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okay im 13 and so are my 2 friends. and we`re girls haha. and we have no idea what to be.. what are some creative, tteenish cheapish costumes ? THANKS! =]
First off, let me say HAPPY HALLOWEEN! I hope you and your friends have a awesome time. here's some idea's...
1. Wear a strapless shirt and a mini skirt (preferably black). Wear high heels shoes. Crimp your hair. Put on lots of make-up.
2. Barbie - You know how to pull this one off.
3. Angel - Get some wings, tons of glitter & a halo.
4. Witch - broom, hat, moles, green face makeup, black dress
5. Ghost - white bed sheet (that's how we did it when I was a kid lol
Is the date rape pill easy to find? Can you find it in a pharmacy shop or something? Can I understand when the pill is starting to kick in?
How do I avoid it if consumed and If I do get date raped, will I know the next day?
Can you fake it? Can you act as if you did take the pill? How do people act when they take it?
I also heared that there is this other pill that relaxes your muscles and makes it hard to move even though you have your conience.
Known as a "roofies" or rohypnol, the date rape pill is a sedative 10 times more powerful than Valium. This small, tasteless, odorless pill dissolves easily in a drink, works in about 10 minutes, and costs about $1.50 each. Someone who has taken a date rape pill becomes very disoriented and then passes out, with no or very little memory of what happened.
Rapists are using the date rape pill to entrap women. They bring a woman a drink having dropped the pill in it. Or they put the pill in the drink or food when the woman leaves the table. When the woman becomes ill or disoriented, the rapist "very kindly" helps her leave, taking her home or to some other place. Sometimes he reads her address on her drivers licence. Then, while she is semi-conscious or passed out, he rapes her. The woman wakes up the next day, and is not able to explain what happened.
When going out, if you have a friend you trust with you, you are safer.
Watch out for your friends and make sure they are watching out for you when you are places with lots of people or people you don't know and trust like at a party or in a coffeehouse or in a bar.
Be aware. Now that you know about the date rape pill, it is your responsibility to watch out for yourself and people you care about.
Don't go home with someone you don't both know and trust and don't accept drinks when you are alone at a house where there are strangers (like at a party).
Watch when someone pours you a drink. Better yet, get your own drink.
Make an agreement ahead of time with friends that you won't let each other leave with people you haven't planned to go with.
Don't leave your drink or food unattended at a party or coffeehouse or lounge or anywhere else that people you don't know and trust could have access to it.
Hope this helps you get a better understanding. Some Info pulled from: www.safetygearhq.com/date-rape-drug-rohypnol.htm
if i go to a cheap nail place, how much does it usually cost to get fake nails put on? and also around how long do they stay on?
It cost $25-$30 depending where you go. Also, they can last up to a month in good conidition if you take care of them such as NOT washin' dishes lol.. If there is a Community College nearby you, you can get a student to do it for $10.00 and they do a pretty good job.
hey i need some quote pages where i can find things to go in my profile
heres some examples...
RECIPE FOR DRAMA
1 cup of gossip
1/4 tablespoon of rumors
&& a dash of jealousy
god made us best friends 'cause no mom could handle us as sisters
tmobile is jealous because my sidekicks are better
quotes like that
i rate for good websites =]
http://profileglam.com/ (click on pixel quotes & quote images)
You could do something like what I have on my advice page (click my name) and you'll see my pic and up under it read what I got-you could do something like that.
http://firehotquotes.bolt2.com/
Hope this helps..
-Marine Wife
I have a mom tht is a control/protect freak she always wants things her way. I have to have my room the way she wants it my computer has to face the way she wants it and she always says when im with her im on her time and the problem is tht she always wants me to do her stuff. I run to the car, get the mail, take out the garbage(sumtimes), and do everything to care of my dog and she still doesn't appreciate me. She is way over protective. She doesn't like me goin places without her or my dad even tho i end up goin it usually takes hours of fighting and begging and crying. I am tired of her controling my life especially my room. I want my room to be MY room not hers. I like my room messy cuz then it feels like i actually live in it. What should I do? I dnt know how to talk to her cuz she always blocks me off but she never blocks my brother off when he is having problems. I dont get it she always says i have to wait till my dad comes home to discuss what is happeneing When i try to talk to her she takes things away and says she is in control!!!! i hate it she always says i dnt understand anything and i never will. When my brother calls me slut, dunce,bitch, etc. and i tell her she doesn't do anyting about it she just tells him not to and when i do those sort of things she punishes me. i cnt take it anymore HELP MEE!!
God...this situation sucks big time. Hmmm where do I begin? First off you not on "her time" she's your mother, not a timeclock..tell her that. Also if she won't listen to you..write her a letter and slip it under her door when she goes to sleep. Let her know how you feel and that you understand why she is being protective and all but she is smothering you. As far as the room goes, I understand that she wants it clean, there's not much you can do about that..it is her house. BUT it is also your room. So go ahead and NEATLY move things around the way YOU like them. The worst she can do is move the furniture back and then when she does that-you move it right back the way you had it. Parents can be so lame sometimes. I remember being 16 and I always stayed in my room- I loved it. My mom hated it and sometimes I would come home from school and she would have moved my room around back the way she wanted it and when she left, I moved it right back the way I had it...2 weeks later she did it again so this is what I did... I went in her room and moved everything around lmao and when she got home she was mad! She said what the hell! lol and I said well you moved MY room around the way YOU wanted it so I moved YOUR room around the way I wanted it. Yea she never touched my furniture after that. LOL Now, I'm not telling you to go and do that because of course I dont know what kind of temper your parent's have ha ha so just stick to making your room the way you want it. Start small with things and work your way from there.
-Marine Wife
I heard that gynos can tell whether u've had sex or not. Could they know if you masturbate? (Finger yourself)? And if so, will they inform the parents
They can only tell if your "cherry" has been broken. But don't worry, The Dr's take a oath to protect there patients and they have to obide by the law which is the patient privacy privelege act. Basically it means IF he were to tell your parents anyting you did not want them to know, you could sue him for everything he's got and he would lose his licence to be a Dr. No Doctor would risk that. So no matter what you tell him, it stays right in that room. Hope this helps ease your mind a little.
-Marine Wife
How do you get a golden glow in two weeks? I just got a homecoming dress this weekend and it is black. It looks okay on me right now, but it would look much better if I had a little bit more color. Don't get me wrong: I do NOT want a deep tan or heavy bronzing. Just a nice, sun-kissed look. I was thinking about going to a tanning bed but I wasn't sure if I could get much color in two weeks since it would be my first time going to one of those. Please don't sugguest a self tanner unless you have personally used that brand. Most self tanners look fake and orange. Thanks in advance!
I went to the tanning bed (1st timer) when my husband got deployed for 2 weeks on a training mission. I wanted to go tanning to look sexy for when he got back.. It works. for the first week dont stay in the bed for more than 10 minutes and keep rotating while your in there so you get tanned evenly and dont burn. After 2 weeks I was pretty dark but then again I was going for the full 20 minutes everyday.
P.S. Wait 1 hour before taking a shower after tanning to give it time to absorb in your skin (as I was told) & make sure you use some kind of tanning bed lotion-it really does make all the difference.
-Marine Wife
Whenever me and my boyfriend have sex i dont feel anything.. like no pleasure or anything..
and no matter what we do nothing seems to work.. whats wrong with me? :S
Ok we need to clarify something here.. When you say you don't feel nothing, are you saying not only do you not feel pleasure, but you do not even feel him inside you?
If your just not feeling any pleasure..there is something you can do about that. However, there is a large number of women that can not orgasam from sex and if that's the case for you, don't feel bad.. it's not your fault and there's nothing wrong with you. One night when your feelin' frisky and alone, try to please yourself, find something that works for you. the problem may be that your G-spot (which makes you feel pleasure) is just not being stimulated. It's hard for a man to try to please you if you don't know even know how to please yourself or at least find out what makes you feel some pleasure. The woman's G-spot is located inside the vagina and there is another G-spot at the top part of your vagina just as the lips start (if ya' get my drift) there is a small "bump" located there and when arroused, it can get to be the size of a small pearl.
Now, if what you were saying is you can't even feel him in you..then you have a problem...He just isn't big enough for you..If you feel comfortable enough talking to him, suggest you using a vibrator when yall do have sex so you can get pleasure from that-then everyone's happy.
Hope this helps some
-Marine Wife
how long do you have to wait to take the pregnancy test for it to work after you have sex? how lnog?
The best pregnancy test can only tell you 4 days before your next period should come. There isn't another way to find out any sooner other than going to the Dr and taking a blood test. Sorry- I know it sucks havin' to wait.
-Marine Wife
i chose to ask you this question, becuase from seeing answers youve given- it seems like you really might be able to help me with my problem. well, i was going out with this guy for almost a year and a half. granted, im only 16, so that was a long time for me. his family has known myne since before we were born, and everythnig always jsut seemed right in place. i always thought that he was the one that i would spend the rest of my life with, and for a while there, he told me the same thing. however, i got pregnant five months ago, and althoguh our families are fully aware and trying their best to help us out, things have gotten pretty shaky becuase of this baby. at first, my boyfriend was all about helping me out, and always saying 'its okay, everythnig will turn out okay', he was always there to motivate me. but we had been arguing a lot lately, and for one, i had accused him of cheating several times- i dont have proof that he cheated, but it was one of those womanly instinct things, ya know? i just had a huge feeling tht he was drifting away from me. and after every time we'd argue, we'd make up and be fine for a few days, then itd start all over again. i blamed the stress on the fact that we were pregnant and had a lot to worry about. that we were jsut frustrated. well, one night, completely out of the blue- about a week ago, maybe- he called me up and basically told me that i didnt make him happy anymore,and that there was no way he could be with me and marry me. i had no choice but to be mad at him- i dont want things to be like that for my baby. we got into a HUGE fight, and he brought back things of my past. (id been with a 31 year old man before, and i told him about it- ever since then he holds it over my head all the time ) he sed ever since i told him about that i havent made him happy. i couldnt believe that he was jsut now saying this, after i told him that like, almost a year ago. i knew it upset him, but there was nothing i could do about it- it all happened before i met him. i had also been with a few more guys than i should have. he was a virgin when we met, and i know that for a fact. he sed that he cant stand being with someone who cant say that they were a virgin when they met. i just started crying and began to think that this was his lame excuse for not wanting to be with me anymore, and that he was trying to make it as bogus as possible. and it was working. then, jsut a few minutes before we hung up, he told me he had wished hed slept with every girl he had the chance to, jsut so i would know how it feels. i couldnt believe he was doing this to me,after so long, and after making a baby with me. so, needless to say, we broke up. well, just the night before last, i was trying to get a hold of him on the phone ( we still talk) and he wouldnt answer- so i tried a few more times before i went to bed, and called it a night. when i called him the next morning before school- i asked why he wasnt ansering his phone- he sed he got it taken away lastnight, and he was grounded. hes grounded alot of the time, so i figured id ask what it was this time. he bluntly told me it was becuase he told his parents he was at his friend's house, and it turns out he was at the movies with a girl from his old school. she used to come over all the time after school when no one was home, and theyd make out- i mean, it was almost an everyday thing. i could not believe he would do that to me. i asked him if anything happened, and he promised me no, but how am i to believe that? when he sed hed wished he had been with every girl that wuld give him the chancem and because they already have a past together. he sed i was making a big deal out of it. tha we werent together, so its not like he cheated on me, and that he was just going out with a friend. but he never went out with other girl when we were together. also, now him and his parents thnk i shuld put the baby up for adoption. their first grandchild!!!!!!!!!!! he thinks it wuld be a good idea, too!- his first child!!!!!!- i justcant believe all this is happeneing to me. it has brought me so much hurt and depression, and i jsut cant seem to get away from it, i know theres more to come. my questions are, do YOU think it wuld be best to opt for adoption?- how can i get over him being with other girls?- it hurts soooo bad. how am i gunna do this without my boyfriend? do u think i shuld try and get him back?- i want him back soooooooooo bad. i want everything to be the way it was. how could i get him back? and if theres anything else you wanna tell me go right ahead. i need all the advice i can get.
Hey girl... God, I can soooo relate to you. I too, was pregnant as a teenager. (I hope you don't mind me tellin' you this story) I was 17 and had told my boyfriend of 3 years (same age as me) that I was pregnant.. He said don't worry baby everything is going to be ok, I love you and were going to get married when we turn 18. 2 weeks later he pulled up at my house and told me it was over. I never seen him again. Everyone around me convinced me to have a abortion, my mom threated that if I didn't..she'd take away my car, kick me out and get me fired from my job. I felt like I didn't have a choice so I went through with it, against my better judgement. That one day changed my life forever. I lost my baby to a abortion that I did NOT want. I still cry at night almost 8 years later. So as far as his parents telling you to put your baby up for adoption.. if you don't want to..then you tell them to kiss you where the sun don't shine. There just looking out for there son, makin sure he dont have to take on any responsibilites, they don't care how you feel in all this. If you want him back, all you can do is just let him know how sorry you are that you had been with other ppl BEFORE you & him even met, but that you could only say you were sorry, you cant take back your actions. Also let him know that: "Regardless of what I did or didn't do before we even met doesn't change the situation now. I am having your baby and you need to step up and be a man" If he does decide he wants nothing to do with you or that baby, you take him to court for child support. His parents will have to pay on his behalf till he turns 18. Your parents and you shouldnt have all the finacial problems of this baby just on yall... He helped create this child and he needs to help take care of it. I know it hurts so bad when you need him the most right now and he is acting this way. Honestly, I think he's just scared and thought up that excuse as a way to back out. If those things REALLY did bother him so much, he wouldv'e told you a long time ago, not keep having sex with you then wait till your knocked up for it to suddenly start bothering him. So let him know that you know that he's scared and that he was just looking a way to back out...Let him know that your scared to...Scared of the baby we created never seeing his father because he acted like a coward. Don't let him run all over you or make you feel bad for things that now, you have no control over. You hold your head up high and listen to what I say..which is that EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. I give you tremendous respect for having the courage to stick through this pregnancy and everything. I know you might be scared that he might not be in your life but if he isn't I promise you, it won't hurt forever, even though it may seem that way now.
P.S. Sorry if it took me to long to get to this question, my computer had messed up over the weekend, I would never turn down a inbox question.
By the way, What are you going to name your baby?
I got my first real tatto about a month ago. Now, the artist never gave me a real talking to about it. He just said rub ointment on it for the first 2 days, then, keep putting lotion on it. Well, to make a long story short, it scabbed over & it looked horrible! I know this sounds stupid, but, I didn't think it would look normal, so, I did pick at it a little & now I lost some of the color. What can I do now? Is the only way to make it better is to go back to the artist & have a retouch. If so, will he have to do it all over again? Thanks.
Picking at it will most definately "remove" or Lighten the color of the tattoo. I'm sorry to say the only thing you can do here is get it re-touched. He/She won't have to re-do the whole tattoo, just the part that is messed up.
-Marine Wife -5 tattoo's here
My friends tell me I have HUGE boobs and it makes me feel kind of insecure, I know they mean it as a compliment, but I still feel that way. I also have glasses and there's no hope for contacts. I don't want guys to look past my boobs and just see my glasses, or look past my glasses and just see my boobs. How can I hide my insecurites better, and let my personality shine through. Please advise me!
I'm sorry.. I had to laugh when I read the question title, because I too, am a 4-eyed busty babe as you call it lol. I have triple D's and wear glasses. It's all a self esteem thing you having here. You just need to look in the mirror && know that what you see looking back at you-glasses && all...is freakin HOT. They way you present yourself is how ppl will look at you. You smile and just have a good time with life and that's how you will be seen, as a up-lifting great person to be around... You hold your head down because you have glasses, and you sink into the crowd and get labeled a Plain-Jane, and we both know you don't want that. Sure, some guys will look at you only for your chest, there creeps and there is no way around them... But some guys could care less about the out-side package and want to get to know the real you-and you got the rest of your life to find him.
Hope I helped ya'
-Marine Wife a.k.a 4-eyed busty babe :)
And if you're a girl...well I don't know how you know or are going to justify your answers. Anywhos what are main things guys HATE or LOATHE about girls and What do you guys LOVE and absolutly ADORE about girls.
Also, I'm a kind of girl that makes little trouble at school (like piss a teacher off for fun), outspoken at times, metal head, rocker chic, getting my drift? I'm that kind of a girl. Are guys interested in girls like that?
I am a girl-(I'm 24 so I guess a woman) and I can justify my answers. Everything I know, I know from all past relationships combined from when I was 16 up until now. I've asked many men what they looked for in a woman, just because it fasicnates the hell outta' me that we don't understand them...lol Here is a few thing's I've been told over the years:
WHAT THEY DON'T LIKE:
CLINGYNESS
DRAMA QUEENS
WHINEY BRATS
TRYING TO TALK LIKE A BABY
SUCKING ON PACIFERS -YEA THEY DO THAT HERE IN NC
TO MUCH JEALOUSY
ACTING LIKE YOUR BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE
WANTING TO KNOW THERE EVERY MOVE 24/7
CALLING TO MUCH (LIKE 4567481 TIMES A DAY)
TELLING THEM YOU LOVE THEM AFTER 2 DATES
TELLING THEM WHAT THEY CAN AND CANT DO
ACTING LIKE YOU WOULD JUST DIE IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE THEM.
LYING
WHAT THEY LOVE:
4 YOU TO BE PROUD OF THEM
TO BE TOLD THERE LOVED
2 BE A LIL' JEALOUS-I MEAN JUST A LIL' NOW..
MAKING THEM HEARTFELT LIL' SOMETHING'S
COMPLIMENTS -DON'T EVERYBODY NOW & THEN?
FOR YOU TO WINK AT EM'-SHOW EM' YOUR GAME!
FLIRTING
CUTE CLOTHES THAT DRAW ATTENTION TO U -NOT SLUTTY
LONG HAIR
FOR YOU TO BE INDEPENDENT
SMART
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP
NOT WISHY-WASHY ABOUT STUFF
Hope this helps, if not.. Hey! I did try!
-Marine Wife
i've never had sex... so i don't know why i'm freaking out. but i'm fifteen and terrified that some random sperm may have seeped into me or something, though that's not very likely, i'm just PARANOID. plus, i had a cold, and now my body aches and im freezing, but i think i just have a virus. i'm just scared because i didn't get my period this month. and as nasty as it sounds, i'm sure my brother is having sex with his girlfriend, and i masturbate with my hands, so. terrified. i've been having my period for a little over two years, and it's not really regular. i miss a month sometimes, or for instance it will come on the 22nd of june, skip a month, come on the 5th of july, come the 19th of august. who knows. but i'm totally freaking out. sorry, sorry, sorry for seeming so immature. but mostly i need reassurance that this isn't possible... i haven't been throwing up or anything. just. ugh. help?
ok, the other person that wrote to you telling you to tell your brother to wash his hands is insane. I mean what? Any left over sperm on your bother's hands could magically make it's way to YOUR vagina? ew. lol Girl...I don't know what causes you to get so stressed about something like this. The only way for you to get pregnant is if sperm enters your vagina. Not your head, not your big toe..no where but the vagina! You have a better chance on being ate by a shark while visiting New York- lol doesn't happen! So just chill out and try to get your mind off of this. Your not pregnant, I can assure you, if you have never had any type of sex, that your NOT pregnant. (P.S. Mastubation is a healthy thing and you would never get prego from doing something like that)
What are some stores should i go to to shop for homecomming dresses?
Websites would be nice;; the i can decided if i want ot go there or not..
ohh;; should the dresses be long or short?
my homecomming is this month on the 29th.
JCPENNYS BALL GOWNS AND HOMECOMING GOWNS:
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductList.aspx?deptid=597&catid=40149&pcatid=28247&shopby=0&cattyp=DEP&refpage=&dep=Women%27s&cat=homecoming&pcat=dresses%2bsuits&ttyp=&cmCatLevel=4&RefPageName=CategoryAll.aspx&RefCatID=28247&RefDeptID=597&CmCatId=597|28247|36954
I think this dress is gorgeous: http://about.pricegrabber.com/search_getprod.php/masterid=22027536/search=gown+womens
CHECK OUT THIS SITE: http://fashion.about.com/cs/dresses/tp/prom.htm?terms=prom
are there any other options given for pain during labor other than an epiduaral? i am really not wanting an epiduaral becuase of the fact that it enters through the spine, and i am so scared that theres a chance i might end up paralyzed for an inkling of a mistake. if there are any options, how are they administered? any help would be awesome. thank you so much in advance.
Because any medication given to a laboring mother can potentially affect the baby, the physician will weigh some important factors before recommending a pain-relief method for the patient.
Pain medications can be injected into a muscle, or, in many cases, into a vein by an IV. They rarely eliminate the pain completely, especially at the peak of a contraction. But they do make the discomfort more tolerable, which permits the laboring mother to rest more comfortably between contractions.
Here are the medicines and the effects it produces:
Systemic Analgesics - pain-relieving medicine that is injected into your vein or muscle. This medicine acts on your entire nervous system rather than just a certain part of your body.
Epidural Block - numbs or causes a loss of feeling in the lower half of your body. A specialist physician or anesthesiologist injects the block into the lower back.
Spinal Block - similar to an epidural and also provides good relief. The difference is that the medicine is only given one time in your back and it lasts only 1-2 hours.
Local Anesthesia - numbing medicine injected in the vaginal and rectal areas by your obstetrician at the time of delivery.
Hope this helps ya'
-Marine Wife
does anyone have any good ways to flirt
here is a awesome website for ya' http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html
Hope this helps
-Marine Wife
whats the song writer who sings the song i think its called concerete angel
Martine McBride
She walks to school with the lunch she packed
Nobody knows what she's holdin' back
Wearin' the same dress she wore yesterday
She hides the bruises with linen and lace
The teacher wonders but she doesn't ask
It's hard to see the pain behind the mask
Bearing the burden of a secret storm
Sometimes she wishes she was never born
Through the wind and the rain
She stands hard as a stone
In a world that she can't rise above
But her dreams give her wings
And she flies to a place where she's loved
Concrete angel
Somebody cries in the middle of the night
The neighbors hear, but they turn out the lights
A fragile soul caught in the hands of fate
When morning comes it'll be too late
Repeat Chorus
A statue stands in a shaded place
An angel girl with an upturned face
A name is written on a polished rock
A broken heart that the world forgot
my mom gave me the option of not entering high school. i really want to do that because i dont think high school is for me. i dont want a GED either.
what do i tell my friends? what will i do until im old enough to do anything (work)?
LOL Well I see you've already got 7 replies to your questions. I didn't bother reading them because I already know what they all said. "You will regret this for the rest of your life if you don't go back to school!!!" So here's what you tell them... I don't want to go to highschool and I don't want a GED either for that matter. I can work at McDonalds for the rest of my life and I'll be OK! And, maybe my mom can take me to work when I'm 40 because I know I won't be able to afford a car only making 5.15 a hour but who cares! I can walk, I aint got no problem with that!
You see how that sounds? I wasn't tryin' to be mean but just trying to let you know that by quitting highschool...telling your friends the news is the LEAST of your problems right now!! If High School aint for you... ya know whatever but at least get your GED. I quit High School too for the same reason but I got my GED. It only took me 2 months. SO why not take just a month or two and AT LEAST do that little bit for yourself?
-Marine Wife
what aree some foods or vitamins that i can take to enlarge my breasts?
No one can guarantee you a full, attractive bustline, but these natural methods, when applied properly, can safely improve your prospects. http://www.bustbeauty.com/articles/natural-breast-enlargement-article1.htm
(Don't expect a miracle the above website gives you pointers on exercises that will tone your breasts & a lotion that you can put on your breast that will tone the skin making it appear tighter-which is good if your breasts sag a bit)
Hope this helped
-Marine Wife