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My Recent Ex Boyfriend Cheated on Me


Question Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 5:54 pm

Recently my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me,things were great so i was left confused as to why. I was fine with it and was actually told i looked happier. While we were together his ex-girlfriend was always around and all over him, i told him that this bothered me, and he told me he would talk to her about it . Things didn't change much, but he claimed they're good friends and that i should trust him . So i thought maybe i was over reacting and decided to just try blowing it off. It was monday when we broke up, and friday that i had a friend of mine,( this may get a bit confusing so read slowly) she is a friend of my ex boyfriend and can't stand his ex that i had a problem with, tell me that they had sex while we were together, that being the reason why we broke up . He wanted to get back together with her but she happens to have a boyfriend, and doesn't want to dump him . I was and am incredibly mad, i don't want to do anything stupid, but i would like to say something. Something that would hurt him more than...well getting kicked in the balls. Nothing catty, something that shows i am above this and make him feel incredibly immature. If you could post back with possible things i could say, that would be great. Thanks!

-ashley

.peace.


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storageanddisposal answered Sunday January 15 2006, 8:16 pm:
Nothing you can say will prove you're above this. As a matter of fact, anything said on the subject will prove that you aren't. What does it take to be above this? Probably the ability to move on.

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redninja answered Sunday January 15 2006, 7:50 pm:
well im ina similar situation, but instead of ex girlfriends its just 2 chicks, adn believe me, hes being even more immature, so i understand what you want to do, its really hard commin up with somethign to say, and just somethign to make them feel the worst they have ever felt, i find it works goosd to play on insecurities, and just have him see that your hppy with out him and you dont need him. ( but a swift kick to the nuts is always a good thing)

best of luck <3

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