If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high (link)
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Amy. Pam makes me think of my friend's fat mom. I'm sorry Mrs. Z
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is it true drinking a lot of milk will help your boobs grow?
im not sure; somebody started spreading a rumor about it in my school, thats all. (link)
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No, this is a rumor.
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how do you flirt with random guys at the mall. Like, if you don't know them and you walk by them and you totally know they're looking at you. Please no advice saying talk to them unless you add more detail to it- like how to start a conversation. Also, how can I try to walk by them in the mall with out making it seem like I'm a stalker? Thanx tons.
I rate high!
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If you're hott, anything will do. Guys don't think you're a stalker if you approach them. We like it;saves us work. Now, if you actually find a guy at the mall, he's prolly either there with his gf or gay. I don't know any straight and single guys that just hang out at the mall. Laugh at his jokes, flirt, ya know, all that shit.
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Whats the fascination girls have over 6-packs? When my gf starts talking about celebrities, athletes, or other guys that have them, she drools over them and I feel miserable about myself and left out, I mean what am I supposed to say to that? I don't know if thats her way of telling me I should have one or what. It kind of bothers me, but I don't know if telling my gf that would do any good. All her other friends think the same thing, I just don't see whats so great about it...so what is it and what do you think I should do? (link)
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We feel the same way about legs, tits or asses. Not all women like 6 packs, but a lot do and that's their choice. I believe six packs should only deal with beer. She likes six packs and I like legs. Same type thing.
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Ok, well this isn't a question, but I wanted to let you know that I read your answer for that girl who asked about abortion and I have to say, that I totally agree with you. She asked for your opinion and she shouldn't rate you a 1 for it. Again, good job. I hate it when someone gives a fake answer just to get a good rating. I just wanted to let you know.
x3 Erin (link)
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Thanks Erin.
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In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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I really don't know how else or how many times I have to answer this same question. If your bf puts his dick inside of you, there is always the remote chance you will get pregnant. The longer he's in there, the bigger the chance. Especially, unprotected. Precum can get you pregnant. The chances of you getting pregnant are low, but are you willing to take that chance? Second thing, yeah thats normal he goes for about 5 minutes. Commend him. He could be a minute man. Third, if your pregnany test came out negative, you shouldn't be pregnant. But if you're having to ask this many questions about sex, you're not ready to be having it. Rate me low, I don't care. I'm not here for ratings, I'm here to give answers.
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I had my wisdom teeth pulled Tuesday and its Saturday now, and i'm still kind of swollen and the inside of my mouth is VERY swollen. how long will it take for this to go away permanently?? (link)
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Swelling peaks 72 hours after surgery. So the whole thing takes about a week to subside.
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My friend is 13 and ran half a mile in 5 mins and 13 seconds. Is that slow, regular, or fast? (link)
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For a 13 year old, it's not too bad. Thats on pace for about an 11 minute mile b/c you slow down as you go further. Obviously, as your friend(or is it you?) gets older, they're gunna get stronger in the legs and everywhere else. Plus you didn't say if you were a boy or girl.
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ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
help! (link)
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Depending on what kind of porn it was, it's normal. If it was animal or kiddie kind of porn, then obviously this is a little deeper issue.
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I'm 16/f and I have my license but I'm just starting to learn to drive stick and I have a question. What happens if (and I know you're not supposed to do this) while you have the clutch down to switch gears, you keep the gas going as well? (link)
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Ok, it's gunna rev REALLY loud if you do that. This sounds cool, but it's damaging your engine.Since you already know not to do this, you're ahead of the game.
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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
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Well I suppose it could end next tuesday,but I'm gunna put my money on June 7th arriving.
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Do guys find it sexy when a girl asks them out? (link)
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Yes.
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I don't think there's enough questions on advicenators that mention abortions. I assume there's more females on this site then males, so why does it seem like there are mainly pro-life supporters? We're women. Women with so many choices and laws that allow us those choices. I agree in having your own opinion, but never force it onto someone else. If someone is considering an abortion, why talk them out of it, bringing it up as a sin and disgusting? I'm proud to be pro-choice & you'd think nowadays more women would be. Why aren't you? (link)
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Because you had your choice already. You had sex. Now you've created a life and because you fucked up, this baby now must pay. Give it up for adoption if you don't want it, but don't give me this bullshit about it not being alive. It kicks, it needs nutrition, it breathes, heartbeat. What you call pro choice, I call pro death. Give me a 1 on that rating thing, I don't care. But you asked for my opinion. I'm not a religious man, but I'm glad I won't have to stand before God one day and say I killed my own baby.
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what are the chanches of a condom breaking when have sex? (link)
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I read somewhere in a study of 50 fertile couples where condoms were the only method of birth control used, 8 women got pregnant. None of the men did. So your chances are about 16% of it breaking.
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i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person? (link)
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Question 1. My boyfriend and I were having sex and he got me pregnant. Question 2. See your doctor Question 3. No you aren't a horrible person, but you made a mistake. Now you have to own up to it. Give it up for adoption. You're being selfish by getting pregnant and not doing the proper things to care for your kid. Face the music and take responsibility for your actions.
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i do not understand why everyone is always saying "don't have sex" all i hear from teachers now is "sex will ruin your life, it hurts you, its horrible, don't do it, you'll regret it, yada yada yada" um, you wouldn't be here if it weren't for your parents having sex. teachers shouldn't say this. it is actually a great thing if you do it at the right time. i think they should tell us the disadvantages of having sex when you are young, not just in general NOT HAVING SEX. is there a reason why people tell us this? (link)
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Yes. Because sex is a very VERY powerful thing. You could create another human being by what you are doing. So you better do it with someone you truly care about and when you're 16, most people aren't in love. Sorry, but they're not. Sex is great, but you said it yourself, "if you do it at the right time" and a lot of the time, people don't. Plus warts on my dick are not on my Christmas list. You don't know who the other person has slept with, or if they have anything, or what, and it can complicate things. Guys:it's no big deal. It felt good, I got off. Girls: It's the next step in our relationship, he must love me. See my point?
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My prom date is the hottest guy is the entire school. At frist I was happy that I was going with him but lately I have been running to a bit of a problem. A LOT of girls like him. So when I'm with him they are like all over him, whenever I'm around them they'll say little comments about him, and they ALWAYS try to flirt with him. He doesn't really flirt back that much wiht them in front of me (but i know he does when i'm not around) but he doesn't really signal for them to stop either. Eventhough the girls are getting on my nerves I'm still going to prom with him. So I want to know how can I deal with this. (link)
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Ok here goes: Guys like when other girls hit on them. Boosts egos. It's not personal. Wouldn't you like other guys to hit on you? Feed your ego a little? He's not the hottest guy in your entire school. But he thinks he is. And you think he is. If you like him(like as a person, not just b/c he's hott), tell them straight up "Hey get your fuckin hands off my boyfriend" and then laugh. And then say "No really" But if he wants to fuck them, he will and in this case drop him to the curb. Unless you want gonorrhea.
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Dear Advicenators,
I am a 16 yr old girl And I like this boy that works at a local grocery store. he is also 16. We flirt alot and we always smile at eachother, and we have hung out once with mutual friends,and i always go through his line but the thing is he wont ask me out. I was told he liked me and he knows I like him, but i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend before, and I am very traditional and I dont feel comfortable asking a boy out. what can i do to get him to ask me out, i think were hanging out again this weekend. Help!
-Stuck on him in Florida. (link)
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If you like him, then why waste time? Just say "Hey (insert name here), let's go out for coffee/movies/casual sex sometime." If you put in casual sex, I guarantee he'll say yes. No but really, the only reason you don't feel comfortable is the fear of rejection. If there's no fear of rejection(or even if there was), ask him out.
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im 12 years old, and i think im pregnant. my boyfriend of 3 years nad i had sex lats night and im suffering from all the sypmtoms. but he pulled out, i promies, so i don get it. am i pregnant (link)
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Well, you could be. Having sex at 12 is really, really bad, but it can result in pregnancy. See a doctor soon and he can be able to determine for sure. I can't answer your question from here.
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Is it true that guys give other guys blowjobs and/or handjobs at sleepovers? I heard that they did so I'm just wondering. If they do, do the guys swallow the cum or spit it out? Thanks! (link)
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If they're gay, they might. If they're straight, well probably not. And as for whether the gays spit or swallow cum, it depends on the preference of that guy. Please don't ask anymore questions like this. Ever.
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