about

My name's Megan :) I'm 16 years old and live in Kansas...not on a farm though. I'm a junior in high school. I'm a varsity cheerleader and have cheered at my school since my freshman year. I did competitive cheer ages 12-15. I'm a freshmen mentor at school as well as in a peer education group for positive body image called REbeL. I'm also involved in National Spanish Honors Society. When I was 10 I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder and still take meds to control it. I'm really mature for my age but also love to have fun! I LOVE country music, my friends, meeting new people, and driving around in my mazda 3. Feel free to ask me anything :)

advice

Does anyone know where I can get music videos to put in my myspace or to just watch online for free with no downloads?

thanks =)

youtube.com has so many videos. theyre incredible. try that for sure! ♥ megan

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does anyone know how many pictures they are now allowing you to have on myspace? i know they changed it awhile ago from 12 to 14, but i saw this one girl that had more than 14. so does anyone know the exact amount you can have? thanks

you can have up to 16. ♥ megan

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I need help deciding between 2 pictures to send in for an audition. I know these are basically exactly the same, but I can't pick the better one.

Help?

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee.jpg

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee2.jpg

i like the first one better. ♥ megan

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I'm moving in a week and we're getting new cell phones/plans. What is the best phone I can gete for under $250? Any deals you've seen with certain providers? I mostly call & text but pics & videos wouldn't hurt. Durability is always a plus. I want a really good phone so any opinions are appreciated. I'm sixteen & a female.

a motorola razr with the verizon service provider is what i have. it's really easy to use and isn't expensive! it has video and pics too. the pictures have a really great quality to them too! hope this helped. ♥ megan

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what exactly happens when you get an anxiety attack?

alright. i'm not gonna go to some website and tell you what they say because those things don't always happen. whenever i have a panic attack, i feel like i'm not really there. my voice seems really loud to me and like im going to fall or like my head is going back and forth. my head starts to hurt and my whole body starts to tingle, especially my hands. my heart starts racing and it makes my ears ring to hear anyone talk. everything suddenly seems so much louder. i also feel like im floating and that things such as stepping, are a lot softer and lighter. i can also start to sweat or figgit because im so nervous. it's one of the worst feelings ever! ♥ megan

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is there a such thing as Post Menstrual Syndrome haha instead of Pre Menstrual cuz im always like tired and kinda cranky the week after.

yes. ♥ megan

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Is there any such thing as like a social disorder? what i mean by that is, sometimes at school or when im hanging out with friends, in a way i dont feel motivated to interact. its hard to explain. in my head i have all these things to say but something inside makes me just be quiet. its really starting to bother me and affect my life, any info/advice would be awesome!

yes, there's social anxiety disorder. theres medication that you can take for it, such as zoloft. you can go to a therapist and talk to them about it and they can figure out if thats what it is and then prescribe you some medication. ♥ megan

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I have horrible anxiety in many areas and im sure i have an anxiety disorder. i'll end up talking to a dr about this, but i was wondering; what medications can the prescribe someone under 18 for anxiety disorders? Like, i'm thinking valium and lots of drugs like that are for 18 and over. Anyone know what they prescribe to teens? (i'll be 17 next month)

i'll tell yah, i have very severe anxiety disorder and have tried lots of different medication. i DEFFINATLY say that paxil and xanax work very very well. hope this helped! ♥ megan

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ok, this might seem like a weird question. But I just told my mum about this problem i'm having and she got really worried and told me i have to stop at once. it got me a bit freaked that i might have some mental problem or something, my mum just said so...
So, here's the problem: Every single thing i read and every single word i look at i have to read backwards. My mind just tells me to read it backwards and i can't stop. No matter how hard i try i can't stop myself. I know, I know, this is probably really stupid, but just thought id ask.

thanks

something like this can be some sort of dyslexia. even though you can spell and stuff, this may still me just one symthom of it. ♥ megan

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i seriously need help. like i need someone to talk about stuff with. should i go to one of those counselors that you can tell all your problems in confidence with or is that not worth it?

i say that going to a counseler or therapist is worth it, if you can find the right one for you. i have severe anxiety disorder [panic attacks] and i go to a therapist for that. it took me about 5 different trys for the right therapist but now that i have one that i feel comfortable talking to and that really gets me, it helps alot. i say, when you find the right one, it will deffinatly be worth it! ♥ megan

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i was talking to a guy that i like and i was like yeah me and my bf broke up. hes like thanks for the tip.


what did he mean by that? i didnt want to feel stupid and ask him.

in my opinion, i think that he meant that you were kind of hinting that he would ask you out. kind of almost being sarcastic, if that makes sense. basically, i think he thought that you were wanting him to know and be aware of it. hope this helps a bit. ♥ megan

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what is the best brand for hair care products? [i.e. paul mitchell, samy, john frieda etc]

in my opinion, i think that bedhead is the best brand. paul mitchell is also good. ♥ megan

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Okay, so I have acne and obviously I have to cover it up so I always put on foundation and coverup.. but it doesnt make my skin look good.. so I've noticed that without like foundation my skin looks better but is there any like toner or anything that will make my face less red and get rid of those gay acne scars that are left? Thanks for any advice.

well i have a skin condition that makess my face have bumps on it that turn red and what i do it first i use almay foundation. then after that i use proactiv spot blemish treatment [its a spot coverup]. it has lots of medication in it so it will work during the day while covering up too. then, i use neautrogena blotting powder. that evens out my skin and makes the foundation alot less noticeable. as for the acne scars, they will fade with time. hope this helped! ♥ megan

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http://picnic.ciao.com/uk/41094.jpg


please look at her eyes .
do you know what i can do to have small eyes like dat? like really small cute eyes like all you can see is black lol thanx

lots of blaack eyelinerr. kind of like a smokeyy eyed look. but yah..LOTS of eyelinerrr.
♥ megan

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So I have a 22 year old brother. I have no clue what to get him for Christmas. I've asked him many times what he wants and he says any book or cd. He enjoys reading and is in his own band. So any ideas on books or cds would be amazing! or anything else a 22 year old boy might like!

well a baseball cap of his favorite team is always a good idea. if he likes bands like taking back sunday, hawthorne heights, five times august, avenged sevenfold, secondhand serenade or other bands like that then those are good. harry potter is a good series if he would like something like that. who doesn't like harry?! sorry if this wasn't much help!
♥ megan

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hey... ok so there is a really good friend but it feels lie she is leaving me outt. what do i do? how do i reat? and and most importatnly what do i say??

well just confront her about it. tell her that you feel like she's been paying attention to other people more than you. if she's a real friend then she won't get upset about it. she'll try to work it out.
♥ megan

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I need a new aim screen name and I cant think of anything to creative. My name is Abigail, My middle name is Lee, My fav. color is blue. I would like to incorporate broken into somehow.help me please

x3ablee
abix3gailx3lee
x3BLUEabigail
aleex3
♥ megan

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what kind of accessories would look good with this shirt?
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90094&navroot=clearance&productId=0373_8253

i dont want to leave it plain, but i have no idea what to pair it up with

aw very cutee! i say you put a long beaded black boho type necklace with it. you can find it at claire's or icing by claires.
♥ megan

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