like orange juice and shit so there is some nutrition there. things like orange julius work great too. see if you get any cravings soon and eat what you crave, you could even take vitamins so your body still gets some nutrtion. dont worry too much about it, you will start eating again. the longest i hvae gone is about 2 weeks, but chances are you will be fine soon enough! :)
I have a crush on this guy, actually it's more than a crush, I think I'm in love with him. We have been friends for 3 years, but I've always hoped we'd become more than friends. Well someone recently asked me what qualities about this man that I love attracted me to him. Then suddenly it dawned on me: He's exactly like my father!!! These are all the similarities:they both have dark hair and brown eyes, they both have really hairy chests, they are both very tight-wadded with there money, they are both workaholics, they both drink a lot of beer, they both are very flirtatious with woman, they are both humourous yet serious, they both have REALLY bad tempers, they both have been the boss of there own business, they both have been called an asshole behind there back, they both have been to court because of enemies made at work,they both are the oldest child, and they both have sex addictions (my dad cheated multiple times on my mom, and my crush admitted to me that he struggles with pornography.)
Well now that I've finally figured out why I'm so attracted to this man, it kind of grosses me out. Should I still have feelings for this man? Because in some perverted way it feels like I have feelings for my dad.
What should I do?
i see how that can seem gross but its pretty normal. girls usually hvae an attraction to men simillar to thier fathers, and men will atract to women like thier mothers, im not sure why but it happens to alot of people. dont feel weird or grossed out, but if it is a problem for you then just dont date that guy or anything.
My bf lives in another province because he has to work in the oil rigs. He works very long hours and has no internet so we hardly ever get to communicate. He has a cell but because he's working all the time it's hard to get a hold of him. The last time I talked to him was on Xmas Day.
Should I wait for him to make the next call? I was the one that phoned him on Xmas Day. I personally think he's being insensitive for never phoning.
I'll rate 5's!
hha ok well yes call him dont wory about it if you two want the relationship to work then you both need to communicate. dont be too clingy and dont let him get away with too much.. a month with no call would definetly piss me off. so call him.
Recently my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me,things were great so i was left confused as to why. I was fine with it and was actually told i looked happier. While we were together his ex-girlfriend was always around and all over him, i told him that this bothered me, and he told me he would talk to her about it . Things didn't change much, but he claimed they're good friends and that i should trust him . So i thought maybe i was over reacting and decided to just try blowing it off. It was monday when we broke up, and friday that i had a friend of mine,( this may get a bit confusing so read slowly) she is a friend of my ex boyfriend and can't stand his ex that i had a problem with, tell me that they had sex while we were together, that being the reason why we broke up . He wanted to get back together with her but she happens to have a boyfriend, and doesn't want to dump him . I was and am incredibly mad, i don't want to do anything stupid, but i would like to say something. Something that would hurt him more than...well getting kicked in the balls. Nothing catty, something that shows i am above this and make him feel incredibly immature. If you could post back with possible things i could say, that would be great. Thanks!
-ashley
.peace.
well im ina similar situation, but instead of ex girlfriends its just 2 chicks, adn believe me, hes being even more immature, so i understand what you want to do, its really hard commin up with somethign to say, and just somethign to make them feel the worst they have ever felt, i find it works goosd to play on insecurities, and just have him see that your hppy with out him and you dont need him. ( but a swift kick to the nuts is always a good thing)
best of luck
I am a once athiest who has now become agnostic and what I want to know is :
Why do you or why do you not believe in god?
Why should he/she/it be praised?
Why should I believe or not believe in god?
i dont believe in god, because he cant be proven adn the bible contradicts its self a lot. but i do think that something that gives people hope and that has set our moral standards is a god thing in its own right.
I dont think a good needs to be worshiped, if there is a god the fact that one believes deep i thier heart shoud be enough. there is no need to preach to others, religion should be a personal choice and not pushed on anyone
there is no reason to not or ot believe in god. Think of what you believe and follow that,or perhaps research other religions that maye suit you more.
Ok I am a 17 year old female from nova scotia, and there is this guy i work with and i kinda like but hes new to the business but hes really nice to me and we friendly flirt. Everythings great, but the problem is i think he may be 2 years younger then me (not 100% sure) haven't asked him lol, but is it weird that i like a younger guy? Is this wrong, kinda confuzed cause i just got crushed from this other guy i liked so i dunno what to think. Thanks, i rate all 5's
theres nothin wrong with likin younger guys, but most girls dont because they can be more immature and well age does bug some people. I know that i personally couldnt date a younger guy, but some guys are execptions too, so its best to go by personality and how you feel about them than to go by age.
I want to go on birth control but do not want to get my parents involoved, I am 16, if i go to my doctor will they keep it confidential if i ask them to or should i go to a clinic. I also want to get birth control properly, not just anything, something that fits me. Another thing is i heard that a pap test needs to be done after you have lost your virginity. Is this true? I would also like to get a pap test without involving my parents, is this possible since i will probably use my OHIP whihc my mother is ion control of. If i pay for it how much willl it be. Please help me i have been wondering about this for a while and cant put it off for any longer.??????
the docotor keeps verythign confidential, I had no problem with out gettin my parents involved, and after you have sex you are supposed to go in for a pap, to make sure everything is doin fine. as for the prices i dont know, im on allese and its 20$ a month for me. good luck! hope i helped!
I really want to make out with my boyfriend and I already know that he wants to also, but I am self consious of my braces, and I don't know what to do! I know that that sounds pathetic, but I really don't. All of my friends say that I shouldn't be, but i can't help it! How do I get over it and how do I "start" the making out?
whe your kissin some one im told that you cant tell that hey have braces, or at least they dont amke a differnece. so dont worry and as for the maiin out part.....just let it happen
how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help
try using cover up or a scarf, something around your neck, bulky necklaces, collars ya know stuff like that
My bf is a stubborn jerk, to be blunt. Well for starters he got mad at me the last time I phoned him becuase it was before 6 pm. He moved away to another province 6 weeks ago for a job. He hasnt phoned me or emailed me since then. I also suspect he was annoyed becuase I didnt sound more upset that he was moving.
Everyone has warned me about long distant relationships, and I used to think me and my bf could do it. But now I can see what they were warning me about.
I cannot believe that my bf hasnt even wished me a merry xmas yet! Or bought me a gift and sent it in the mail!!
So my question is should I wait for him to email me or should I?
email him, you honsetly dot know why he hasnt emailed you, so just email and say happy holidays or what not and then if he doesnt get to emailin you back, just consider it over. If he isnt goin to try to keep in touch with you then the realtionship will definetly fail. long distances are realy really hard and when its a holiday or something its worse. So make sure to keep comunications going, you both do. Best of luck and I hopee your bf comes around. merry christmas!