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my friends..
(May be kind've long, but bear with me)
Alright, so I have this friend, she is a girl, she's 16 (im 15). Everytime i hang out with my boyfriend, her and my boyfriend's friends (who are all 16 as well), all the attention seems to go to her whenever she is around. I dont mean to be mean or anything, but it just seems like no one pays any attention to me. Im not tryin to be a bitch or anything, its just im jealous, because even sometimes my boyfriend talks to her more than me some days, but then walks over to say hi to me and hug me because he sees me not talking to anyone or i just look upset. The reason im not talking to anyone is because i cant relate to anything they talk about and the things i like to talk about dont interest them. Also, my friend is a tomboy, as am i (sort've), but she is built better than me, like she has bigger boobs..blah blah.. so i think thats the reason behind everything...so, ya. I dont want to mean mad at everyone because they are focusing on her and not me. Could someone give me advice to do something before something bad happens?
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well jealousy is something you can't help. You can't help it to be mad at her for getting all the attentions.. you want some to especially from your boyfriend.
Since you said you're kinda like a tomboy, why don't you talk to the guys about what they like to do or video games, things that guys like to do and you also comfortable talking about it to them.
The thing with your boyfriend is that he mights talk to her more sometimes, maybe is because they're same age. But you're the one that's with him not her. He likes you apparently not because of your big boobs and facial things. He likes you because of your inner beauty and realistic.
So you can try to relate to them. Talk about things that you and them both like. I have a friend, he's a junior and he's going out wit a freshman. She gets along with his friends pretty well. She's just being herself. She's somewhat a tomboy too. Guys don't necessary likes girly girl. They're being shallow when they talk to those girls. So yeah, try talking to them with both of yours interest and talk to your boyfriend about how you feel about that girl getting all the attention. Afterward, you can get more attention.
hope everything will works out for you. good luck
-vyvy =']
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