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should I wait for him to call?
My bf lives in another province because he has to work in the oil rigs. He works very long hours and has no internet so we hardly ever get to communicate. He has a cell but because he's working all the time it's hard to get a hold of him. The last time I talked to him was on Xmas Day.
Should I wait for him to make the next call? I was the one that phoned him on Xmas Day. I personally think he's being insensitive for never phoning.
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you pick the phone and call your lover. dont wait for him. like u said he is busy. so you call him. when you are busy you dont get a lot of time to do stuff and when you do you cant really do what you want bc you can forget so pick up your phone and call him.
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hha ok well yes call him dont wory about it if you two want the relationship to work then you both need to communicate. dont be too clingy and dont let him get away with too much.. a month with no call would definetly piss me off. so call him.
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Well, good and free communication are keys to any successful relationship, so I think you should give him a call. Don't be overly zealous about it, however. You need to make sure that you don't want to come across as being too clingy and/or jeopardise his job by placing too many unsolicited calls.
It's a fine line you'll have to walk between preserving your relationship and allowing your boyfriend some space with which to perform his duties. However, do ensure that you don't become *too* relaxed in your attitudes toward the subject of his balancing work and your relationship. Give him too much latitude and you'll find yourself playing second or even third fiddle to his career. That, by the way, is a bad thing if your aim is to further develop what you current share with him.
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