17/F. My girlfriend dumped me just before Christmas saying she was unhappy with me. Now she won't talk to me. I won't be back in school for a week because I'm going on a family trip. I can only talk to her in school becuase she won't answer her phone. We were doing great for a week or two, then it all came unglued. Should i confront her or just move on?
You should confront her first before moving on. So that way you won't regrett for moving on without knowing. You can ask her what's wrong?.. why is she ignoring you? and etc. talk it all out. if it doesn't work out .. then I think you've reach to your conclusion by then.
hope it works out though. good luck. =]
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how do i say goobye to some one i love more than any one in the world with out hurtng him or me? because i have to do thi but i dont no how help me
First of all, why would you want to say goodbye if you love him more than anyone in the world? but you have your reasons. Every goodbyes are gonna hurt. you can't help that hunn. His feelings will be torn either way... cuz you're no longer part of his life. But if he loves you then he'll try to understand whatever reasons you give him. He'll be happy as long as you're happy. Just try to be honest with him and tell him that you don't mean any harm or try to hurt him. its a phase that you're going through and you need some times to yourself. Its not his fault, there's nothin he can do to help other than let you be independence for a while. but you guys can still be friends. those sorta things. I hope it helps a bit.
try it out and see... good luck and hopefully everything works out.
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Alright, this kid Ive known for like, not even a year, is really confusing. At first, he was hooking up with my friend, then, he got a girlfriend, and then, we started hanging out. So then out of the blue he got a girlfriend and didn't talk to me for months. But of course after they break up he comes back and apologizes and everything? Me, STILL not over him even though he treated me like shit, accepted that and fell for him even more.
So then, we were fine, hooked up and everything, and then next day hes like, blahblahblah you were my rebound and I feel like an asshole blahblah, I dont want you to be that so give me awhile, and Im like, ohk well we already hooked up, so your going to just leave it at that and expect me not to feel like a rebound, and he was trying to be sweet about it and everything but I wouldnt give up and he said he didnt need/want me. So yeah I was really upset and the next night somehow things evened out and we were ohk, but now we're back to the oh I love you stuff. The thing is I really do love him and I dont know if he feels th same for me? Urg, i dont know.
I just need opinions, and what you think I should do. Thanks.
well it sounds to me like he doesn't really like/love you. He's just using you for hook-ups and nothing more. Maybe you make yourself too available and he's taking advantage of it. I know you love him and you want him. But you need to make him work you get to you. If you're too easy then he would treat you like crapp and unappreciate what he have.
I've experience this myself. then I realized that he's just using me... I dropped him. Then he's crawling back like usual. But this time I make him work for it. He can't get me whenever he wants.
So I think you should get the lead wit this guy. He doesn't take control .. you should be controllin, and make the rules. Shows him you know what you want and worth. You're not one of those trashy sluts that he can hook up wit when he wants or feels like. it can be hard to do but if you're strong enough you won't fall for his games. and you won't get hurt. It mights be the other way around.
anyways hope I help. good luck =] and happie new year.
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I didn't know what category to put it in, but oh well. I'm interested in getting a sidekick 3 for chrtistmas or something, and I was wondering if anybody could just.. tell me all about it.
Like, the montly cost and everything. My friend told me that for 40 bucks ( just normal cellphone bills ) you can get unlimited texting and everything and calls, but then I heard from someone else you only get minutes and you can't get unlimited anything.
So just if anybody has one or knows about it, can anybody just fill me in on anything about sidekick 3s?
I own one.. and well the phone itself cost $300 if you get 2 yrs contract and $400 (I think) if you get one year contract (Since its holiday season right now check to see if they have discount). For the bill, you can get $20 for unlimted aim, text, and internet. As for the mins that depends on what plan you have with t-mobile. Hope I help out =].
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wrong category.. okok! Is a sidekick 3 a phone as well? Like or is it just for txting??
ahh thank youu
Yes the sidekick 3 is also a phone. Its part of t-mobile plan. You can text, instant message, phone and internet. If you need more information you can visit this website... www.sidekick3.com
Hope I help.. =].
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okay, well one of my best friends whom i love a lot!!! ,is really TOO into her boyfriend, like i love her to death but i want to find a way to let her know that she is way to clingy. because, well im really close with her boyfriend to, and ive known him longer and hes also one of my best friends and hes told me that he is gonna break up with her over this clingy issue, and i dont want them to break up because they are a really cute couple and i know that they live each other.. and well, is there a way to tell her to stop without having to tell her what HE said, because since im also friends with him i cant go tell her because that would make him mad at me.. etc, so im in a tough situation.. HELP!!!
Well you can go by telling her that you want an one on one with her. Then you can say you don't want her to take it the wrong way or anything. But from your opinion, you feel she's a bit clingy to her bf. Guys like it better when girls are less clingy. Also you can give her girls advices so that it wouldn't make you look like you're concern instead of have her think you're jealous or think a wrong way about you. Either way you help her out and didn't tell her wut her bf (your bestfriend) told you. Good luCk!.. Hope I helped. =]
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I'm a 15 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario Canada.
where, in any stores, could I buy a pair of uggs? because I really want a pair for christmas just dunno where to get em.
help?!
You can buy it at the mall. Northstrom; shoes section will have it. Hope I help =].
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OK, my question is simply this: How do you get a guy outta your head? Now, believe it or not, I am 30 years old! I have a huge crush on this guy that I possibly can't have, but, he is all I think about constantly. How do ya just get over it & stop liking someone? Thanks.
Well you can try to think of someone else or date someone else. You shouldn't try to force him out of your mind. That would only make you think of him even more. Just let it happen, go through your daily life normally, do your own thing, and time will make you forget about him. In a while, you will find someone you will like and like you back.
When you like someone when you shouldn't, its only put pressure on yourself and you're only hurting you. (its not that you can help it). The best thing is to let go a little each day. Don't push too hard. I hope that helps. good luck =)
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i was just wanting to know what are some things that a girl can do to the guy while making out to give him satisfaction. like besides just kissing his lips while he does stuff. thanks
tounge.!! lol. you can bite his bottom lip a little not too hard. umm it also depends what kind of kisser he is too. if he is aggressive or gentle. you can touch his hair and touch his face. hope I help. good luck =D
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Okay so im getting this kitten and its a boy but i dont know what im gonna need for him as far as supplies so can anyone give me a list of things i will need for him and 2 more things 1st one does anyone know the best brand food for kittens? 2nd thing does anyone know any good names for a baby boy kitten?
Thanx in advance:)
well 1st the best brand is I AM.. you can buy diff kinds. There's a specific type for kittens. 2nd umm you can name it by its behavior? observe it and think of a name that fit. (hope that helps). and othet items are: toys (littly mouse, scratch pat, etc. ), litter box, food, cat nip, place for it to sleep and I that's pretty much it. I hope it works out. Hopefully things I listed help. good luck =]
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im homeschooled, but i am so ready to go back to school. Someone said that if you are homeschooled, you have to wait until the next semester to start back regular school, but i really dont want to wait until january. so is it true that you have to wait? or can you start abck school at anytime? please helppp !
i think you should wait until january because if you start now, you would be lost. You wouldn't know what are the kids learning, and there's a final exam coming up soon. Its better to wait for a new semster so that case you would know what's the teacher is teaching. hope that helps. good luck!
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My Grandam is very sick and might die!! I cant deal with the pain it is causing my family ecspecially my dad! Every time a tear comes to his eye it comes to mine!You see my grandpa went down to cincinati to have open heart surgery and he made it through fine. That night my grandam started to not be able to breathe so they took her to the hospital. Now she has to have open heart and is sooo frail she might not survive! Is there any way to stop me from crying all the time and to be sad some of the time not all? ANd any ideas on how to cheer my grandpa up? Let me know thanks!
well hunnie, I know you're hurt because you might be losing someone you love and care for. There's nothing you can really do other than think of the good times and make the best out of it for her and yourself. If something goes wrong (I hope not) then at least you're left with memories.
About your grandfather, you can have a heart to heart talk with him. Talk about how you both feel, whether its sad or happy, letting it out always make a person feel better. Be there with him and comfort him, let him know everything will be alright, think positively, pray (I don't know if it helps but I always do).
I hope I helped and hope your grandma will be alright. good luck sweetie.
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i have been in love with this amazing guy for 2 years. he has been my everything. but he moved shortly after we fell in love. and its just been downhill from there. he recently came down to visit me. and showed up at christmas last year. when hes away, it seems like he doesnt care. he dates on and off with girls up where he lives. but he tells me he loves me. but when hes down here, im the only girl he sees. and he is totally mine. he knows the situations in my life. (they arent really all that great... parents and school and friends problems) but it just seems like he only cares about me when hes here. i told him that i needed him to express his love more to me because hearing it would help me get through all this shit. and he tried calling. but noone answered cause we were in a family arguement. (go figure. we always are). and everytime i try to leave him, he says something that keeps me right here waiting for him. hes my first love. (if that matters) i want to let go, but i need someone to help me through this. i know that if i try to let go, hes gonna try and keep me here waiting for him. we talk about our "future" constantly. so what do i do?
I've been in your situation before. If a guy does that to you, he's not worth waiting for. Apparently he's not waiting for you. He's out there experiencing and having a time of his life while you're here waiting for him. If he really loves you then he wouldn't date any other girls. Guys likes to have a girl on a side that's always going to be there. If he doesn't have a chick, he goes to you. You can get a courage to stand up for yourself and end it with him. Be strong, let him know you're not always going to be around. If he say one of those sweet things that make your heart melt, try not to fall for it. Its hard I know, but if he knows he doesn't have you then maybe he'll try harder to get you. When he waits for you and he would do anything for you til he goes broke, then that's when he really loves you. Distance shouldn't be a problem, if he loves you that shouldn't be the issue to your relationship.
he seems like my ex. He's there for you and all. Sweet talk, show that he cares, its like you're the only girl in his life. But really, you don't know how many other girls he mighs be saying the same thing to. He makes you laugh when you're down. He talks you through your problems. You know that he's the one but does he think the same way? You guys might talk about the future but is he really going to put it in action? think it through. Look at all the possibilities and use your head less. Listen to how you feel toward the situation and put it into action. if he loves you, he won't go anywhere. Its hard to forget your first love. He'll always be in your heart. All I can say is do what you think is right because in the end it is you that's making a choice, it is that might get hurt or be loved. Whatever the consequence is, it is up to you.
I hope I helped out. good luck. and hope you make the right choice. (don't rate if you don't like the advice or it doesn't help nor make any sense)
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Hey!
I'm going ice skating at rockefeller center, a great place in the city, with the boy i like, his friend, and my 2 girlfriends. I really want to impress the boy i like but not be so obvious. I dont know what to wear, or how to act at all.
PLEASE GIVE TIPS!!
you can wear jean, a nice long sleeve shirt or a tank top wit a sweater cuz its gonna be cold. .. scarve? .. shoes ugg? or well you're going to be wearing skating shoes anyways. another thing is be yourself, don't over dress.
also don't fall too much. =']. hope I help out and good luck.
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So my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex less than a week ago and I took the morning after pill. This pill could make my period come late and I may get cramps after taking it. Well, after I took the pill I was perfectly fine, and I've gotten my period on schedule. However, I'm having incredibly painful cramps. I'm taking midol every six hours, and it only gives me slight relief for about 20 minutes. I'm wondering if I could be having a miscarriage, or if this morning-after pill I took is having side-effects almost a week later. I usually have a very easy menstrual cycle, with little cramps, normal bleeding etc. Now I'm hardly bleeding and having killer cramps. Does anyone know what I could possibly be going through? If it helps, I'm 16 years old. Thanks in advance.
I don't think its a miscarriage. Its maybe just cramp. Take some more midols and if the pain is excrutial and continues then I suggest you should see a doctor.
-good luck.
* (for the comment below)by the way 16 might be consider a young age to be having sex but most kids have sex when they're around 14*
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Why do people get tired after sex? I know, it's a stupid question but...
people get tired after sex is because there are a lot of physical movement involves. It also depends on who is doing all the work, if the guy is doing all the work.. then he's most likely to be more tired.
well hope that helps. =]
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okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he is getting kind of upset because i cannot open up to him. opening up as in telling him how i feel about everything, our whole relationship. i am completely in love with him so i know thats not it. i want to be able to i just can`t find the words to say he wants to know what i think about it, how i feel about him, etc etc... i have tried but, i can`t and this is a really big deal to him and i want to be able to do this for him. so can someone please help me or send me ur sn. i`ll rate high!
maybe you can't tell him how you feel is because you don't trust him? Or its hard for you open up to your bf. You should take it slow, tell him the importance things. Show him that you love him too before you lose him. The rest will come naturally and later on when you're more comfortable and ready to be open with him. Being openly with someone that means that person must have all your trust. That's when you're allowing to tell that person how you feel. You might be scared, what if you open up and he doesn't respond or etc.
I hope I helped out a little .. here's my sn: shiet itz vy. Maybe I can help a lito more if we talk. =']
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(May be kind've long, but bear with me)
Alright, so I have this friend, she is a girl, she's 16 (im 15). Everytime i hang out with my boyfriend, her and my boyfriend's friends (who are all 16 as well), all the attention seems to go to her whenever she is around. I dont mean to be mean or anything, but it just seems like no one pays any attention to me. Im not tryin to be a bitch or anything, its just im jealous, because even sometimes my boyfriend talks to her more than me some days, but then walks over to say hi to me and hug me because he sees me not talking to anyone or i just look upset. The reason im not talking to anyone is because i cant relate to anything they talk about and the things i like to talk about dont interest them. Also, my friend is a tomboy, as am i (sort've), but she is built better than me, like she has bigger boobs..blah blah.. so i think thats the reason behind everything...so, ya. I dont want to mean mad at everyone because they are focusing on her and not me. Could someone give me advice to do something before something bad happens?
well jealousy is something you can't help. You can't help it to be mad at her for getting all the attentions.. you want some to especially from your boyfriend.
Since you said you're kinda like a tomboy, why don't you talk to the guys about what they like to do or video games, things that guys like to do and you also comfortable talking about it to them.
The thing with your boyfriend is that he mights talk to her more sometimes, maybe is because they're same age. But you're the one that's with him not her. He likes you apparently not because of your big boobs and facial things. He likes you because of your inner beauty and realistic.
So you can try to relate to them. Talk about things that you and them both like. I have a friend, he's a junior and he's going out wit a freshman. She gets along with his friends pretty well. She's just being herself. She's somewhat a tomboy too. Guys don't necessary likes girly girl. They're being shallow when they talk to those girls. So yeah, try talking to them with both of yours interest and talk to your boyfriend about how you feel about that girl getting all the attention. Afterward, you can get more attention.
hope everything will works out for you. good luck
-vyvy =']
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okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!
how about you should let her know how you feel about her. Being straight up with her is one way to solve this problem. You can tell her you don't mean anything offensive so don't take it the wrong way. Then you can go on tell her how she should be herself instead of trying to impress others because you and your friends are not impressed.
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I was wondering if anyone knew a site where i can meet guy penpals from the ages of 14-16 .. I dont want preppy penpals though I want the "emo" penpals. So if anyone can give me a site that would be great
go here .. www.imbee.com .. it's like myspace but it's for kids from 14 up .
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