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Q: Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?
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I think you should stay with steve. He sounds like a really great guy and Johnta is probably acting like this because he now relizes that he lost someone really great and they might never come back. It is only a phase he is going through. Stay with steve.
-Katie-
.....if you need anything else just ask....me!
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Q: ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?
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What the, it shouldn't matter if you go to church or not.... unless, her parents said that she can't see you unless you go to church more then you do now. Church doesn't hurt you so just try to go every saturday or wednsdays they have church then also. Good luck
-Katie-
Plus just tell her how you feel about her.... it shouldn't matter if you go to church or not you like the girl and she likes you.
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Q: I'm on the birth control shot and now my period is really screwed up..It will start and stop and start and stop and it's never regular..Is that a normal side effect?
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Yeah my friend, her name is Madeline, she is on that also and her period is screwed up just the same. It is normal.
-Katie-
Don't worry....
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Q: Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
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No defenitly nothing is wrong there. Your just not ready. Never rush yourself to do something you don't want to do right then and there. I am a 14 year old girl and when i had my first kiss i was 14 and it was about 4 months ago and it wasn't anything great because i did it to make my boyfriend happy with me and i still wish i would of waited because now i have to live my life knowing i had my first kiss with the boy i really didn't love and he cheated on me. So it is a good thing your waiting. When your ready you will know. Good luck
-Katie-
...if you need ANYTHING anything at all..... i can help you.
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Q: how long should a tampon be worn? I have herd that they should be worn for 4 to 8 hours but my friend told me that as long as you change it within 24 hours you'll be good. Which is the true answer?
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I change mine every 2 to 4 hours and so does most of my friends. I think if you are going a good bit then change it 2 to 4 hours but if it isn't alot then around 4 to 8. Never 24 but i think that is to long and it might case TSS i think.
-Katie-
....If you need anything else just ask me!
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Q: Is it ok to not want to kiss your boyfriend? I mean, I do want to but not just yet, we've been going out for a week is that ok?
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Yeah it is normal your just not ready right this second. I think he will understand.... no need to worry because when your ready you will know!
Good luck
-Katie
....If you need anything just ask!
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Q: Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do???
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I think you did the right thing! Just explain to your girlly friend what you just told me! No harm should be done if you do this. She should understand where your coming from. Good Luck!
-Katie-
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Q: Okay I am 13/f and I have never kissed a boy before. Well my boyfriend and I were playing Truth or Dare online and I dared him to kiss me. He said he would but he would have to do it between two of the buildings at school so we don't get a PDA refferal. This is not what I am asking advice on. I am nervous to kiss him because like I said I have never kissed a boy before. I need to know like what to do, how to do it, how to keep myself from being nervous and stuff like that thanx.~*Never Been Kissed*~p.s.I rate, good.
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okay well hunny my first time i got kissed was nothing.... i was nervous and he grabbed my face and kissed me. There is nothing to it. your first kiss should be a closed mouth one. If you need anymore help i have a post on myjellybean.com it is about kissing. You can go there and it tell you everything to do. I hope you have a good time!
-Katie
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Q: my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. He's a great guy, dont get me wrong, and i love him... but we have been together a long time and the cracks are starting to show. To top it off there is another guy i am interested in, and it has been heating up slowly for a while now with him. I am really attracted to him. I dont know whether to risk it and get with the new guy, or stay with what i know...what do i do?
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Okay you say you love your boyfriend.... then stay with him, because if you love him and he loves you then you two can get through little "CRACKS" together and survive! You know everything almost about your boyfriend and you love him so i am voting for you to stay with him. If you stay with your boyfriend then talk to him about you being worried that you two are growing apart and you don't want that to happen. If he is anything like my man then he will not listen that easily so all you have to do is through him on the ground and sit on him and talk to him that way! lol.... good luck
-Katie
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Q: I usually never ask this but i need people to be my friends like their email addresses and your name so i can add you to my list plus your AIM screen name! Mine is
Katelyn (name)
katelynmmardis@yahoo.com (email)
blondepreppy7303 (screen name)
thanks!
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Q: I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox
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Well I think you can do HEAD with braces on! It is possible. Just be careful that you don't get anything caught! Good luck
-Katie
Oh and for the wires use your hand or fingers to cover them when your going on with your thing!
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Q: Ok so I just found my boyfriend i guess well I found is coulmn , and he said he was single, he just broke HEART Im crying now! And I don't think he wants to talk to me now this is for the guys , what makes a guy want a gurl or whatdo guys look in gurls so I can find someone??
THis is JJ15 PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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Okay well i know this is for the guys but i am going to answer also even though i am a girl! Maybe it wasn't your boyfriend don't jump to conclusions! It could be someone with the same name or something! And one if you want a guy to notice you, just be yourself that is what most guys like!
-Katie
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Q: i was wondering if me and my bestfriend should go out. we liked eachother befour but we didnt know we liked eachother.Are friendship is unstopable.mybe it could work out as boyfriend and girl friend.could it?
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Yeah it is possible... but i went out with my bestfriend and we lasted for 4 years as boyfriend and girlfriend. So of course it is possible! As long as you both have possitive thoughts about you twos realationship as boyfriend and girlfriend then there shouldn't be any problems! Since you two are bestfriends then that means you both have ALOT in common so that is also a plus! Good Luck
-Katie
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Q: Hey, This isn't a question, I just wanted to make sure that you all knew that you could come and talk to me about anything. Don't be shy, If you don't want your problem on the boards, it's fine if you IM me or E-Mail me! (Hotchik367@aol.com)
*KORI*
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Okay we will do that if we have a problem and we don't want it on the boards!
-Katie
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Q: I'm a 14 year old girl, and I really, REALLY wish I was a guy. If i were a boy, i would be gay. But i think SO much about being a gay guy. I really want to be one! Am i a gender-bender? what can I do? Please help!
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Try wearing guy clothes they are much more comfortable then our clothes but i am preppy or a girly girl so i wear the uncomfortable clothes but with you if you really want to be a boy then go for it. Don't let anyone stop you! Do whatever you feel is right for you!
-Katie
Good luck with that!
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Q: i have these weird spots on my boobs and tummy their nto goign away wtf am i suppose to do?!!! im only fucking 13!!! HELP PLEASEEE!!! & i refuse to tel my mom or doctor... PLEASE HELP ME!!
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Well maybe acne on your boobs! But if not then i would tell the doctor because it might be a sign of cancer or something serious! Go to your mom right now and tell her. Your don't want it to be serious so tell her NOW!
-Katie
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Q: Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not
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I would go out with him if i were you! If you like him then go for it. It is your decition and not anyone elses! Good luck
-Katie
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Q: What does it mean when your cherry pops and does it hurt?
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Okay hun when your cherry pops it means you are not a virgin anymore because of the dick or finger that was inside of you broke the skin that kept you a virgin. And the only way it hurts is if your boyfriend has a big dick and it goes in your vigina and then it will hurt. If your cherry pops then you might bleed alittle. But thats all!
-Katie
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Q: I'm almost 15 years old, and I'm female. I've always been very open about myself. Recently i found myself attracted to both boys AND girls, and I want to be open about it. My parents are very supportive, but how do i make the bashers at school leave me alone, if and when i DO come out to them? I want to show GAY PRIDE!
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Maybe your just going through a phase most girls do.... but if you really are bi sexual then you shouldn't hide it! Scream it loud and say it proud that your Bi! As long as your happy that is all that matters! And as for them the "bashers" at your school if they give you a problem then tell them to screw themselves because your who you are!
-Katie
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Q: How do you know if a guy likes you and if he/you does like him how do you get him to notcie you??
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Hun just flirt with him and then he will get the hint that you like him! Touch his arm a lil and smile alot! Key point don't be NERVOUS! Never good if you are! Good luck with your man!
-Katie
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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.
ABC's about ME!
Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: Mount Pleasant High School Student Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 2, 2004 Answers: 224 Last Update: November 1, 2005 Visitors: 16161
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