Question Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 6:25 pm
Whenever me and my boyfriend have sex i dont feel anything.. like no pleasure or anything..
and no matter what we do nothing seems to work.. whats wrong with me? :S
If your just not feeling any pleasure..there is something you can do about that. However, there is a large number of women that can not orgasam from sex and if that's the case for you, don't feel bad.. it's not your fault and there's nothing wrong with you. One night when your feelin' frisky and alone, try to please yourself, find something that works for you. the problem may be that your G-spot (which makes you feel pleasure) is just not being stimulated. It's hard for a man to try to please you if you don't know even know how to please yourself or at least find out what makes you feel some pleasure. The woman's G-spot is located inside the vagina and there is another G-spot at the top part of your vagina just as the lips start (if ya' get my drift) there is a small "bump" located there and when arroused, it can get to be the size of a small pearl.
Now, if what you were saying is you can't even feel him in you..then you have a problem...He just isn't big enough for you..If you feel comfortable enough talking to him, suggest you using a vibrator when yall do have sex so you can get pleasure from that-then everyone's happy.
sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday September 17 2006, 7:23 pm: Many women aren't sexually stimulated by plain sexual intercourse. My advice would be for you to experiment with yourself a bit and find what's called your clitoris. Figure out what feels good and let your boyfriend know. While you are having sex, include your clitoris. That should solve your problem. Good luck and make sure that you use a condom unless you are trying to get pregnant. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
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