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how can i tell....
how can i tell that my friends are really my friends?.. i mean i just got out of a fight with a bunch of my friends and well, we've been in fights b4 too (just as bad) and well i just want to know how i can really tell if we are friends.. because i dont want to have to deal with the fighting drama and bullsh*t again.. please help
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
-real friends dont start mess with each other
-make you happy when you down
-real friends never fight
-real friends have your back
-real friends are honest
-real friends are like your sistas that close
if your friends aren't like that looks like you need new ones
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Ahh, yes... How I remember this kind of stuff when I was in high school...
I can't tell you how to tell if they are your friends or not, because I don't know what the fights are all about.
However, I can tell you that girls can be serious assholes until they grow some maturity and realize life after high school doesn't care about stupid dramas. I think it has a lot to do with in high school, there is nothing else better to do, and it is stupid.
I had friends like that in school. Usually it would start with one friend tells another friend you said something rude that you didn't really say just to start a fight between you and the other friend. I call this "I want to pick a fight with her, but I don't have the balls to do it myself" AKA "Chicken Shit Fight Picking."
Then, of course, there is the one where a girl or two decide to spice up their day by turning on one of their friends and talk a bunch of crap on her and try to turn everyone else against her. I call this "This week's smack talking fad."
These types of people are not really your friends if they are going to get their rocks off at the expense of your feelings.
So if this is the type of fights you are talking about (or a reasonable facsimile) they aren't really your friends. Friends don't hurt friends for fun.
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call them all big fat ugly monsters. the ones that are your friends are the ones that laugh at that.
theres no one answer for this question. the best way is to get 1 - 2 people, and just hang out with them, take them everywhere you go, go everywhere with them, even combined with other people, but this way you have your own little trust between eachother.
"if you die with one best friend, one friend you can count on your entire life, and to help you with all of your problems...you've done good"
-Paul Raymond
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