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how to tell a friend...
okay, well one of my best friends whom i love a lot!!! ,is really TOO into her boyfriend, like i love her to death but i want to find a way to let her know that she is way to clingy. because, well im really close with her boyfriend to, and ive known him longer and hes also one of my best friends and hes told me that he is gonna break up with her over this clingy issue, and i dont want them to break up because they are a really cute couple and i know that they live each other.. and well, is there a way to tell her to stop without having to tell her what HE said, because since im also friends with him i cant go tell her because that would make him mad at me.. etc, so im in a tough situation.. HELP!!!
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Well you can go by telling her that you want an one on one with her. Then you can say you don't want her to take it the wrong way or anything. But from your opinion, you feel she's a bit clingy to her bf. Guys like it better when girls are less clingy. Also you can give her girls advices so that it wouldn't make you look like you're concern instead of have her think you're jealous or think a wrong way about you. Either way you help her out and didn't tell her wut her bf (your bestfriend) told you. Good luCk!.. Hope I helped. =]
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Ok well i think that if you concider her your friend you should tell her because if she finds out through any other way she wont forgive you. I had the same problem with my friend but instead her boyfriend was cheating on her. I was not gonna tell her cuz i was afraid she would get hurt but i decided to tell her because then it was gonna hurt her more. Talk to your friend calmly and tell her that she should change her ways because she is kind of making the guy uncomftrable. Tell her what he told you but tell her that he trusted you but you love them both and dont want to see them apart. Maybe she wont tell him you told but if he does get mad at you think of it as at least you saved their relationship...Thats all you can do..hope it all goes good=D
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