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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. I've kissed him before but I've never made out with him. I want to soooooo bad but everytime I get the chance I get scared and wuss out. I've never made out with anyone before and I'm really not sure on how to do it. Any advice? (link)
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Just go with the flow, there is nothing to be scared of. You are only a bad kisser if you are all sloppy or you don't move your tounge at all. Don't worry about it!
-Brianna
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
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You can always ask her what she wants. I would give her like 20 bucks or something. Then, she could pick what she wants to spend it on and you won't have to worry about it!
-Brianna
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I'm really against drugs. But no matter where I go, there's always people doing them. One of my (old) best friends promised me that he would never do drugs, and now he's a total stoner, and we never hang out anymore. I feel like he thinks I'm not good enough. I don't know what I need to do to escape from this, but it feels like there's no one I can turn to, because even the people that I trust most have tried them. I feel alone..becuase I know I will never try them. (link)
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Well I am glad that you are smart enough not to do them. That really sucks to hear about one of your best friends becoming a stoner. If you still want to be friends with him, talk to him about it. Maybe you can help him. Don't feel alone, there are alot of people that haven't tried drugs. If it bothers you that bad, you should try to find friends that are don't do them! Then you won't feel alone.
-Brianna
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Hi im Jess i am 13 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the greatest. Well sometimes we have these little fights over something stupid and we usually brake up cause we were imature. Anyways now that we sorta grew up i was wondering after getting in a fight what can we do just to get past this problem so it wont result to an other brake up? plz help i rate good.
~From Jess~
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Try not to have fights. If you both feel a different way about something, don't make it into a big controversy, just let it go. When you are fighting, little or big fight, just try to end it and don't keep going on with it! GOod luck.
-Brianna
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okay ill make this short:
this kid i was best friends with last year liked me and i liked him and so everyone knew and next year we still liked eachotehr yada yada yada he told me he wanted to ask me out but he was definately too afraid so he kept making me wait, a couple months went by when he told my friend he gives up, i was like wtf so he told everyone he didnt like me.. we stopped talking for the rest of the year, well now we just talk online and stuff and he thought i hated him which i guess i do but i still like him so much and after all he put me through ( which i didnt mention half of it) i still want to go out with him, but everyone will think im freaking insane and he doesnt know how to be a good boyfriend cuz hes like afraid of me.
well im thinking of asking him to take me to the semi, but we DO NOT talk in school cuz he makes things so awkward, so theres no way thats happening, there are plenty of oppurtunities for us to talk, where we used to, but we just cant do it theres no way
how am i supossed to aks him to the semi / win him back (link)
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Okay well what's the difference if you go to the semi with him or go out with him. People will think you are insane either way. Lol, if you do like him tell him that. He probably still likes you too. But what I want to know is how could you two go to the semi together but not talk anywhere but online?
-Brianna
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ok i like this guy, but my friend likes him too. but the problem is that everytime i like a guy she likes him too. its so annoying. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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Ugh, that sucks! Tell her that you don't like how every time you like someone, she does too. Maybe she just wants to be like you and she looks up to you! Lol, tell her it annoys you. She will understand.
-Brianna
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i am getting pro-active because everyone says its so amazing haha and nothing seems to get rid of my acne but if it works for me.. and gets rid of my acne would i be able to discontinue using it after awhile? because i dont want to be so dependent on it.
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Yea you would be able to discontinue using it after your acne is gone. It works good too!
-Brianna
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Well I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for my to find good, ok-priced bras..Victoria's Secret is cool but it's too expensive! But anyway, where can I buy a bra that I can wear with tank tops...don't say strapless because they'll fall right off of me! Also, don't say walmart or target..:-\ Just tell me what kind of bra I should wear! Thanks (link)
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Why not walmart or target, they have those bras with the half sizes and they are only like 15 dollars. You can always wear a sportsbra too!
-Brianna
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Hello!!! My friend and I have been friends for about 4 years now. Lately she has been acting shady and not herself. I dont think I did anything wrong to her and I dont know what to do?!? Should I just ask her whats up or what?! By the way .... u are veryyyyyyyy pretty!! =)
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Maybe she is just in a bad mood lately. If I were you, I would talk to her about the whole thing. Something could be bothering her! Good luck and thank you very much!
-Brianna
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Ok. Im 13/f btw. Well let me start from the beginging. Last year I liked this kid Ryan. I liked him the whole 7th grade year. Everyone knew. He never really said he liked me but he did flirt and he never said he didn't like me. Then I din't see him that much over the summer and I kinda stopped liking him for a little bit. Now I'm in 8th grade and I ended up being in his twin brother, Brendans, class. And i guess I kinda started liking him. Then my friend Jenny told us she likes Ryan. Then there was this big thing where I was mad at my friend Chelsea for starting to like Brendan after completely crying over some other kid. But then I just said 'Brendan don't like me n e ways so why should i care'. So me and Chelsea are cool. She still likes Brendan and I don't care. Thing is, we were playing truth or dare and Ryan was dared to kiss me. Which he did. So yeah I like Ryan again. And am positive I don't like Brendan because he acts so stupid and ghetto all the time. (Ryan doesn't). Basicly the thing is Jenny. She likes Ryan. But i swear Jenny is the shyest person ever! She don't even talk to him or flirt or any thing ya know? So I don't know if I hould even like him knowing she does. But she doesnt talk to him! PLEASE HELP ME! I am so confused! :( (link)
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You can like anyone you want. But remember never let a guy ruin your friendship. Friends will always be there, guys won't. A little confusing story, but hope I have helped.
-Brianna
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Me and this guy are thinking about going out in a week. He has a lot going on, and wants to make sure he'll have plenty of time for me. I have a friend, SC, and we hang all the time. I think she might like "Eddy" but I'mm not sure. She makes fun of him sometimes, but gets jealous when i walk, talk, or hang out with him. He asked if she would get mad if we went out, and I'm afraid now she will. Should I go out with "eddy" anyways, and hope she gets over it? Cause i really really like him, but i really love my friends most the time... Should I come right out and ask her? I rate high. thank you! (link)
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Talk to her about the whole situation and explain to her that you really do like him. I would go out with him! She will get over it, and if she doesn't what kind of friend is that. She makes fun of him anyways, so that is saying she doesn't really like him and she is deff. jealous. She should be happy for you!
-Brianna
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ok, when your birthday comes, does the age on your column automatically change? thx (link)
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Nope, that you have to do yourself!
-Brianna
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Sometimes I think that dancing rules my life. I take a very rigid, strict class where everything must be "just so" and I can't do anything when I want to. One day when my friend tied a friendship bracelet around my wrist, my dance teacher saw it and personally cut it off my wrist so I wouldn't wear it again. Also, when I want to try a sport like soccer or basketball, my dance teacher is the one who refuses to let me, saying that I will twist something or break something and I wouldn't be able to dance. My parents just stand around saying "Listen to what she says, dear. Listen." Now I really want to get some gentle highlights in my hair and my parents said yes at first, but they changed their minds when my dance teacher said no. What do I do? (link)
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Ugh, who is she to rule your life like that. I would go to a different dance school or whatever or just quit. She sounds like a bitch.
-Brianna
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okay well like 2 weeks ago i was in school and my friend asked the kid i liked to sit with me at this assembly because i gave him a dollar.. and he acctually said that to him, so he said he thought i was different but im just a bitch who bribed people with money.. but then the next day my friend pushed me to go talk to him, so i told him what happened and he said he already knew because the kid who asked him had told him everything, and he said they only reason he said that was because he was scared and he wanted to work up some self esteem because he couldnt find the courage to ask me to sit with him.. and then he asked if we could walk to lunch together so we did, and we sat together during class. So then the day after that he accidently told me he was moving, and i didnt talk to him for a while, and then he told me the only reason he didnt tell me was because he didnt know how to, so we talked again. Then he wrote me a letter and it said how he doesnt think he can be with me for the remaining 2 weeks he's here because he cant give me the attention he should give his girlfriend and he thinks he can give me the right amount of attention for what we will be. Then he told me to go out with my best friend. And when i told my 2 best friends, ((ones a boy, ones a girl)) they both agreed. So i went to the dance with him, and i brought him on vacation with me my brother, my grandparents, my brothers friend, and a bunch of family friends. But i don't really feel right. I mean, i love him, but i feel like a player because i didnt even wait 2 days after i broke up with my boyfriend. Is this normal or should i not feel this way? (link)
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No you aren't a player, he broke up with you. You didn't dump him. Don't feel bad!
-Brianna
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okay well i'm going on a graduation trip in a couple weeks, and i'm kinda having 2 little problems, lol. i'm a teenager, a girl. we bunk with 3 other girls if that helps. anyway..
1. I don't think I'll be able to fall asleep lmao because if I do, I can be a very heavy sleeper and I'm not sure if I trust anyone to wake me up. I don't want to be tired the next day, should I bring like Starbucks double shot expressos or something haha?
2. I have a weird fear of rollercoasters, and I don't know why. I think it might be because I'm afraid of something going wrong. Should I just go on one .. or what ? lol I just don't know, I don't want to be all screaming and embarrass myself either.
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1. Bring an alarm clock with you
2. Don't go on it if you don't want to. Or, conquer your fear and go on them, they are fun!
-Brianna
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when i go to get a physical for cheerleading, nexy year willl they check to see if im a virgin..and if they do are they alowed to tell my parents???
thanx lotz!!!!
xoxox
leila (link)
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Unless you are going to a gynecologist, they won't and can't check to see if your a virgin. They wouldn't be able to tell your parents anyway. That stuff is kept confidential!
-Brianna
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I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone? (link)
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Do it in your room or when no ones home.
-Brianna
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend broke up last night. I'm actually kind of happy, cause now I can see what a jerk he was, but here's what happened: I'm kind of upset over something that's happening at my house and only my best friend and my mom knows, and he kept on going, what's wrong? please tell me. And I told him I wasn't ready to tell him, and he wouldn't stop bothering me about it, and started saying things like, you won't tell your bf a damn thing and that I was pissing him off. So we just broke up. I really felt like he was pressuring me and I didn't want to tell him. And another thing, when we were going out, he would always say he loved me, and I would think that he didn't, because first off, we were online bf/gf, but he only lives an 1 away and we were gonna meet at the movies real soon, but like, how can he love me when we've never even met? And second, we only went out for a month, and I remember him saying that the first day we went out and I totally think he was abusing it. My question is, was he being a jerk and broke up with me for no reason, or should I have told him "just cause we're going out"? And what do you think about him saying I love you. Because I think that if he did, he would have given me the time and waited until I was ready to tell him. And today, I got online and he had "TASHA" with a winky face next to it. Well, he sure has moved on. What do you think about it? Thanks, I'll rate if good.
x3 Erin (link)
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Okay, you deff. do not have to tell anyone anything you don't want to, especially someone that you have never even met in real life! Him saying the I love you thing, yea he was abusing it. You don't love someone the first time you talk to them, lol. He would've deffinetly not pressured you into telling him something personal and would've waited for you to tell him. I think he has moved on, or he is trying to make you jealous and "tasha" may not be real. Either way, he wasn't a good boyfriend. Don't worry about it!
-Brianna
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HI! Ok my birthday party is coming up and i am wondering what is some good island music like Jimmy Buffett and who else? anyother good songs?
please help!!!!
I RATE!
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If you like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain, if your not into yoga, if you have half a brain. If you like making love at midnight.. lol and beach boys
-Brianna
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random question... but im like starving right now!! anybody know any good ideas for some food i could eat?!~ lol (link)
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Macaroni and cheese, cookies, grapefruits, chips, ice cream, cucumbers, muffins. Lol
-Brianna
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